We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
This isn't just any
Surrogacy Journey...
…and we’re not a typical surrogacy agency. That’s why surrogates choose us first.
And it’s why we have one of the best surrogate support platforms in the industry.
For the last 3 years, Surrogacy Is has been inspiring the most amazing moms to become surrogates, helping them find their perfect agency, and supporting them along the way, at no cost to them.
That’s how we’ve helped over 1500 candidates start their surrogacy journeys since 2020.
In our search to find the “perfect agency” for the incredible moms who choose to become surrogates, we’ve learned so much. We’ve learned how some of the most solid and supportive agencies thrive, and we’ve learned where many break down, even the best ones.
And in this search, we’ve realized something… to find our ideal agency, we needed to create it ourselves… and now we’ve done just that.
Surrogacy stories from
Real-Life Supermoms
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Here's what to know about how we advocate for surrogates...
We’ve designed our agency with YOU in mind…
We will be honest about whether or not we have parents who are looking for candidates just like you. If we don’t have the right match for you, we can share your profile with our partner agencies that we’ve vetted and trust, so you don’t waste hours filling out long-form applications only to be turned away or ignored or worse — land with an agency you regret!
We insist on stellar communication…
From your first contact with us, all the way through Intake, Matching, and Journey Coordination, you will always be up to date and have clarity on what’s coming next. If you have questions, you can count on us to pick up the phone or reply to your text or email the same day.
We help you find fair surrogacy compensation
We help you to set your base surrogacy compensation to make sure it’s fair and you are getting what you deserve for the generous gift you’re giving! Aside from your base, our benefit package is thoughtful and among the best (if not THE BEST) in the industry, because it was designed by surrogates who know the sacrifice it takes to help someone bring their baby into the world.
We’re with you every step of the journey
We provide free coaching to navigate the complex journey, through webinars, our online groups, and one-on-one calls whenever you need it! Each of our Surrogate Advocates are experienced surrogates themselves. Our Journey Coordinators have years of experience under their belts, and bring unique skills to the table such as a background in Social Work, Midwifery, and Mental Health. Our team is committed to providing wrap around support for parents and surrogates on this once in a lifetime journey.
And the best part is...
advocating for surrogates benefits everyone.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Morgan & La’Phadra
Surrogate Advocate & Experienced Surrogate
We are true
surrogate advocates
A surrogate advocate is a person or group who truly advocates for the brave, amazing moms who decide to become surrogates.
We take being surrogate advocates very seriously. Being a surrogate advocate isn’t a marketing gimmick. It’s not a side-hustle. It’s everything.
Surrogates, in our eyes, are the most important piece of this equation. And being surrogate advocates doesn’t mean we don’t advocate for intended parents.
Quite the opposite.
We believe that advocating for surrogates is the key to the smoothest and most successful surrogacy journeys possible.
While most agencies say they “advocate” for the surrogate, do they really?
If you think about it, the perspective many agencies have comes down to human nature. Most agencies are intended parent focused, because that’s the ultimate client they’re designed to serve. And that’s okay! We serve intended parents, too!
After all, the purpose of a surrogacy agency is to help intended parents achieve their dream of having a baby, and we think that’s an absolutely noble purpose. It’s our purpose, too!
But far too often, the surrogate’s interests can be dismissed, so a true surrogate advocate helps balance that equation.
We’re not looking to tip the scales, just balance them.
No, we don’t think so. If someone truly advocates for surrogates, the interests and experience of the surrogate should be the mission of the company. Their organization should be surrogate focused first & foremost.
That doesn’t mean that intended parents aren’t a focus, as well. But it’s our philosophy that, a well-prepared, well-informed, well-supported surrogate is the cornerstone of the most successful surrogacy journeys.
How we serve intended parents is by taking great care of the surrogates who make the surrogacy journey possible.
And we’re not talking about creating surrogacy divas here. We’re talking about ensuring equal support, and mutual respect. We believe that, if the end goal is for the intended parent(s) to bring home their sweet baby, and for the surrogate (and her family) to have their lives changed in the most positive way, this is how it’s done.
Here’s what’s important to know about us. We’re surrogate advocates first. That’s how we started, and that’s what we’ll always be.
Every surrogate that goes through our process gets the following things that most (all?) agencies don’t offer:
- A surrogate advocate who supports you through your journey 100% free
- Access to a library of video and other resources to help you feel confident and prepared each step of the way
- Ongoing mental health support throughout the journey and up to 6 months postpartum
- One-on-one IVF Education and Injection Support
Most surrogacy agencies have long lists of intended parents waiting to be matched with their perfect surrogate. If an advocacy group is owned by such an agency, it might be difficult for them to truly encourage any surrogate who enters their process to consider all of her options when they really want her to work with their agency—regardless of whether that’s the best fit for her.
Because we spent our formative years building a platform and relationship with our partner agencies, it’s easy for us to know what each of their IP clientele is looking for and when a surrogate might be happier and have a better match through another program than our own. We only want to manage journeys that we can do an excellent job, so if we cannot offer that to a surrogate candidate, we have no motivation not to be honest about that!
And here’s what’s important for you to know about working w/ Surrogacy Is… we’ve spent the past 3+ years getting to know the ins and outs of over 100 agencies, and in that process we’ve narrowed it down to a small handful that truly meet the bar we set for our partners — if my sister wanted to be a surrogate, would I feel confident referring her to this agency? If the answer is not a resounding yes, then we don’t refer to them. It’s that simple.
But all this knowledge has also empowered us to create a program so special and unique, that takes the lessons from the best of the best and pitfalls we’ve seen so many agencies run into throughout our careers in this industry, that Surrogacy Is as an agency, is truly a gold standard in Journey Coordination and Support for Surrogates and Intended Parents. We’re so excited to be able offer this option to Surrogates and IP’s and make the journey feel seamless from beginning to end. We live for this work and to hear those words at the end of every journey “I could not have done this without you.”
We’ve got you.
Not just an agency, but yes.
We started off as surrogate advocates, and we’ll always be surrogate advocates first and foremost.
We’re not an agency that starts a “surrogate advocate group” as a marketing gimmick. If you’re already an agency, why not just advocate for surrogates as an agency, if you truly care about advocating for surrogates?
And there are agencies that truly do this for surrogates, don’t get us wrong. For example, the agencies we provided in the past as options for you are agencies who truly advocate for surrogates.
So, if anything, we’re surrogate advocates that started an “agency” to better serve our surrogates. If we can be the best option and fit for what you need in your journey, then we should be your agency.
Can you see the difference?
So, if you haven’t yet, take our 8-minute quiz, then schedule a 1-on-1 call with a surrogate advocate (they’re experienced surrogates, too!) and they can walk you through what surrogacy could look like for you and your family!
(The content above has been updated to better fit our definition of what a surrogate advocate is. To see our original copy, click here.)
We understand
every surrogate is unique.
The journey of surrogacy is an amazing, life-changing experience.
Moms get to help another family get started while bringing herself the opportunity to do the things she’s always dreamed of for her own family.
Every single woman who volunteers to take on this journey to help another family become whole, does so with lots of different ideas, expectations, and motivations.
Whether you’ve seen first-hand the struggles of infertility for someone you love and care about, or you are simply exploring the idea out of curiousity, it’s important that you are informed about the process, the risks, and the rewards of helping someone else in such a tremendous way.
As much as intended parents have ideas about who they want their surrogate to be, and how they imagine her lifestyle and values while caring for their unborn child, surrogates also have expectations and hopes for the type of family they want to share this journey with. It’s our goal to connect amazing moms with the right surrogacy agencies to bring their dream to life, too.
We believe with all our hearts that surrogacy is family, sisterhood, strength. Surrogacy is… Love.
Kristina
Experienced Surrogate
There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.
A smooth journey requires
the right professionals.
A good surrogacy agency matches surrogates with hopeful people who want to have a baby. They thoroughly screen potential surrogates and parents and guide them through the entire process, including timely disbursement of funds to the surrogate, and providing support until a short while after delivery.
BUT, NOT ALL SURROGACY AGENCIES ARE CREATED EQUAL.
There are so many parties involved in the delicate emotional, legal and financial process and agency oversight is a must.
The right agency will make sure all medical bills are taken care of by the trust and escrow so that nothing remains on the surrogate’s shoulders after delivery.
We empower you to
design your journey.
Unlike going directly to any other agency, we have your best interest in mind from the jump. If we can’t meet what you’re looking for, we’re not afraid to tell you — but not just that, we’re equipped to help you find it through one of our trusted partner agencies!
Whether you find yourself fitting in perfectly with our program, or you choose one of our trusted partners, the agency will be responsible for communicating between attorneys, doctors, psychologists and others to make sure everyone is in the loop at all times so you don’t have to balance all the details.
What sets us apart
from others...
Our founders have been surrogates 2 and 3 times each, and have worked closely with dozens of agencies throughout their careers.
Our Surrogate Advocates, who are also experienced surrogates, know what it’s like to be in your position both as novice first time surrogates and with more experience.
We know what it’s like to pick an agency and wonder, “was that the right choice? Did I choose the right agency?”
Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know, so we’re here to help you decide, whether it’s our program, or one of the vetted agencies we partner with. You will land in a safe place with real people who will consider what you want out of your surrogacy journey, and help you get there.
We’ve been called “Surrogacy Doulas”… we think that fits us well!
Kelsey
Experienced Surrogate
So... what's it like
to be a surrogate?
We’re looking for unicorns like you
You may not realize it, but your body’s ability to create a healthy baby AND bring it into the world isn’t just amazing — it’s rare.
You may not have felt special as you struggled to see your feet and you stopped fitting into your bras, but we promise: you really are so, so freaking special.
And we need moms just like you to bring joy to a family in the making and to your family as well.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Are we the real deal?
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Meet Our Founders...❤️
Sunshine Hanson
Founder, President, 3x Surrogate
If you ever get the pleasure of meeting our co-founder, Sunshine Hanson, you’ll quickly realize she’s as warm as her name suggests and as fun as her ever-changing hair color.
Another thing that’s hard to miss about Sunshine is her passion for surrogacy.
In 2017, Sunshine transitioned from teaching high school English to working in the surrogacy industry. With her experience as a 3x gestational surrogate, she wanted nothing more than to be a part of helping surrogates have beautiful journeys.
But as she dove into the industry, Sunshine couldn’t shake the feeling that there just wasn’t enough advocacy, transparency, and support in the community. That feeling grew so strong that Sunshine knew she had to do something bigger to improve the surrogacy industry.
Together with her husband, Kyle, she used that feeling to build Surrogacy Is. Shortly after launch, they recognized the need was larger than they anticipated, and they needed help to fulfill their mission, and her former colleague, Casey, was the missing piece of the foundation. Together, they formed a dedicated team and created an advisory program where surrogates could learn about the process and feel confident in their choices. Then, after 3 years, the dream evolved even further when the team found that intended parents weren’t getting the same considerations. Determined to do what feels right for everyone involved, the Surrogacy Is agency was born.
When Sunshine isn’t sharing her tips and surrogacy stories online or spreading her infectious passion about surrogacy, you might find her relaxing in the pool with her daughter and three dogs, or testing out a new brunch spot in Savannah.
Casey Bojorquez
Founder, Vice President, 2x Surrogate
She won’t rest until everyone is taken care of.
Have you ever met someone who instantly made you feel so good inside? Someone who just radiates love and makes you feel safe like you can trust they’ll always be on your side? That’s Casey—our co-founder, Vice President, and collective mama of Surrogacy Is.
On a deeper level, Casey Bojorquez is a two-time surrogate with over a decade of experience working in the surrogacy industry. Throughout her work, she couldn’t help but feel similar sentiments as Sunshine about the industry— so she was thrilled when Sunshine and Kyle approached her about joining forces to create something better for the surrogacy world.
Casey started out by developing a more comprehensive surrogate outreach and community program, but she as time went on, she dreamt of doing more. Instead of trying to find the best agencies to recommend to new surrogates, she believed Surrogacy Is could become the perfect agency for both surrogates and intended parents.
So, that’s exactly what the team set out to do, and the direction of Surrogacy Is shifted to create a space where surrogates and intended parents are advocated for and supported—every step of the way.
When our lovely Casey isn’t making waves in the surrogacy world, she can be found enjoying time with her husband and four daughters at the beach or hiking a new trail.
Kyle Hanson
Founder, CEO, CMO, Husband to 3x Surrogate
(that counts, right?)
Once a skeptic… now a surrogacy evangelist.
If you’re ever looking for a mediocre Dad joke, Kyle is your guy. If jokes aren’t your thing, he’s also really good at having heart-to-hearts with surrogate partners or offering the absolute best forms of encouragement.
Our co-founder, Kyle Hanson, is the type of guy who loudly roots for you, whether you’re a surrogate or an intended parent. He wants you to have the most empowering, informative, and supported surrogacy journey possible.
Why? Because he watched his wife Sunshine go through the journey of surrogacy first-hand as a surrogate, and he witnessed the boss energy it takes for a woman to be a surrogate. He also got to meet (and bond with) both sets of her intended parents. He heard their unique paths to parenthood and sympathized with everything they had gone through to have their biggest dream come true.
When Kyle & Sunshine started talking about the idea of Surrogacy Is, it didn’t take long for him to develop what is still the base framework for how Surrogacy Is reaches so many amazing moms, every single day. In fact, he immediately started working tirelessly behind the scenes to make it a reality—and he remains the “wizard behind the curtain” for everything that helps Surrogacy Is run today.
During the day, you can usually find Kyle putting out tech fires, rallying up the marketing team, and sending a good (great?) GIF in the team chat. When he logs off, he’s usually cruising the coastal Georgia rivers with Sunshine and their daughter, Jasmine, or he’s catering to Dee Dee, Adora, and Finny, the family dogs. You might also find him performing a drum solo on any and every available surface.
They say it takes a village to raise a child. Sometimes, it takes a village to have a child.
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Frequently
asked questions
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Surrogacy is a process where a woman carries and delivers another person or couple’s child. This pregnancy happens through in vitro fertilization (IVF), which means this woman does not have any biological connection to the baby.
The surrogate is the ‘gestational carrier;’ this means she is providing the womb to carry the embryo for the Intended Parents (IP’s).
In surrogacy, there are Intended Parents, agencies, and surrogates.
The Intended Parents (IP’s) are the individuals looking to build their family or bring a baby into the world. The agencies work directly with the IP’s, helping them find the right surrogate candidates, coordinating with attorneys, helping with logistics (insurance, psychologists, contracts, etc.) and supporting them in the decision-making process. This way the IP’s can focus on developing a relationship with the surrogate! And the surrogates are the incredible mamas who help make it all happen!
Yes, but more. 
First & foremost, we’re Surrogate Advocates who support amazing moms in their surrogacy journeys. That’s how we started in 2020… solely working with surrogates. We’ve been helping amazing moms choose from vetted, ethical surrogacy agencies who are motivated to do their best work for our candidates.
We’ve taken all that experience and created what we like to think is the ideal agency not just for the amazing moms who choose to be surrogates, but also the hopeful parents-to-be who are putting their all into the mission to bring home their bundle of joy.
Throughout our first 3 years solely working w/ surrogates as advocates, we’ve realized something: There aren’t as many agencies who truly advocate for parents and surrogates as we’d like… believe us… we’ve searched.
So we decided to start an agency of our own.
There’s no one perfect agency, but we’re dedicated to becoming yours.
We offer a quick (free!) quiz to help you see if you’d be a good candidate for surrogacy. Click here to take it now! |
There are several requirements for surrogates (in order to protect the health of both the surrogate and the baby). You can find them on our requirements page. Here are a few: – having at least one successful, full-term pregnancy – being within a recommended age range – having a ‘healthy’ BMI – free of tobacco and recreational drugs – having a strong support system To be honest, some of these requirements can be confusing (or, frankly, feel a bit limiting). So, once you take the quiz, if you have questions, feel free to reach out to us! We’d be happy to explain, provide clarity on your qualifications, or work with you on the next steps in your journey. |
We put ‘healthy’ in quotes for a reason—because what’s considered ‘healthy’ is so different for each person! And, depending on a myriad of other factors, you may not need to fall exactly within this range.
However, a BMI between 18-32 is recommended because this is what is considered medically healthy for a surrogate undergoing IVF and other treatments along the journey.
A BMI that falls under the range may be too low for a safe pregnancy and delivery. It may also point to underlying health conditions for the surrogate. A higher BMI can impact the effectiveness of the IVF treatment, how your body responds to the medication, and ovarian function in general. A higher BMI can also lead to pregnancy and birth complications, too, which is why this requirement is set–not only for surrogates but at all fertility clinics.
In short, the BMI range is all about ensuring the healthiest pregnancy possible.
First of all congratulations! Only 4 out of 10 women who take the quiz meet all of the requirements, so it’s super rare to have both the heart and the health history to qualify as a surrogate!
The next step after passing our 8-minute quiz is to schedule a Q&A with one of our awesome surrogate advocates. They’re experienced surrogates, too! They’ll walk you through the whole process, help to build your profile, determine your ideal compensation, and match you with the best agency out there specifically to match your unique wants, needs, and personality.
Yes! You can become a surrogate if you’ve had tubal ligation.
Tubal ligation is a surgery that involves cutting and tying the fallopian tubes (which prevents an egg from entering the uterus or sperm from passing from the tube to the egg).
In surrogacy, pregnancy happens through IVF—where the fertilized egg/embryo is transferred directly to the uterus—which doesn’t involve the tubes at all! So, in short, you can still bring your IP’s baby into the world even after tubal ligation.
- Typical compensation packages for surrogacy consist of a base compensation ranging from $45,000 – $75,000, based on several factors plus additional payments for milestones leading up to and throughout the pregnancy, such as medication start, embryo transfer, maternity clothing at second trimester, and more.
- All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parents’ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
- Compensation and Benefit Packages typically start once legal contracts are signed and a trust account is fully funded with the entire surrogate compensation and expenses.
- Surrogates receive their base compensation in monthly installments throughout the pregnancy.
Read more about surrogacy compensation: https://surrogacy.is/compensation/
No, your eggs won’t be used in the surrogacy process.
There are two types of surrogacy—traditional and gestational—and with gestational surrogacy (the type of surrogacy we focus on!), the IP’s eggs and sperm will be used.
So, in short, the surrogate will not be biologically related to the baby at all.
Although it might seem strange that your significant other needs a background check, this is a requirement in place to protect all aspects and all individuals in the surrogacy journey.
A background check (both for the surrogate and her spouse) helps to ensure the safety of the environment for surrogate and baby during pregnancy and birth.
(Don’t worry, the Intended parents undergo a background check too!)
Yes, you can’t have more than 2 C-sections (or 3 with a clearance letter from your OB) or more than 5 live births.
There are a few required vaccinations for surrogacy: TDAP, Varicella (chickenpox immunity), MMR (measles, mumps, rubella). Others, for example flu and COVID are flexible.
Some IP’s may have specific requirements for their surrogate to ensure safety during pregnancy and delivery, or to match their lifestyle and values.
It’s best to first take our short quiz to see if you qualify as a surrogate candidate. When you take the quiz, you’ll be able to see and understand the basic requirements.
From there, we will connect with you to learn your goals, perspectives, and values—and connect you with an agency that honors your choices.
Typically, 21-40. We’ve had cases up to 45 get approved by an IVF clinic, but it’s rare.
Every prospective surrogate must be at least 21 years old before she can be approved for surrogacy. This minimum age requirement is set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, based on what experts have identified as the best indicators of success for a gestational carrier.
But most importantly age restrictions exist only to protect the surrogate and the baby’s health and give the best chance for successful outcomes!
For us to help you become a surrogate, you need to be a U.S. citizen or U.S. permanent resident.
Yes! You absolutely can be a single mom and a surrogate. You just need to make sure you have a good support system. You might need emotional support or potentially someone to be with your kids while you are attending appointments or delivering your intended parents’ magical, miracle baby.
No. All medical expenses are covered by insurance or the intended parents/agency. All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parents’ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
Also, before surrogate pregnancy, typical benefits & compensation can include:
- Monthly non-accountable allowance starting at $250+ per month throughout the journey
- Mock Cycle Fee starting at $500+
- Medication Start Fee starting at $500+
- Signing and other bonuses starting at $1000+
- Embryo Transfer Fee starting at $1000+
- Health Insurance Monthly Premium (actual cost)
- Legal Counsel (actual cost)
Parents that have decided to choose surrogacy have already been through a lot! The couples that I carried for had already fallen in love with the EMBRYOS before they transferred them to my uterus. They knew the sex of the future baby, and that they had all the normal chromosomes they should have. They knew for a decade before trying surrogacy that they would find a way to bring those embryos to life. And that’s the story of a lot of those couples. They have invested so much time, hope, tears, and resources to make it possible for their children to be born. They will never change their mind about it! But if they did (which they won’t!) there are fully enforceable legal contracts in place, as well as a fully funded trust account that has your entire compensation and medical expenses in it before you even begin IVF medications. The legal contract even has provisions in place for a next of kin, should anything happen to the parents before the baby is born, so there is someone ready and able to take them home and love them when they are born. When you get to the matching stage and hear the parent’s stories, you will see. Intended parents love their children just as much as we love our own.
A gestational surrogate becomes pregnant via IVF. The embryo is created in a lab, where the intended mother or donor egg is fertilized with the intended father or donor’s sperm. The embryo is then implanted into the surrogate’s uterus. With this method, the surrogate is not related to the baby. The majority of surrogacy arrangements are gestational these days.
At first glance, it would seem obvious that a surrogate would get attached to the child, right?!
But as a surrogate, you go into the process with eyes wide open to the fact that the child you are caring for is not your own.There is not that sense of yearning you have when you’re carrying your own child, wondering if it will have your eyes or your husband’s nose. You are not choosing the baby’s name. You’re not imagining all of the big moments the way you do with your own sweet babies!
You go into the pregnancy in a very non-romantic, science-based way, and you know that this kid’s parents loved her before she was ever conceived, and fought so hard to make her life a reality.
In fact, you probably will feel more attached to the intended parents, and not the baby.
Nope! We partner with agencies all over the US, who work with surrogates, intended parents, and hospitals all over the US.
If you prefer a local match or less travel, we will help you find agency options that meet your needs, but geography won’t hurt your ability to become a surrogate.
Once we review your agency options with you and you choose your ideal agency, you’ll complete their intake process until you’re cleared to match. There are a lot more intended parents than surrogates, so matching is usually fairly quick for surrogates. From the time you complete the intake process to match, it takes about 30 days on average.
💯 you do! We work hard to find you the right agency who has the type of intended parents you want to help. We have a great relationship with our agencies, and they know how important it is to us that they find you the intended parents you’re hoping for!
While there are very few companies who call themselves surrogate advocates, we’re definitely not all the same. For example, Surrogacy Is…❤️ is founded and privately owned by experienced surrogates whose singular focus is to advocate for other women entering this process, in the way we wish we’d had when we were starting out.
At Surrogacy is… being a surrogate advocate is not a “gimmick” or a sales pitch. It is in the DNA of each member of our organization, and our sole purpose for existing.
While there are others out there who call themselves “surrogate advocates” most are owned or funded by agencies whose interest is to recruit surrogates into their program, whether or not it’s the right and best fit for each surrogate.
But wait, didn’t I hear you say that you’re an agency, too?
We’re a surrogate advocate group who created an agency to provide more choice to our surrogates. That’s very different than an agency who creates a “surrogate advocate” group to refer people to their agency.
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Honored to represent Surrogacy Is at the @asrm_org Conference this week, connecting with incredible professionals who are advancing the science and heart of family building.💜💜💜
Every conversation reminds us why we do this work… to help more people build the families they dream of.
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“𝘍𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘤𝘢𝘯 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘴𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴, 𝘣𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘰𝘯 𝘪𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘷𝘰𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘥.” So much love…and sometimes a little bit of science…or magic. ✨
But how do you explain the IVF process to young children? 🤔 Our wonderful podcast guest, Dawn McCahon, wrote her children’s book, “Pretty as a Petri,” to help families do just that! 👶📖
“Pretty as a Petri” is a child-friendly way to explain the magical process of IVF to kids. This book is a beautiful celebration of IVF, surrogacy, donor conception—and the love it takes to bring the children who are so-loved and so-wanted into the world. 🫶
🎧Listen to our full episode to hear Dawn’s own IVF story 💜 how her kids reacted to the book 💜and how even though her own IVF babies are grown, the story she created for them continues to help families everywhere have a loving and meaningful conversation about where they came from. 💜
Find this incredible episode through our Linktree or on all your favorite podcast streaming platforms.
👉 If you’re interested in buying “Pretty as a Petri”, you can purchase it on www.prettyasapetribook.com or on Amazon.
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Going into a match call can be nerve-wrecking—for both sides, actually.
As the surrogate, you may feel the need to come prepared with the right questions that may help you decide whether or not the intended parents are the right fit for you. (Kind of like a job interview, but luckily, but like way less intense.) 📝
In this post, we’ve combined the different topics that are important to discuss when considering a match, plus some sample questions that can help start the conversation. 🗣️
We hope these tips can help you prep for a match call and maybe even ease some of those “what do we even talk about” jitters.
💟Save this post for when you get to the matching stage in your journey, or share it with a surrogate sister who you know has a match call coming up!
#SurogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogateSupport #SurrogacyMatches #MatchCallQuestions #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
Hey… you dropped this 👀 (when I specifically said not to 😅)
🎵 Don’t drop that… don’t drop that… 🎵
But seriously! If you’ve ever thought about being a surrogate or you’re just curious after seeing this, now’s the time to pick that dream back up. 💫
You can help another family grow and earn up to $85K while doing something truly life-changing.
✨ Some of the perks:
💜 All medical + travel expenses covered
💜 Incredible support from start to finish with @surrogacy.is
💜 A chance to model compassion and strength for your own kiddos
💜 Benefits packages that includes things like maternity clothes, massage/chiropractic/pedicures
💜 Allowances for childcare, housekeeping, monthly prenatal/pregnancy expenses, lost wages
💜 #1 helping someone SO DESERVING become a parent and witnessing a baby you carried for them be SURROUNDED BY LOVE!
Take the quiz to see if you qualify ➡️ (link in bio)
🧢 👚 Retired Surro Crew + Mom Era Hat by @surroswag
#SurrogacyIsLove #MomLifeUnfiltered #MomsSupportingMoms #SurrogacyJourney #SideHustle #EmpoweredMama #ModernMotherhood #MomStrong #pregnancy #pregnancylife #pregnancyjourney #postnatal #postprengnancy #mommylife #momlove #momstyle #mompreneur
Parenting doesn’t come with a manual—it comes with moments of trial, error, love, and growth. 🫂
If you’ve ever felt like you’re “not doing enough,” remember: both you and your child are learning together. You’re both growing, and becoming stronger versions of yourselves every day. You’re in this together, and you’ll get through everything together. 🫶
#ParentingJourney #GrowingTogether #GentleParenting #ParentSupport #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove
Teddy’s smile says it all 💛
Three months after birth, this surro babe still knows his surrogate, Jessie’s voice and his mother, Gaby absolutely adores that!
The love Gaby and Jessie shared through this journey is what surrogacy is all about. That’s the power of love through every part of surrogacy!
#SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #FullCircleMoment
🎤 Pass the mic to the crew that knows how to work hard, love 💕 harder, and love every second of it together. 🤗 #surrogacyisdreamteam
From Irish ☘️ goodbyes to seven double shots before carbs, we made the best cruise 🚢 memories for the books! 📚 💜 ✨
#SurrogacyIsLove #TeamSurrogacyIs #PassTheMic #CruiseCrewGoals #DreamTeam #surrogacyis #surrogacyisagency #surrogacy #surrogacyagency #surrogacysupport #surrogacycommunity
Let’s break down the important parts of a surrogacy contract. 📋
In this post we’re giving a quick overview of the different sections that you can expect in your surrogacy contract—and what they should include. Swipe through to see them all. ➡️
If you have any contract questions, let us know and we can help…or connect you with someone who can help! 💜
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyContracts #IPCommunity #IntendedParents #IPEducation #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
The skeleton crew’s been dying to tell you… 💀
We’ve put a spell on you (and your mailbox 🧙♀️💌) because 11 family dreams and counting are another step closer to coming true! It’s frightfully fun that we’ve sent out all of these live for matching packages! 🎃
It’s giving “This is Halloween” energy: all treats, no tricks! 🍬✨
Celebrate with us if you dare, no ghosting allowed 👻💜🖤🧡 💜🖤🧡
#SurrogacyIsLove #SurroSwag #SpookySeasonSurroStyle #SurrogacyJourney
Superhero 🦸♀️ vibez the moment you witness the parents you’re helping hold their baby for the first time… thinking “dayum girl, you were a huge part of making that miracle happen”, knowing “this baby is SO WANTED, & SURROUNDED BY PURE LOVE 💗.
It’s pretty dang incredible to be a part of that, truly.
The haterz often focus on the misconceptions of surrogacy
💰 Like, we do it solely for the compensation (it’s one reason &we are getting paid for our time, energy, love.. should helpers like firefighters & police officers not be compensated for putting their safety, bodies, hearts on the line when helping others!?)
But really this is about heart. This is about helping someone whose struggles with infertility or a same sex couple have their dream of having a child.
But what about adoption!?
I get it. But it’s not for everyone and that process is even longer than surrogacy (despite @surrogacy.is doing background checks & psych evals on both surrogates and intended parents etc.)
And maybe they want to see their partners dimples in their child, maybe they dream of seeing what their and their soulmates children would be like, because that’s incredible.
Curious to learn more? Hit the quiz button in my bio to see if you pre-qualify & schedule a surro chat with an experienced surrogate!
👚 Retired Surrogate Sweater by @surroswag
🧢 Mom Era Corduroy Hat by @surroswag
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Surrogacy Is started as an advocacy group for surrogates, but has evolved into what it is today: a full-service surrogacy agency. 🤗
In this video Sunshine explains why she and the founders made this important decision and why supporting both surrogates and intended parents is so important to everyone at Surrogacy Is. 🫶
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyAdvocacy #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacyTalkWithSunshine
Keep it 100 ✨
On the land, the sea, and the sky… our team leads with heart, always.💜
We show up with love, we work with purpose, and we celebrate every bit of these incredible surrogacy journeys together. 🌊
#SurrogacyIsLove #TeamRetreat #SurrogacyIsCommunity #surrogacyis #surrogacyisagency #surrogacy #surrogacyagency #surrogacycommunity
Starting your surrogacy meds soon? Never fear your surro-sisters are here! 🦸♀️🦸♀️🦸
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➡️Swipe through and save this post for some tried-and-true med tips from experienced surrogates in our community.
Do you have a tip that wasn’t mentioned? Please leave them in the comments to help other surrogates! 👇
✨As a reminder, our agency provides one-on-one IVF medication consults with a professional to help ease all your nerves and ensure you feel comfortable with all of your meds. If you want more information on this, reach out to your Surrogacy Is contact, or use our Linktree to connect with us! ✨
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyMeds #SurrogacyMedTips #IVFMeds #Surrogacy #Surrogates #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
When they tell you…
✅ They’ve had a healthy full-term pregnancy
✅ They’re between 21–40
✅ They’re not smoking 🚭
✅ They have a stable home + support system 🏡
✅ They’re excited to help another family grow 💕
Me: Stop talking dirty to me 😏
That’s some potential perfect surrogate material!
Like okayyyy bestie, go take the quiz already!
💫 Find out if you qualify — link’s in my bio!
🧢 👚 Surrogate Denim Hat & Surrogacy Tee by @surroswag
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This isn’t a case management role. This is sales with soul.
At Surrogacy Is, we’re on a mission to match the right surrogates with the right families, and we’re looking for a Client Relations Coordinator to help make those life-changing connections.
We’re not boutique. We’re not corporate. We’re something better: a fast-growing agency with 36+ remote team members, a heart-led mission, and a sharp, structured approach.
In 2024, 12 families welcomed babies through our program.
So far in 2025, we’ve had 54 births, with 15+ more expected before the year ends.
This role is remote, full-time, and high-impact. We strongly prefer applicants who are experienced surrogates with deep knowledge of the matching process and the emotional nuance it requires.
🎯 This is a sales-forward, relationship-building role. You’ll be hosting consults, walking intended parents through our program, and guiding them toward their ideal match.
#ClientRelations #SurrogacySupport #SalesWithSoul #RemoteWorkOpportunities #FamilyBuildingJourney #HeartLedBusiness #HighImpactRoles #RelationshipSales #EmpatheticConnections #CareerInSurrogacy
At Surrogacy Is, we don’t just support surrogates; we empower them. 💜 We’re looking for a Surrogate Intake Coordinator to join our team and be the warm, knowledgeable first point of contact for women beginning their surrogacy journey.
This is a deeply meaningful role that blends compassion with professionalism. You’ll spend your days connecting with amazing women, guiding them through the early stages of the surrogacy process, and helping them feel informed, confident, and supported every step of the way.
💡 Experience as a surrogate is a huge plus, but a professional work history is required. This isn’t an entry level role, but it’s a great way to begin a long term career in the surrogacy field. We’ll train the right person who brings empathy, attention to detail, and great communication skills.
What you’ll do:
✔️ Conduct screening calls and review surrogate applications
✔️ Build real connections with candidates and ensure a smooth intake experience
✔️ Manage communication and records in our internal system
✔️ Be part of a team that truly values both heart and excellence
Details:
💼 Full time, remote position
⏰ Monday to Friday schedule
💰 $22–$26.45 per hour + full benefits (401k match, PTO, medical, holidays)
If you’re passionate about helping women and families create something truly life changing, apply today. 🌈
#SurrogacySupport #CareerOpportunity #EmpowerWomen #JoinOurTeam #CompassionateWorkplace #RemoteJobs #FamilyBuilding #ProfessionalGrowth #LifeChangingCareers
For Dawn, sharing her book, “Pretty as a Petri,” was very much like the process of going through IVF to have her children-it was a labor of love. 💓💓
In our upcoming podcast, we talk to the wonderful Dawn, a self-published author and mom through IVF, about how she wished there was something light-hearted to explain to her children (and others) the magic and love that’s involved when a family uses IVF.
And with that wish, the beautiful and touching children’s book, “Pretty as a Petri,” was born. 👶📖
We were so excited to chat with Dawn and learn about her family-building story, the inspiration behind the book, and the 28-year process of bringing her book to life—and now we can’t wait to share it all with you!
🗓️Mark your calendars for next Tuesday (Oct 28th) for when this episode drops on all your favorite podcast platforms. 🤗
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAPodcast #SurrogacyPodcast #IVFFamilies #IVF #IVFChildrensBook #PrettyAsAPetri #ChildrensBook #FamilyBuildingBooks
Aolani, YOU have made surrogacy dreams come true.
We are so thankful for the amazing people we get to work with. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us and trusting us with your journeys. We don’t take the honor lightly! 💜💜💜
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgencyReviews #BestSurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
Yes, menopause brings its challenges—hot flashes, mood shifts, and all the unexpected changes—but it doesn’t have to be all bad. There’s power in menopause 💪, and the more we open up and support one another, the less isolating it feels. Sometimes it’s just about swapping tips on how to stay cool 🥵 (both temperature-wise and being level-headed)… and sometimes it’s laughing (or venting!) with friends who get it. 🫂
Menopause may be the end of one chapter—but it’s the beginning of another. It’s an invitation to step into yourself fully, outside the outdated idea that your worth is tied to fertility. (It’s not!)
So ask yourself: what do you want this next chapter to look like? The opportunities are wide open—and you deserve to celebrate this next milestone, too!. 🙌
#WorldMenopauseDay #Menopause #WomensHealth #MenopauseSupport #WomensWellness #WomenSupportingWomen #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency
Surrogacy can bring up a spectrum of feelings—and each of them are completely valid. 🫂
As an intended parent, you deserve compassion for all your emotions that may come up during your journey. When you work with us, we want to make sure you know you are never alone. We’re here for you and the mental health professionals are here for you to help you navigate your journey. 💜
📩Save this post for your hard days when you need a little reminder that it’s okay to hold space for yourself. 🫶
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #IPSupport #IPCommunity #IntendedParents #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
At Surrogacy Is our Journey Coordinators are capped at 25 cases. Why? Because no surrogate or intended parent deserves to be ghosted. 👻💨
And that’s exactly what ends up happening for case managers who have to juggle 50+ cases at a time. It’s just not manageable. ❌
Our team is made up of humans with real lives outside of work, and our surrogates and intended parents are human, too. They deserve connection, one-on-one support, and to feel like they aren’t just a name on a checklist.
✨We believe this is truly best for everyone involved. ✨
To learn more about our agency, visit the links in our Linktree!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyJourneys #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacyTalkWithSunshine
This candle isn’t just a candle — it’s a symbol of love, remembrance, and hope. ✨
All proceeds go to London is the Reason, a non-profit supporting intended parents & surrogates through pregnancy and infant loss. 💜
🌈 Light a candle today for the Global Wave of Light event, at 7pm to honor a sweet soul that left too soon. Order a candle to help light healing in those who need it and be a part of a worldwide circle of love, keeping the memory of little ones alive and showing families they are not alone.
💌 Every purchase helps provide healing boxes & peer support for families navigating unthinkable loss.
Give back, honor a memory, and be part of the reason someone feels less alone today. 💖
#CandlelightVigil #MemoryMatters #LoveAndHealing #SupportFamilies #GlobalWaveOfLight #HopeInDarkness #RemembranceCandle #TogetherWeHeal #InfantLossAwareness #SurrogacySupport
Please join us in the Wave of Light Movement tonight by lighting a candle at 7 pm to remember all the beautiful babies and children who left this world too soon.
As your candle burns, let it be the reminder that these sweet souls will always be present around us and a part of our lives—forever.
Even though they aren’t here physically, they are very much still felt and still loved. Their impact on your life— it was brighter than the whole sky. And no matter how much time passes, it will never dim.
We’re sending light and love to all the families who are grieving a loss. We know your little one feels the warmth of love around them!
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If you`ve purchased one of our special “Wave of Light” candles, we would love to see it. Make sure to tag us in your photos. All proceeds from the candles are donated to London is the Reason, a donor-funded non-profit for parents and surrogates experiencing loss. If you would like to find other ways to support them, please follow them @london.is.the.reason
#WaveOfLight #PregnancyAndInfantLossAwareness #ForeverLovedNeverForgotten #LightTheNight #BabyLossAwareness #SurrogacyCommunity #TogetherInRemembrance #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #WaveOfLightCandle
The Surrogacy Betrayal List.
Because not everything that calls itself “support” actually is.
We’re done with:
✨ Money held hostage with no match in sight.
✨ “Support” that disappears after transfer & birth.
✨ Matches that don’t honor your preferences.
✨ Confusing processes and no education.
✨ Agencies that call themselves “ethical,” but treat you like a file.
At @surrogacy.is, we believe transparency, education, and empathy aren’t extras, they’re the baseline.
#TheBetrayalList #SurrogacyEthics #IntendedParents #GestationalCarrier #EthicalSurrogacy #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyAwareness
Joey said it best when he said, “𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘨𝘢𝘤𝘺 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦”
Joey, who’s an LMFT and father through surrogacy, knows firsthand how the relationship between intended parents and a surrogate can impact the whole journey. That’s why he offers intended parents psychoeducation consultations— a one-time meeting where he can help IPs prepare and unpack the important aspects of surrogacy, such as discussing relationship expectations before going into a match call. 📋📲
This can help intended parents approach decisions with a clearer understanding and start their journey off on the best foot. 🤗
If you’re interested in learning more about what Joey has to offer, make sure to check out his Instagram page at @counseling_with_joey
You can also check out Joey’s full podcast episode in our Linktree or on the Surrogacy Is A Podcast page on any of your favorite podcast streaming platforms. (This episode was such a good one. If you’re an intended parent—you don’t want to miss it!)
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsAPodcast #IntendedParentSupport #IPSupport #IPCommunity #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
In honor of LGBTQIA+ History Month, we created something small, but full of meaning. 🌈
Our new LGBTQIA+ Pride Pins are a love letter to every surrogate, intended parent, and ally who believes family is love in all its forms. 💖
100% Heart.
100% Allyship.
Visibility, pride, and pure community love.
✨ Shop the new pins in our SurroSwag shop and wear your pride loud this month (and always).
And support your local LGTBQIA+ 🏳️🌈 owned shops and businesses! @queerencia.co @transfigureprintco @wearewildfang @heymavensxo @yas.petit.poulet @garbage_humans @noto_botanics @drinkgaybeer
#SurrogacyIsLove #PrideEveryday #LGBTQHistoryMonth #SurrogacyCommunity
#LoveIsLove #PridePins #AllyInAction #FamilyDiversity #CelebrateQueerness #SupportLGBTQIA #CommunityOverCompetition #WearYourPride
The best thing about fall weather? No one can tell if you are or aren’t wearing a bra under your hoodie. 🙌🤣
Let those girls go free today…but also use today as a reminder not to forget to schedule your annual appointment for your breast screening. I know we mention this a lot, but if you’re like me, it’s been on your to-do list for months and you still havent been able to cross it off yet. Today, No Bra Day, is the day to treat your tatas to comfy freedom and to book that important check-up. ✅✅
#NoBraDay #FreeTheTatas #BoobHealth #BreastHealth #WomensHealth #WomenWellCheck #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency
“No one should have to hide—not in the closet or in the shadows.” —Kamala Harris
Being your true, authentic self should not be something you have to conceal, but unfortunately, for many in the queer community, there can still be hesitation to share their true selves because of fear or uncertainty of how they will be treated. 🫣
This National Coming Out Day, we want to applaud the courage that coming out takes. 👏👏 We know it comes with many emotions, and sometimes it isn’t always met with love. 💔
But every time someone is brave enough to live unapologetically and leans into their authenticity, it sends a ripple out into the world. 🌊A ripple that shows the world that there is nothing wrong with being queer. And it shows the queer youth what living your truth can mean—and how beautiful it can be to love without fear, to love outside of the shadows. 🔆💗
Coming out is a personal journey, and whether you’re out, questioning, or still finding your own unique path, you deserve love, respect, and a world where no one ever has to hide. 🫶
#NationalComingOutDay #LiveAuthentically #NoHiding #LGBTQIAVisibility #LoveIsLove #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove
As a community, we aren’t super-stitious, but we’re a little stitious. (IYKYK) 🤣
And somehow, over time in the surrogacy and IVF community, eating McDonald’s fries (other fries work fine, too) post-transfer has become a ritual that *might* help the embryo stick.
(Something about the salt helping the body absorb excess fluids—we don’t know the EXACT science, okay?!). 🤷♀️🤣
Whether it actually helps or not—we’ll let you decide. However, an excuse to treat yourself after something so big sounds like an absolute must in our book. In fact, we think you might as well add a shake in too while you’re at it! 🍟🥤
Did you eat fries after your transfer? Let us know in the comments below!
#SurrogacySuperstitions #TransferFries #SurrogacyFries #SurrogacyMyths #Surrogacy #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove
Is our 90-match guarantee for real? Yes!
But how is it possible? 🤔 Well…
✨First, we never intake new intended parents unless we have surrogates for them. We refuse to have waitlists here.
✨Second, our team works hard to create the best resources and support for surrogates—and this means many surrogates continually want to work with us.
✨Third, we have an amazing marketing team (half of whom are experienced surrogates, too), and they are the best at spreading awareness and reaching new, ready-to-match surrogates.
This perfect mix has been the winning combination for us and makes it possible for us to keep our promises with our 90-day match guarantee.
If you’re interested in learning more about it—use the link in our Linktree to connect with our team. We would be so honored to chat with you! 🫶
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyMatching #90DayMatchGuarantee #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
Bullying can leave a wound that isn’t always easy to spot. It can be emotional, and it can be hard to talk about for many people, especially kids. But bullying doesn’t just happen in school hallways; it can happen to anyone. Recognizing the signs that someone you love may be being bullied can be the first step in getting your loved one the help and comfort they need.
Swipe through to see the signs and the resources that can help ➡️ because everyone deserves to have spaces where they feel seen and safe. 🫶
#StopBullying #EndBullying #StandTogether #KindnessMatters #BullyingAwareness #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove
Our latest podcast episode dropped TODAY!
And what a pleasure it was to have our lovely guests—the wonderful and sweet surrogate superstars from our Ambassador Program!
We chatted with Sam, Lyndsey, Rylea, and Brooke about all things surrogacy—including what compelled them to share their surrogacy experiences on social media and what they wish more people knew about the process.
Even though we experienced some minor technical difficulties during this recording (whoops—see if you can spot them, I guess 🤣), we had a fun and lively talk that felt more like we were just sitting around chatting with our best surro-sisters! Which we hope includes you 🫶… so give this episode a listen today.
You can find the link to it in our Linktree, or you can find “Surroday Is A Podcast” on all your favorite podcast streaming platforms.
Make sure you’re also following these wonderful ambassadors (tags included here) or keep an eye out on our feed for their collaboration posts, then make sure to leave them a comment and some love! 💜💜💜
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAPodcast #SurrogacyPodcast #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacyAmbassadors #SurrogatesOnSocial
No matter how fun you make the lunch, sometimes those dang kids just won’t eat right. And sometimes that same piece of fruit goes back and forth in the lunchbox for a week without being touched. 🍎🍏
⚔️As a parent, it’s okay to pick your battles. ⚔️
A well-fed kid is a healthy kid. So, if your kid is eating, loved, clean, and getting outside for at least 30 minutes every day—you’re doing pretty good as a parent.
You can always try and sneak those veggies into their mac and cheese for dinner. 😈
#ChildHealthDay #SchoolLunches #ParentingInspiration #PickyEaters #MomMotivation #DadLife #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency
Last month, the founders did something absolutely amazing! 🤗
They attended the I Congreso Internacional de Mujeres y Gestación por Sustitución (loosely translated to International Congress of Women and Surrogacy) in Madrid, Spain.
This conference took place at a pivotal time, as the Spanish government considers whether to regulate surrogacy. To speak on the impact of surrogacy, the organization Son Nuestros Hijos (They Are Our Children) invited surrogacy families to share their experiences.
The highlight of the trip was listening to a panel of teenagers who were surrogate babies talk about their families and how thankful they are to be born through surrogacy. Another very special highlight was having one of our founders, Casey’s daughter, Tori, share on a panel what it was like growing up with a mom who was a surrogate and how proud she is of her. 🥹🥹
As surrogacy awareness spreads across the world, we at Surrogacy Is are proud to be a part of helping to educate and share how life-changing (in the best possible way) surrogacy can be. 💜
Currently, Spain has a ban on surrogacy and has made it very difficult for Spanish citizens to register their children born via surrogacy abroad. We hope the voices from the community and the positive surrogacy stories will be taken into consideration as officials (everywhere) make decisions around surrogacy. 🫶🤞
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyFamilies #SurrogacyLaws #IncongresoInternacionaldeMujeres
✨ September was FULL of magic, milestones & major wins! ✨
Here’s a glimpse of the beautiful moments that filled our September 💕
💜 14 new intended parents moved to matching
🌈 56 new surrogate intakes
💫 8 perfect matches
🦄 9 embryo transfers
👶🏽 4 babies born!
Every number tells a story of hope, teamwork, and love! And we couldn’t be prouder of the journeys unfolding. 💕
Cheers to all the surrogates, intended parents, and little miracles who made September unforgettable. And props to our whole team who put in all the extra sparkles to get there! Here’s to even more joy in October! 🌟
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyIsLove
#MagicalMoments #MilestoneMagic #TeamworkMakesTheDreamWork #HopeAndLove #NewBeginnings #InfertilityWarriors #CreatingFamilies #JoyfulJourneys #LittleMiracles2023
Your girls (I mean the ones on your chest) (*) (*) need you to have their back—metaphorically.
Many women think, “Breast cancer isn’t something that would happen to me… I’m too young…too healthy…too busy being a mom for that.”
But cancer never takes any of that into account. 😩
That’s why regular screenings and prioritizing your health are so important. Many doctors won’t start talking about mammograms until after you’re 40 (unless there’s a concern), but there are many things you can do now to help prevent future surprises—like gene testing and thermology. We’re begging you to start the conversations with your doctor early. It could help with your future plans, including family-building.
This Breast Cancer Awareness month, remember to look out for your girls. (Both figuratively and metaphorically). 🩷🩷
We also want to send so much love to those who have been impacted by breast cancer. 🫶
#BreastCancerAwareness #EarlyDetectionSavesLives #CheckYourself #FamilyBuilding #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove
Today feels like Christmas 🎄 at Surrogacy Is because we are now officially licensed in NEW YORK! 🍎🍕🗽
Why is this such a big deal? Because New York is the only state with a surrogacy licensing program, built with the most rigorous protections in the country. To earn this license, we had to meet standards that go far beyond anywhere else, proving that:
⚖️ We uphold the Surrogates’ Bill of Rights
⚖️ Our screening and counseling meet clinical best practices
⚖️ We carry strong liability and life insurance for every journey
⚖️ Our leadership passed extensive background checks
This license is more than a stamp of approval. For us, transparency means surrogates and families always know what to expect, and ethics mean nothing is hidden or brushed aside just to push a match forward. Every decision is based on informed consent, from the very start through every step of the journey.
New York may be the only state with a licensing program today, but we believe surrogacy everywhere deserves the same protections.
💃 We are celebrating and sending love to every New York family we will get to help grow. 💜
If you live in New York and want to learn more about working with us as a surrogate or intended parent, visit surrogacy.is or check our Linktree in bio.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #LicensedSurrogacyAgency #RegulatedSurrogacyAgencies #NewYorkSurrogacy #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
When Surrogacy Is set out to create the best surrogacy guide, the number one goal was to help potential surrogates feel informed and empowered about their journeys, no matter who they work with or what kind of journey they’re on.
Seriously. This isn’t something we’re keeping just for us. 🔓
If you’re working with another agency or you’re embarking on an independent journey, we want you to have the first part of our free guide to have in your back pocket. Because everyone deserves an easy place to learn about the ins and outs of surrogacy.
To get access, all you have to do is take our short quiz in our Linktree. 🔗
If you’re a surrogate who already has access, what did you find the most helpful? We’d love to hear from you! 🫶
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyGuide #TheUltimateSurrogacyGuide #SurrogacyEducation #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
We’re (virtually) clinking glasses and poppin’ bottles here at Surrogacy Is. 🥂🍾 What’s the occasion, you ask?
🪩🎉🥳Our 50th Agency Baby was Born! 🪩🎉🥳
Truth be told, we celebrate every baby born through our agency—but this milestone felt like an extra cause for celebration. 50 babies born through our agency ☑️ almost the weekend ☑️and the release of Taylor’s new album?!
💜💜We couldn’t love this almost-Friday more. 💜💜 Cheers!
The sad truth is, what happened to the Mark Surrogacy Surrogates could have happened to any of us.
We’re so thankful to Joey (from @counseling_with_joey) for offering one-on-one counseling sessions to any surrogate who has carried or is currently carrying a surrogate baby for Mark Surrogacy.
We know your journey is probably not at all like you had planned. We know it can be hard to talk about your experience or ask for help. Please know you have a loving community here that wants to help you heal and find new hope.
If you’re interested in learning more about these sponsored (free to you) sessions, please fill out the form in our Linktree. Afterward, someone will reach out with details on how to get started.
✨If you know someone who was affected by the Mark Surrogacy scandal, please share this post with them. ✨
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacySupport #MarkSurrogacy #MarkSurrogacyScandal #MarkSurrogacySurrogates #SurrogateCounseling
🚨Don’t miss out: Sign up for our next surrogate support webinar coming up!
“𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗣𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗦𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗼𝗴𝗮𝗰𝘆: 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗳𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁-𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲 𝗚𝗖𝘀” with Dr. Sadaf (with @embrahealth).
🗓️October 15th @ 9 AM PDT/ 12 PM EDT
(If you can’t make it live, still sign up and you’ll get the webinar replay emailed to you!).
🪑Snag your spot through our Linktree and mark your calendar to join the conversation—especially if you’re someone who has had surrogacy on your mind but hasn’t been able to fully commit to the idea yet. ✨This webinar is for YOU! ✨
💜We hope to see you there 💜
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyEducation #SurrogacyWebinar #Surrogates #GCStrong #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #EmbraHealth
🌈 Every flag tells a story. From the original rainbow flag first waved in 1978, to the many identity flags created since, each design represents visibility, resilience, and pride for members of the LGBTQIA+ community.
This LGBTQIA+ History Month, we honor the history behind these symbols—and the people who carried them forward so that today, individuals and families can be (and love) themselves with pride. 🏳️🌈✨
Support and follow more LGBTQIA+ organizations! @humanrightscampaign @pflag @glaad @glsen @nclrights @trevorproject @thetaskforce
#LGBTQIAHistoryMonth #PrideHistory #LoveIsLove #PrideEveryday #QueerHistory #LGBTQIACommunity #LGBTQIAAllies #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove
Did you hear the news? We`re officially licensed in New York! 🙌
We went through a lot to get licensed, and we’re ready to support surrogates and IPs across NY! 💜 So, take the quiz if you live in New York & want to talk about starting a journey or your next journey with us!
#SurrogacySupport #NewYorkLicense #JourneyToParenthood #IntendedParents #FamilyBuilding #SurrogateMoms #NYCCommunity #CreateYourFamily
Stray Legos = the nemesis of parents. 😤
But watching your kid step on the Legos you asked them to pick up and warned them about (and they ignored you, obvi) that hits different. 😏
That feels like karma coming back around a little. (If it makes you laugh, that doesn’t make you a bad parent, it makes you REAL). 🤣
#Parenting #MomLife #KidLife #DadLife #Parenthood #ParentingWhoas #SurrogacyIs
Could insurance BE even more complicated? Yeah, I guess it can—especially when you add in surrogacy. 😬
Here we’re breaking down the surrogacy insurance basics to help you with the beginning stages of wrapping your head around how insurance can work with surrogacy. Swipe through to get all the information, then save it so you can reference it again and again later. ➡️⬇️
Surrogacy Is helps intended parents and surrogates look at their insurance policies and outlines options to make sure everyone can have peace of mind that they’re covered. ✅✅
To learn more, use our Linktree to begin the process to connect with our team.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyInsurance #IPSupport #SurrogacyExpenses #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
A supportive surro community is EVERYTHING & @surrogacy.is is proud of the incredible sisterhood we’ve helped bring together in our FB group and in the big world of surrogacy.
We see you, we are you, and we love you!
#surrogacyis #surrogacyislove #surrogacyisagency #surrogacyjourney #surrogacysisterhood
🎶It’s the quiet shift from lullabies to playlists.
🤝It’s the irony of little hands that constantly grabbed yours like glue to your kids now being embarrassed if you’re too close to them in public.
😆 It’s giggles that suddenly shifted into mature chuckles and smirks.
If we knew when these little moments would be the last, we parents would pocket them for our memories to cherish forever. For sure. 🗝️🧠
In the bittersweet beauty of watching them grow, we carry every version of them in our hearts—and every version of us, too.
Here’s to honoring the moments, even as they become memories. 💞
#ParenthoodMoments #TheyGrowSoFast #HeartFullHandsFull #MotherhoodUnfiltered #FatherhoodFeels #SlowDownTime #SurrogacyIs
Surrogacy takes GREAT patience and commitment from all parties. It’s no joke, but in the end it’s always, always, ALWAYS worth it!
How many bumps did you have on your journey!? We want to hear! 👇
#surrogacyis #surrogacyislove #surrogacyisagency #surrogacyjourney #surrogacy #surrogacyagency #surrogacysupport #surrogacycommunity #worthitall
Surrogacy Is and Joey from @counseling_with_joey, are partnering up to offer a free and supportive space for any surrogate affected by the Mark Surrogacy agency.
If you are a surrogate who was working with Mark Surrogacy and needs emotional guidance and healing tips, we want to help with our sponsored counseling services.
If interested, please share your contact information through the form in our Linktree. Someone from our team will be in touch and provide more information.
If you know a surrogate who may qualify for these sessions, please share the information with them.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #MarkSurrogacy #MarkSurrogacyScandal #SurrogateSupport #SurrogateCounseling
✨ “Sorry, I can’t meet… I’ve got plans 😉
And by plans, I mean:
☎️ intake, matching, journey, & IP calls
📄 intake & legal paperwork for days
💉 IVF shots on shots
🥚 embryo prep
🤰🏽 all the feels of carrying someone else`s dream
🌈 love, hope, and the BIGGEST reward 💖👩🏻🍼
DECIPHER THE REST OF THE EMOJIS IN THE COMMENTS BELOW! 👇 (Did we miss any?!)
#SurrogacyEdition #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyIsLove #SorryIHavePlans
In surrogacy, it can be hard to determine what is true and what is just downright crazy lies. 🫨 Especially when it comes to compensation.
In this post, we’re breaking down some of the most common myths we hear about the compensation surrogates receive. Swipe through to see them all. ➡️➡️
What surrogacy myth drives you crazy? Let us know in the comments!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyMisconceptions #SurrogacyCompensation #SurrogacyMyths
