We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
This isn't just any
Surrogacy Journey...
…and we’re not a typical surrogacy agency. That’s why surrogates choose us first.
And it’s why we have one of the best surrogate support platforms in the industry.
For the last 3 years, Surrogacy Is has been inspiring the most amazing moms to become surrogates, helping them find their perfect agency, and supporting them along the way, at no cost to them.
Thatโs how weโve helped over 1500 candidates start their surrogacy journeys since 2020.
In our search to find the โperfect agencyโ for the incredible moms who choose to become surrogates, weโve learned so much. Weโve learned how some of the most solid and supportive agencies thrive, and weโve learned where many break down, even the best ones.
And in this search, weโve realized somethingโฆ to find our ideal agency, we needed to create it ourselvesโฆ and now we’ve done just that.
Surrogacy stories from
Real-Life Supermoms
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Here's what to know about how we advocate for surrogates...
We’ve designed our agency with YOU in mind…
We will be honest about whether or not we have parents who are looking for candidates just like you. If we don’t have the right match for you, we can share your profile with our partner agencies that we’ve vetted and trust, so you don’t waste hours filling out long-form applications only to be turned away or ignored or worse โ land with an agency you regret!
We insist on stellar communication…
From your first contact with us, all the way through Intake, Matching, and Journey Coordination, you will always be up to date and have clarity on what’s coming next. If you have questions, you can count on us to pick up the phone or reply to your text or email the same day.
We help you findย fairย surrogacy compensation
We help you to set your base surrogacy compensationย to make sure it’s fair and you are getting what you deserve for the generous gift you’re giving! Aside from your base, our benefit package is thoughtful and among the best (if not THE BEST) in the industry, because it was designed by surrogates who know the sacrifice it takes to help someone bring their baby into the world.
We’re with you every step of the journey
We provide free coaching to navigate the complex journey, through webinars, our online groups, and one-on-one calls whenever you need it! Each of our Surrogate Advocates are experienced surrogates themselves. Our Journey Coordinators have years of experience under their belts, and bring unique skills to the table such as a background in Social Work, Midwifery, and Mental Health. Our team is committed to providing wrap around support for parents and surrogates on this once in a lifetime journey.
And the best part is...
advocating for surrogates benefits everyone.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Morgan & La’Phadra
Surrogate Advocate & Experienced Surrogate
We are true
surrogate advocates
A surrogate advocate is a person or group who truly advocates for the brave, amazing moms who decide to become surrogates.
We take being surrogate advocates very seriously. Being a surrogate advocate isnโt a marketing gimmick. Itโs not a side-hustle. Itโs everything.
Surrogates, in our eyes, are the most important piece of this equation. And being surrogate advocates doesn’t mean we don’t advocate for intended parents.
Quite the opposite.
We believe that advocating for surrogates is the key to the smoothest and most successful surrogacy journeys possible.
While most agencies say they โadvocateโ for the surrogate, do they really?
If you think about it, the perspective many agencies have comes down to human nature. Most agencies are intended parent focused, because thatโs the ultimate client theyโre designed to serve. And thatโs okay! We serve intended parents, too!
After all, the purpose of a surrogacy agency is to help intended parents achieve their dream of having a baby, and we think thatโs an absolutely noble purpose. Itโs our purpose, too!
But far too often, the surrogateโs interests can be dismissed, so a true surrogate advocate helps balance that equation.
Weโre not looking to tip the scales, just balance them.
No, we donโt think so. If someone truly advocates for surrogates, the interests and experience of the surrogate should be the mission of the company. Their organization should be surrogate focused first & foremost.
That doesnโt mean that intended parents arenโt a focus, as well. But itโs our philosophy that, a well-prepared, well-informed, well-supported surrogate is the cornerstone of the most successful surrogacy journeys.
How we serve intended parents is by taking great care of the surrogates who make the surrogacy journey possible.
And we’re not talking about creating surrogacy divas here. Weโre talking about ensuring equal support, and mutual respect. We believe that, if the end goal is for the intended parent(s) to bring home their sweet baby, and for the surrogate (and her family) to have their lives changed in the most positive way, this is how itโs done.
Hereโs whatโs important to know about us. Weโre surrogate advocates first. That’s how we started, and that’s what we’ll always be.
Every surrogate that goes through our process gets the following things that most (all?) agencies donโt offer:
- A surrogate advocate who supports you through your journey 100% free
- Access to a library of video and other resources to help you feel confident and prepared each step of the way
- Ongoing mental health support throughout the journey and up to 6 months postpartum
- One-on-one IVF Education and Injection Support
Most surrogacy agencies have long lists of intended parents waiting to be matched with their perfect surrogate. If an advocacy group is owned by such an agency, it might be difficult for them to truly encourage any surrogate who enters their process to consider all of her options when they really want her to work with their agencyโregardless of whether thatโs the best fitย for her.
Because we spent our formative years building a platform and relationship with our partner agencies, it’s easy for us to know what each of their IP clientele is looking for and when a surrogate might be happier and have a better match through another program than our own. We only want to manage journeys that we can do an excellent job, so if we cannot offer that to a surrogate candidate, we have no motivation not to be honest about that!ย
And hereโs whatโs important for you to know about working w/ Surrogacy Isโฆ we’ve spent the past 3+ years getting to know the ins and outs of over 100 agencies, and in that process we’ve narrowed it down to a small handful that truly meet the bar we set for our partners โ if my sister wanted to be a surrogate, would I feel confident referring her to this agency? If the answer is not a resounding yes, then we don’t refer to them. It’s that simple.ย
But all this knowledge has also empowered us to create a program so special and unique, that takes the lessons from the best of the best and pitfalls we’ve seen so many agencies run into throughout our careers in this industry, that Surrogacy Is as an agency, is truly a gold standard in Journey Coordination and Support for Surrogates and Intended Parents. We’re so excited to be able offer this option to Surrogates and IP’s and make the journey feel seamlessย from beginning to end. We live for this work and to hear those words at the end of every journey “I could not have done this without you.”
We’ve got you.
Not just an agency, but yes.
We started off as surrogate advocates, and we’ll always be surrogate advocates first and foremost.ย
We’re not an agency that starts a “surrogate advocate group” as a marketing gimmick. If you’re already an agency, why not just advocate for surrogates as an agency, if you truly care about advocating for surrogates?
And there are agencies that truly do this for surrogates, don’t get us wrong. For example, the agencies we provided in the past as options for you are agencies who truly advocate for surrogates.
So, if anything, we’re surrogate advocates that started an “agency” to better serve our surrogates. If we can be the best option and fit for what you need in your journey, then we should be your agency.
Can you see the difference?
So, if you haven’t yet, take our 8-minute quiz, then schedule a 1-on-1 call with a surrogate advocate (theyโre experienced surrogates, too!) and they can walk you through what surrogacy could look like for you and your family!
(The content above has been updated to better fit our definition of what a surrogate advocate is. To see our original copy, click here.)
We understand
every surrogate is unique.
The journey of surrogacy is an amazing, life-changing experience.
Moms get to help another family get started while bringing herself the opportunity to do the things sheโs always dreamed of for her own family.
Every single woman who volunteers to take on this journey to help another family become whole, does so with lots of different ideas, expectations, and motivations.
Whether you’ve seen first-hand the struggles of infertility for someone you love and care about, or you are simply exploring the idea out of curiousity, it’s important that you are informed about the process, the risks, and the rewards of helping someone else in such a tremendous way.
As much as intended parents have ideas about who they want their surrogate to be, and how they imagine her lifestyle and values while caring for their unborn child, surrogates also have expectations and hopes for the type of family they want to share this journey with. Itโs our goal to connect amazing moms with the right surrogacy agencies to bring their dream to life, too.
We believe with all our hearts that surrogacy is family, sisterhood, strength. Surrogacy isโฆ Love.
Kristina
Experienced Surrogate
There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.
A smooth journey requires
the right professionals.
A good surrogacy agency matches surrogates with hopeful people who want to have a baby. They thoroughly screen potential surrogates and parents and guide them through the entire process, including timely disbursement of funds to the surrogate, and providing support until a short while after delivery.
BUT, NOT ALL SURROGACY AGENCIES ARE CREATED EQUAL.
There are so many parties involved in the delicate emotional, legal and financial process and agency oversight is a must.
The right agency will make sure all medical bills are taken care of by the trust and escrow so that nothing remains on the surrogateโs shoulders after delivery.
We empower you to
design your journey.
Unlike going directly to any other agency, we have your best interest in mind from the jump. If we can’t meet what you’re looking for, we’re not afraid to tell you โ but not just that, we’re equipped to help you find it through one of our trusted partner agencies!ย
Whether you find yourself fitting in perfectly with our program, or you choose one of our trusted partners, the agency will be responsible for communicating between attorneys, doctors, psychologists and others to make sure everyone is in the loop at all times so you donโt have to balance all the details.
What sets us apart
from others...
Our founders have been surrogates 2 and 3 times each, and have worked closely with dozens of agencies throughout their careers.
Our Surrogate Advocates, who are also experienced surrogates, know what itโs like to be in your position both as novice first time surrogates and with more experience.
We know what it’s like to pick an agency and wonder, “was that the right choice? Did I choose the right agency?”
Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know, so we’re here to help you decide, whether it’s our program, or one of the vetted agencies we partner with. You will land in a safe place with real people who will consider what you want out of your surrogacy journey, and help you get there.
We’ve been called “Surrogacy Doulas”… we think that fits us well!
Kelsey
Experienced Surrogate
So... what's it like
to be a surrogate?
We’re looking for unicorns like you
You may not realize it, but your bodyโs ability to create a healthy baby AND bring it into the world isnโt just amazing โ itโs rare.
You may not have felt special as you struggled to see your feet and you stopped fitting into your bras, but we promise: you really are so, so freaking special.
And we need moms just like you to bring joy to a family in the making and to your family as well.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Are we the real deal?
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Meet Our Founders...โค๏ธ
Sunshine Hanson
Founder, President, 3x Surrogate
If you ever get the pleasure of meeting our co-founder, Sunshine Hanson, youโll quickly realize sheโs as warm as her name suggests and as fun as her ever-changing hair color.
Another thing thatโs hard to miss about Sunshine is her passion for surrogacy.
In 2017, Sunshine transitioned from teaching high school English to working in the surrogacy industry. With her experience as a 3x gestational surrogate, she wanted nothing more than to be a part of helping surrogates have beautiful journeys.
But as she dove into the industry, Sunshine couldnโt shake the feeling that there just wasnโt enough advocacy, transparency, and support in the community. That feeling grew so strong that Sunshine knew she had to do something bigger to improve the surrogacy industry.
Together with her husband, Kyle, she used that feeling to build Surrogacy Is. Shortly after launch, they recognized the need was larger than they anticipated, and they needed help to fulfill their mission, and her former colleague, Casey, was the missing piece of the foundation. Together, they formed a dedicated team and created an advisory program where surrogates could learn about the process and feel confident in their choices. Then, after 3 years, the dream evolved even further when the team found that intended parents werenโt getting the same considerations. Determined to do what feels right for everyone involved, the Surrogacy Is agency was born.
When Sunshine isnโt sharing her tips and surrogacy stories online or spreading her infectious passion about surrogacy, you might find her relaxing in the pool with her daughter and three dogs, or testing out a new brunch spot in Savannah.
Casey Bojorquez
Founder, Vice President, 2x Surrogate
She won’t rest until everyone is taken care of.
Have you ever met someone who instantly made you feel so good inside? Someone who just radiates love and makes you feel safe like you can trust theyโll always be on your side? Thatโs Caseyโour co-founder, Vice President, and collective mama of Surrogacy Is.
On a deeper level, Casey Bojorquez is a two-time surrogate with over a decade of experience working in the surrogacy industry. Throughout her work, she couldnโt help but feel similar sentiments as Sunshine about the industryโ so she was thrilled when Sunshine and Kyle approached her about joining forces to create something better for the surrogacy world.
Casey started out by developing a more comprehensive surrogate outreach and community program, but she as time went on, she dreamt of doing more. Instead of trying to find the best agencies to recommend to new surrogates, she believed Surrogacy Is could become the perfect agency for both surrogates and intended parents.
So, thatโs exactly what the team set out to do, and the direction of Surrogacy Is shifted to create a space where surrogates and intended parents are advocated for and supportedโevery step of the way.
When our lovely Casey isnโt making waves in the surrogacy world, she can be found enjoying time with her husband and four daughters at the beach or hiking a new trail.
Kyle Hanson
Founder, CEO, CMO, Husband to 3x Surrogate
(that counts, right?)
Once a skepticโฆ now a surrogacy evangelist.
If youโre ever looking for a mediocre Dad joke, Kyle is your guy. If jokes arenโt your thing, heโs also really good at having heart-to-hearts with surrogate partners or offering the absolute best forms of encouragement.
Our co-founder, Kyle Hanson, is the type of guy who loudly roots for you, whether youโre a surrogate or an intended parent. He wants you to have the most empowering, informative, and supported surrogacy journey possible.
Why? Because he watched his wife Sunshine go through the journey of surrogacy first-hand as a surrogate, and he witnessed the boss energy it takes for a woman to be a surrogate. He also got to meet (and bond with) both sets of her intended parents. He heard their unique paths to parenthood and sympathized with everything they had gone through to have their biggest dream come true.
When Kyle & Sunshine started talking about the idea of Surrogacy Is, it didnโt take long for him to develop what is still the base framework for how Surrogacy Is reaches so many amazing moms, every single day. In fact, he immediately started working tirelessly behind the scenes to make it a realityโand he remains the โwizard behind the curtainโ for everything that helps Surrogacy Is run today.
During the day, you can usually find Kyle putting out tech fires, rallying up the marketing team, and sending a good (great?) GIF in the team chat. When he logs off, heโs usually cruising the coastal Georgia rivers with Sunshine and their daughter, Jasmine, or heโs catering to Dee Dee, Adora, and Finny, the family dogs. You might also find him performing a drum solo on any and every available surface.
They say it takes a village to raise a child. Sometimes, it takes a village to have a child.
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Frequently
asked questions
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Surrogacy is a process where a woman carries and delivers another person or couple’s child. This pregnancy happens through in vitro fertilization (IVF), which means this woman does not have any biological connection to the baby.
The surrogate is the โgestational carrier;โ this means she is providing the womb to carry the embryo for the Intended Parents (IPโs).
In surrogacy, there are Intended Parents, agencies, and surrogates.
The Intended Parents (IPโs) are the individuals looking to build their family or bring a baby into the world. The agencies work directly with the IPโs, helping them find the right surrogate candidates, coordinating with attorneys, helping with logistics (insurance, psychologists, contracts, etc.) and supporting them in the decision-making process. This way the IPโs can focus on developing a relationship with the surrogate! And the surrogates are the incredible mamas who help make it all happen!
Yes, but more. 
First & foremost, we’re Surrogate Advocates who support amazing moms in their surrogacy journeys. That’s how we started in 2020… solely working with surrogates. We’ve been helping amazing moms choose from vetted, ethical surrogacy agencies who are motivated to do their best work for our candidates.
We’ve taken all that experience and created what we like to think is the ideal agency not just for the amazing moms who choose to be surrogates, but also the hopeful parents-to-be who are putting their all into the mission to bring home their bundle of joy.
Throughout our first 3 years solely working w/ surrogates as advocates, we’ve realized something: There aren’t as many agencies who truly advocate for parents and surrogates as we’d like… believe us… we’ve searched.
So we decided to start an agency of our own.
There’s no one perfect agency, but we’re dedicated to becoming yours.
We offer a quick (free!) quiz to help you see if youโd be a good candidate for surrogacy. Click here to take it now! |
There are several requirements for surrogates (in order to protect the health of both the surrogate and the baby). You can find them on our requirements page. Here are a few: –ย ย ย ย having at least one successful, full-term pregnancy –ย ย ย ย being within a recommended age range –ย ย ย ย having a โhealthyโ BMI – ย ย free of tobacco and recreational drugs –ย ย having a strong support systemย To be honest, some of these requirements can be confusing (or, frankly, feel a bit limiting). So, once you take the quiz, if you have questions, feel free to reach out to us! Weโd be happy to explain, provide clarity on your qualifications, or work with you on the next steps in your journey. |
We put โhealthyโ in quotes for a reasonโbecause whatโs considered โhealthyโ is so different for each person! And, depending on a myriad of other factors, you may not need to fall exactly within this range.
However, a BMI between 18-32 is recommended because this is what is considered medically healthy for a surrogate undergoing IVF and other treatments along the journey.
A BMI that falls under the range may be too low for a safe pregnancy and delivery. It may also point to underlying health conditions for the surrogate. A higher BMI can impact the effectiveness of the IVF treatment, how your body responds to the medication, and ovarian function in general. A higher BMI can also lead to pregnancy and birth complications, too, which is why this requirement is setโnot only for surrogates but at all fertility clinics.ย
In short, the BMI range is all about ensuring the healthiest pregnancy possible.ย
First of all congratulations! Only 4 out of 10 women who take the quiz meet all of the requirements, so it’s super rare to have both the heart and the health history to qualify as a surrogate!ย
The next step after passing our 8-minute quiz is to schedule a Q&A with one of our awesome surrogate advocates. Theyโre experienced surrogates, too! Theyโll walk you through the whole process, help to build your profile, determine your ideal compensation, and match you with the best agency out there specifically to match your unique wants, needs, and personality.ย
Yes! You can become a surrogate if youโve had tubal ligation.
Tubal ligation is a surgery that involves cutting and tying the fallopian tubes (which prevents an egg from entering the uterus or sperm from passing from the tube to the egg).
In surrogacy, pregnancy happens through IVFโwhere the fertilized egg/embryo is transferred directly to the uterusโwhich doesnโt involve the tubes at all! So, in short, you can still bring your IPโs baby into the world even after tubal ligation.
- Typical compensation packages for surrogacy consist of a base compensation ranging from $45,000 โ $75,000, based on several factors plus additional payments for milestones leading up to and throughout the pregnancy, such as medication start, embryo transfer, maternity clothing at second trimester, and more.
- All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parentsโ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
- Compensation and Benefit Packages typically start once legal contracts are signed and a trust account is fully funded with the entire surrogate compensation and expenses.ย
- Surrogates receive their base compensation in monthly installments throughout the pregnancy.ย
Read more about surrogacy compensation: https://surrogacy.is/compensation/
No, your eggs wonโt be used in the surrogacy process.
There are two types of surrogacyโtraditional and gestationalโand with gestational surrogacy (the type of surrogacy we focus on!), the IPโs eggs and sperm will be used.
So, in short, the surrogate will not be biologically related to the baby at all.
Although it might seem strange that your significant other needs a background check, this is a requirement in place to protect all aspects and all individuals in the surrogacy journey.
A background check (both for the surrogate and her spouse) helps to ensure the safety of the environment for surrogate and baby during pregnancy and birth.
(Donโt worry, the Intended parents undergo a background check too!)
Yes, you canโt have more than 2 C-sections (or 3 with a clearance letter from your OB) or more than 6 live births.
There are a few required vaccinations for surrogacy: TDAP, Varicella (chickenpox immunity), MMR (measles, mumps, rubella). Others, for example flu and COVID are flexible.
Some IPโs may have specific requirements for their surrogate to ensure safety during pregnancy and delivery, or to match their lifestyle and values.
Itโs best to first take our short quiz to see if you qualify as a surrogate candidate. When you take the quiz, youโll be able to see and understand the basic requirements.
From there, we will connect with you to learn your goals, perspectives, and valuesโand connect you with an agencyย that honors your choices.
Typically, 21-40. We’ve had cases up to 45 get approved by an IVF clinic, but it’s rare.ย
Every prospective surrogate must be at least 21 years old before she can be approved for surrogacy. This minimum age requirement is set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, based on what experts have identified as the best indicators of success for a gestational carrier.
But most importantly age restrictions exist only to protect the surrogate and the baby’s health and give the best chance for successful outcomes!ย
For us to help you become a surrogate, you need to be a U.S. citizen or U.S. permanent resident.
Yes! You absolutely can be a single mom and a surrogate. You just need to make sure you have a good support system. You might need emotional support or potentially someone to be with your kids while you are attending appointments or delivering your intended parentsโ magical, miracle baby.
No. All medical expenses are covered by insurance or the intended parents/agency. All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parentsโ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
Also, before surrogate pregnancy, typical benefits & compensation can include:
- Monthly non-accountable allowance starting at $250+ per month throughout the journey
- Mock Cycle Fee starting at $500+
- Medication Start Fee starting at $500+
- Signing and other bonuses starting at $1000+
- Embryo Transfer Fee starting at $1000+
- Health Insurance Monthly Premium (actual cost)
- Legal Counsel (actual cost)
Parents that have decided to choose surrogacy have already been through a lot! The couples that I carried for had already fallen in love with the EMBRYOS before they transferred them to my uterus. They knew the sex of the future baby, and that they had all the normal chromosomes they should have.ย They knew for a decade before trying surrogacy that they would find a way to bring those embryos to life. And thatโs the story of a lot of those couples. They have invested so much time, hope, tears, and resources to make it possible for their children to be born. They will never change their mind about it!ย But if they did (which they wonโt!) there are fully enforceable legal contracts in place, as well as a fully funded trust account that has your entire compensation and medical expenses in it before you even begin IVF medications. The legal contract even has provisions in place for a next of kin, should anything happen to the parents before the baby is born, so there is someone ready and able to take them home and love them when they are born. When you get to the matching stage and hear the parentโs stories, you will see. Intended parents love their children just as much as we love our own.
A gestational surrogate becomes pregnant via IVF. The embryo is created in a lab, where the intended mother or donor egg is fertilized with the intended father or donorโs sperm. The embryo is then implanted into the surrogateโs uterus. With this method, the surrogate is not related to the baby. The majority of surrogacy arrangements are gestational these days.ย
At first glance, it would seem obvious that a surrogate would get attached to the child, right?!
But as a surrogate, you go into the process with eyes wide open to the fact that the child you are caring for is not your own.There is not that sense of yearning you have when youโre carrying your own child, wondering if it will have your eyes or your husbandโs nose. You are not choosing the babyโs name. Youโre not imagining all of the big moments the way you do with your own sweet babies!
You go into the pregnancy in a very non-romantic, science-based way, and you know that this kidโs parents loved her before she was ever conceived, and fought so hard to make her life a reality.
In fact, you probably will feel more attached to the intended parents, and not the baby.
Nope! We partner with agencies all over the US, who work with surrogates, intended parents, and hospitals all over the US.
If you prefer a local match or less travel, we will help you find agency options that meet your needs, but geography won’t hurt your ability to become a surrogate.
Once we review your agency options with you and you choose your ideal agency, you’ll complete their intake process until you’re cleared to match. There are a lot more intended parents than surrogates, so matching is usually fairly quick for surrogates. From the time you complete the intake process to match, it takes about 30 days on average.ย
๐ฏ you do! We work hard to find you the right agency who has the type of intended parents you want to help. We have a great relationship with our agencies, and they know how important it is to us that they find you the intended parents you’re hoping for!
While there are very few companies who call themselves surrogate advocates, we’re definitely not all the same. For example, Surrogacy Is…โค๏ธ is founded and privately owned by experienced surrogates whose singular focus is to advocate for other women entering this process, in the way we wish we’d had when we were starting out.
At Surrogacy is… being a surrogate advocate is not a “gimmick” or a sales pitch. It is in the DNA of each member of our organization, and our sole purpose for existing.
While there are others out there who call themselves “surrogate advocates” most are owned or funded by agencies whose interest is to recruit surrogates into their program, whether or not it’s the right and best fit for each surrogate.
But wait, didn’t I hear you say that you’re an agency, too?
We’re a surrogate advocate group who created an agency to provide more choice to our surrogates. That’s very different than an agency who creates a “surrogate advocate” group to refer people to their agency.
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
๐ฃ๏ธLet me tell you, embarking on a surrogacy journey can bring about countless unexpected opportunities! Just like Kim shared, itโs not only an amazing experience, but it also opens doors to forming meaningful friendships with like-minded individuals.
Surrogacy brings together incredible women who share a common bond, a deep understanding of the journey theyโre undertaking. As you navigate this path, youโll have the chance to connect with others who have walked a similar road, offering support, guidance, and friendship along the way.
These newfound friendships can become a source of strength, comfort, and shared experiences. Imagine having a network of compassionate individuals who truly understand your surrogacy journey and provide unwavering support.
So, get ready for more than just an amazing adventure. Embrace the opportunity to forge beautiful connections with like-minded friends who will walk by your side throughout this extraordinary journey of love and selflessness. Youโre about to embark on something truly special! ๐๐
#SurrogacyJourney #UnexpectedOpportunities #LikeMindedFriends #SharedExperiences #EmbraceTheConnection #SurrogacyIs
โจLet me tell you, every woman weโve had the privilege of working with has truly embraced and cherished the surrogacy journey! Itโs been incredible to witness their experiences unfold.
Sure, there may have been some bumps along the way, but guess what? They all say the same thing in the endโit was absolutely worth it!
Itโs amazing to see how their initial concerns and challenges transformed into joy and fulfillment. These brave women have shown incredible resilience and strength throughout their journeys. Theyโve inspired us with their determination and unwavering love for making dreams come true.
So, if youโre considering surrogacy, remember that the road may have its twists and turns, but the destination is undeniably worth it. Youโll be part of an extraordinary journey that brings immeasurable happiness to others. Trust in your heart, and embrace this remarkable path that has brought so much joy to countless women. Youโve got this! ๐ชโค๏ธ
#SurrogacyLove #WorthTheJourney #IncredibleExperiences #BraveWomen #JoyfulDestinations #SuroogacyIs
Surrogacy is truly heartwarming and life-changing! Whether you`ve experienced it firsthand or you`re just curious, surrogacy is an incredible journey that`s packed with emotions, challenges, and beautiful outcomes. โจ
๐ถ Making Parenthood Dreams Come True: Imagine not being able to carry a pregnancy yourself, but still being able to become a parent. That`s the magic of surrogacy! For those who thought their dreams of holding their own little one were impossible, surrogacy can turn those dreams into reality.
๐จโ๐ฉโ๐งโ๐ฆ Creating Unique Families: Families come in all shapes and sizes, and surrogacy makes it even more special. Whether you`re a same-sex couple, a single parent, or anyone facing fertility challenges, surrogacy opens up a world of possibilities to create a family that`s just right for you. It`s like designing your own storybook!
๐ช Empowering Surrogate Superheroes: Can we take a moment to salute the amazing women who step up to be surrogates? These incredible souls carry the hopes and dreams of others, and that`s a superpower on its own! The feeling of helping someone else experience the joy of parenthood is beyond words.
๐ Stories That Inspire: Oh, the stories that come out of surrogacy journeys! They inspire us to think outside the box, embrace diversity, and celebrate the unique paths we take to become parents. These tales become a part of our legacy, reminding us of the love that brought us together.
๐ A Legacy of Love: The gift of surrogacy isn`t just about bringing a new life into the world. It`s about creating a legacy of love, sacrifice, and boundless joy. Children born through surrogacy grow up knowing they`re cherished beyond measure.
So, there you have it, moms! Surrogacy isn`t just about babies; it`s about creating families, fostering connections, and embracing the beauty of unconventional journeys. Whether you`ve embarked on this path or are simply intrigued, surrogacy is a real-life fairytale that proves love truly knows no bounds. ๐นโจ
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Letโs address the misconceptions and shed light on the worth and value of surrogacy compensation. Surrogates make incredible sacrifices and dedicate their time, energy, and love to help create families. ๐ The compensation they receive is a testament to the immeasurable value they bring to the surrogacy journey.
๐ Not only are they helping other families fulfill their dreams of having children, but they are also helping their own families thrive. As Alyssa wisely put it, โitโs a win-win situation for everyone!โ
๐ Itโs time to show appreciation and support for the deserving surrogates who make dreams come true. Letโs celebrate their amazing contribution! ๐
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A lot of women say they felt a calling to become a surrogate. They felt a desire to do something bigger than themselves and wanted to give an incredible gift to someone else. Like Sia, many surrogates say they felt like they were meant to do this.
Surrogacy truly is something so meaningful and life-changingโฆin so many ways. Give this post a โโค๏ธโ if you feel the same way!
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Mark your calendars ๐๏ธ for next weekโs Podcast ๐๏ธ Episode on Tuesday, June 18th!
We chat with Brian Rosenberg, founder of @gays_with_kids on the emotional path to parenthood LGBTQ+ individuals face. Brian shares his journey of joys and challenges, offering tips for LGBTQ+ parents exploring surrogacy and adoption. Plus, get the scoop on all the amazing resources from GWK Academy offers!
Donโt forget to ๐ subscribe to our YouTube channel for an instant alert when the video drops, and hit โญ๏ธ follow on your favorite podcast platform so you wonโt miss a thing! (Links in our Bio!)
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Surrogacy Is is seeking the right professional to join our team! This is more than just a job, it is a calling!
We believe in working smart, hard, and with compassion for every person who trusts us with their most vulnerable journey.
We also believe in supporting our team who makes this incredible work possible and we promote a healthy work/life balance.
We offer:
โญ๏ธInsurance (company pays 50% of premium for employees)
โญ๏ธ13 paid holidays
โญ๏ธgenerous PTO
โญ๏ธ401K with 100% matching up to 4% of pay.
โญ๏ธ Hands-on, accessible, leadership and ongoing training and support
โญ๏ธFully remote positions
If you are looking for a company with lots of room and opportunities for career growth and longevity, this is it!
Check out the link in the bio
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Itโs an anthem yall. One second youโre thinking โdo I wana become a surrogate?!โ The next your helping anotherโs dream come true!
Hit the quiz button in our bio to see if you qualify mama! โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
Gender does not define the type of parent you are, your love does! ๐๐ค๐๐ค
Thatโs why today, on Non-Binary Parent Day, weโre celebrating all the wonderful non-binary parents in our community. Thank you for redefining parenthood and inspiring us all to celebrate what really counts: loving families. ๐ซ
We love the following inclusive parenting nicknames that families can use that arenโt gender-defined by our society:
๐ Renna
๐ค ZeZe
๐ Nom
๐ค Mapa
๐ Dama
๐ค Noddy
๐ Nobi
๐ค Mada
๐ Nopa
๐ค Opie
๐ Nommie
๐ค Baba
๐ Yaya
Which ones are your favorite? Or which ones will you or do you use in your family? Let us know in the comments. ๐ซถ
#NonBinaryParentsDay #NonBinaryPride #NonBinaryParents #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyFamilies #SurrogacyCommunity
โจ The Surrogacy Experience You Deserve โจ
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What We Offer:
๐ฐ Fair & transparent compensation โ no hidden cuts, just what you deserve.
๐ Real benefits that support YOU โ life insurance, lost wages, childcare, and more.
๐ Tons of education & guidance โ because you should always feel informed & empowered.
๐ฅ An empowering community โ real support from experienced surrogates & dedicated professionals.
๐ Low caseloads โ personalized & prioritized support with a team thatโs got your back, with decades of experience working for YOU.
๐ฌ Real conversations and connections โ none of that sales-y stuff. Our first call is just to chat about your quiz results & surrogacy! Basically, a free Q&A.
๐ค Collaborative matches โ based on both partiesโ preferences & desires for a perfect fit!
๐ซ What Some Agencies Do:
๐ธ Unclear or unfair comp โ hidden deductions, lower pay, or surprise costs.
โ Minimal benefits โ or worse, making you fight for what you need.
๐คทโโ๏ธ Little to no education โ leaving you guessing instead of guiding you.
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โโ๏ธ No real community โ just radio silence after matching.
๐ฌ Inexperienced or overwhelmed staff and inconsistent communication โ meaning you donโt get the attention or care you deserve.
๐ผ Sales-y pitches that arenโt even about you but everything they offer and do.
โ Matches that donโt meet your preferences
๐คซ Little to no reviews
โจ The choice? Easy. You deserve the BEST, and thatโs exactly what we deliver. ๐ Take the quiz in our bio or at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz and schedule a chat today! No pressure, we gotchu bestie!
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๐๏ธโจ Itโs time for another Surrogacy Diaries episode! ๐ Weโre sharing on all things surrogacyโreal stories, real laughs, and all the feels. ๐
And guess what? For this next episode, weโre bringing in the ultimate expertsโour Journey Coordinator surrogates! These incredible mamas have been there, done that, and now theyโre here to support YOU. Get to know more of the faces behind Surrogacy Is! (who knows, maybe your JC is featured!)
๐ง Full episode next week! Whoโs tuning in?! ๐๐
WHO & WHAT would you love to see featured on our upcoming episodes?! Got burning questions or a specialist you`d like to here from...DROP IT IN THE COMMENTS BELOW! (We also have a Podcast Interest Guest Form in our link.tree if you`d like to be one or nominate one!)
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Look at you, pumping princess?! ๐ผ๐ธ
We know being hooked up to a machine is not the most fun, but kudos to you for doing what you need to do to provide that delicious milk to a special babe. ๐
Sometimes having some little pumping essentials can make your next pumping break feel more like a relaxing moment to yourself. Did we just say relaxing? You know what we mean, as relaxing as pumping can be ๐คฃ
Here are some of our communityโs favorites:
โจA cozy cover, blanket, or jacket to help keep you warm.
โจA hand-free pumping braโcuz youโll want those hands to scroll your phone!
โจNipple shields & cream.
โจWipes, bags, or bottles to make storing and cleaning your machine between pumps easier. Who has time to do the whole routine every time, am I right?!
โจWater bottle and delicious snacks. We think you deserve chocolate!
โจ Breast pads or hot/cold packs to help with tenderness or leaking.
Treat yourself as the pumping princess you are. Youโre doing amazing, hun!
Do you have other pumping favorites? Please share your recommendations with our community in the comments!
#EmpoweredMoms #MotherhoodUnplugged #PumpingMamas #Pumping #PumpingMom #PumpingMilk #PumpingTips #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
๐ August was a month of miracles for our Surrogacy Is community! ๐ Weโre beyond thrilled to share that we celebrated 8 perfect matches, 13 hope-filled embryo transfers, 8 heartbeat confirmations, and welcomed 6 beautiful babies into the world! ๐ถโจ
These milestones are more than just numbersโtheyโre the dreams of intended parents coming true after long awaited journeys. Thank you to our amazing surrogates and intended parents for trusting us with your stories. Together, weโre making magic happen.
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#SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyIsAgency
But would she get it..like get it, get it!? ๐
Yall matching is all about instincts. You can look at the profile pictures, their story, everything on paper but you donโt know if itโs a fit until that match call and you start talking and connecting.
Trust your gut, youโve got this! ๐โจ
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I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if youโre looking for a quick and easy way to make money, being a surrogate is not the answer. ๐ฌ
Surrogacy is a time commitment. It can take a toll on your schedule, your body, and sometimes, even your emotions. Your heart has to be in for more than just the money.
Yes, it can be a big financial blessing for a surrogate. And yes, it can be something that she can do alongside raising her family and maybe even workingโbut a surrogate doesnโt become a surrogate without putting her heart into wanting the absolute best for her IPs and the future surro-baby she carries.
So no, itโs not a great way to make โeasy moneyโ but itโs ๐ค๐ฃ๐ ๐ค๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ค๐ก๐ช๐ฉ๐ ๐๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐๐ฎ๐จ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ข๐๐ ๐ ๐๐ง๐๐๐ข๐จ ๐๐ค๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐ง๐ช๐. In so many more ways than one.
If youโre interested in learning more about becoming a surrogate, our team would love to connect with you. To start, take our easy qualify quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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You rarely hear someone say to their friends who had children, โnaturally, โWhy didnโt you just adopt?โ
Why do people think itโs okay to (basically) shame intended parents with the same question? ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
Everyone deserves to choose the family-building option that feels the best to them. Whether thatโs birthing your own children, pursuing surrogacy, or adoption. As long as the decision is rooted in love, there is no wrong or right route.
If youโve ever felt called to help someone else build their family through surrogacy, start by taking our quick quiz here: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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A lot of surrogates feel nervous to tell their friends and family about wanting to be a surrogate, but a lot of times, their reactions surprise you! ๐ฒ
๐ฃ Let us know in the commentsโwho in our surrogacy community felt nervous sharing, and how did everyone react?
When you experience infertility, it can feel like it consumes every part of your life. The โwhat-ifsโ, the desperate hope, and the nerves are constantly heavy on your mind, and it can feel nearly impossible to think about anything else.
We know itโs hard, but remember the best thing you could do for your future child, your partner, and yourself is to take the time to show yourself even just a smidge of that abundance of love youโre so eager to give to growing your family.
๐ You deserve it. ๐
We hope youโre able to incorporate these ideas so you can carve out some time for little acts of self-care while you balance everything else weighing on your mind.
๐ฃ Community, if you have other suggestions, please feel free to share them with everyone in the comments.
#InfertilityAwarenessWeek #NIAW #NIAW2025 #TTC #TTCCommunity #InfertilityCommunity #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAfterInfertility
Okay, surro-sisters, we wanna knowโฆAre you team leggings or team maternity jeans?
๐ฃ Sound off in the comments below, and let us know which one you prefer to wear while pregnant! Share your faves in the comments so we know where to find them!
#ThisOrThat #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyCommunity #SurroSisters #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency
Can you have a relationship with your intended parents? Of course, you can. ๐ฏ
But itโs important to note, just like with any relationship, you really canโt force it. If youโre hoping to form a friendship with your IPs then itโs always best to mention that to your Matching Coordinator so she can take that into consideration when looking for matches.
Some intended parents will be hoping for the same thing with their surrogate and others might not. Thatโs okay. Finding someone that you can jive with and have a great experience with is a top priority of ours when matching.
If you want to hear more about our process or want to learn more about becoming a surrogate with us, take our short quiz at: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
๐ฃ Surro-sisters, how would you describe your relationship with your IP(s)? Let us know in the comments!
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On top of a surrogateโs compensation, itโs also important to realize that at times sheโll need allowances for things like childcare and to be reimbursed for the prenatal care and delivery.
Some people may ask, โWell, why canโt those expenses just come out of the compensation she receives?โ
And to answer that nicelyโฆ it just wouldnโt be fair! ๐ค
Asking a surrogate to use her own finances or to take away from the compensation she might already have plans for is not being very appreciative of the kind and extraordinary gift she is giving someone else: a child of their own.
๐ฃ Surrogates, when youโre on a journey make sure youโre working with an agency that will vouch for you and make sure youโre being taken care of by providing appropriate allowances and reimbursement protocols. โ
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If youโre interested in how our agency will have your back, connect with our team today by taking the quick quiz at: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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Did you know just like there are requirements to become a surrogate, there are requirements to become an intended parent too?
Many agencies will ask that intended parents have a relationship with a reputable fertility clinic and have undergone a criminal background and a financial, legal, and psychological consultation to confirm they are prepared for the unique processes and emotions of third-party family building. Just like surrogate screenings help give intended parents peace of mind about who they are working with, surrogates also appreciate the peace of mind they receive when agencies screen intended parents.
When working with a trustworthy agency, both sides can feel good going into their surrogacy journey.
If youโre an intended parent looking to start your journey, weโd love to chat about how our agency can help you. We provide a 90-day match guarantee and never require a deposit to work with us. Weโre committed to helping you and your biggest dream come true. Start your journey today by visiting: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
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Every surrogacy journey is unique, and we want to see yours! Whether you`re just starting or celebrating a milestone, let us know where youโre at in the comments! ๐คฐ๐ซ
Snap a pic ๐ธ with your `Surrogacy Is` milestone card and share it with us! You can either DM us your photo or post it and tag us @surrogacy.is so we can celebrate with you and feature you in our stories! ๐
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When you long for a child, your love for them is already so deep within your heart. ๐ Itโs a part of youโitโs a part of your story already. The universe is just moving the pieces needed to help it all unfold. Have hope and hold on to that love tightly. This magical story is still being written. โจ
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Many intended parents feel like a ball of nerves before a match call. ๐ซ They want so much for someone to like them enough to agree to help with their biggest wish.
But hereโs a secret: it goes both ways.
The surrogate is probably just as nervous, but more importantly, a match call should be viewed less like an interview and more as a way to gauge whether your preferences and personality are a match!
If the match feels right, your heart will know it. ๐ You wonโt have to stress over it. And donโt forget your agency is there to help this process feel less daunting.
If youโre an intended parent who wants to learn more about how we support our IPs through matching and beyondโfill out our interest form at surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
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๐จ Weโre growing and hiring at Surrogacy Is! ๐จ
Our team is currently looking for
โจ Intended Parent Matching Coordinator
Check out the position details aboveโand if youโre interested in joining our compassionate surrogacy team weโd love to hear from you!
Surrogacy Is is proud to offer competitive salaries, 401K & health benefits, and a remote working environment.
Apply today and you could just find yourself in your dream role, making a meaningful impact in the surrogacy world! ๐
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For a lot of surrogates, creating your matching profile can feel nerve-wracking because stating what kind of relationship you hope to have with your ideal intended parents feels a little vulnerable. But ultimately, thatโs exactly how youโre able to find your perfect match: by being ๐ฏ% open about what youโre hoping for.
๐ฃ How did you know you found the perfect match for your surrogacy journey? Share your story with the community in the comments. โฌ๏ธ
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyMatching #SurrogacyProfiles #SurrogacyRelationships
October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and our Surrogacy Is team is showing our support by sporting our pretty pink. ๐ฉท๐ฉท
Breast cancer is the second most common cancer among American women. So common that 1 in 8 women will develop breast cancer in their lifetime. With stats like that, itโs hard not to know someone close who isnโt affectedโlet alone have it be you.
Early detection can be key to saving a life. Make sure you know your risks and schedule your yearly mammograms. Encourage the women in your life to do the same. Knowledge is power and together we can make strides against breast cancer.
Find a link in our stories to donate to breast cancer research in honor of all the incredible women whoโve ever had to battle breast cancer. ๐ซถ
#breastcancerawarenessmonth #pinkoctober #breastcancer #KnowledgeIsPower #breastcancersurvivors #breastcancer #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency
This month, we honor Infant Loss Awareness Month with a heartfelt episode featuring Kristin McQuaid, a mother through surrogacy and adoption, and a passionate advocate for those navigating the pain of loss.
In next weekโs podcast, Kristin bravely shares her journey through infertility and the profound sorrow of losing her baby, London. From this heartache, she founded "London is the Reason," a nonprofit dedicated to supporting families facing similar tragedies.
Join us for an emotional conversation about resilience, community, the power of compassionate support and how shared experiences can inspire hope and meaningful action.
Learn more about Kristin`s mission at LondonistheReason.com.
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Do surrogates get into surrogacy just for the money? No.
Can the compensation be a reason she decides to do it? ABSOLUTELY!
Most surrogates will tell you that after being a parent themselves, they knew they wanted to help someone experience that same love they feel for raising their child.
Most surrogates will also tell you that surrogacy compensation largely impacted their familyโs lives and helped them with goals they may not have been able to achieve otherwise. Like putting a down payment on a new house, starting a business, or paying off debt.
Both things can be true. And neither one takes away from the impact or importance of the other. ๐
Do you have any other surrogacy myths youโd like us to answer in future social posts? Let us know in the comments!
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When surrogates share their decision to carry a baby for someone else, itโs not unusual that theyโll be met with a few raised eyebrows. ๐คจ Actually, if weโre being honest, you can almost guarantee it. ๐
In most cases, this is just because someone doesnโt know enough about surrogacy. There are a lot of misconceptions out there, and until someone meets a sweet surrogate IRL, they may not get the opportunity to learn the real facts.
So as a surrogate, itโs actually really cool that you can meet those raised eyebrows and unveil the truth about surrogacy so that it becomes more understood and acceptedโฆone misinformed aunt or coworker at a time.
But as much as we would love everyone to be pro-surrogacy, theyโre some people who just wonโt ever get it. Thatโs okay. It is what it is. Sometimes all you need to do is speak your truth and leave it at that. Your community gets itโฆ and we get you. ๐ซถ
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyIsforSurrogates #SurrogateSupport #SurroSupport #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacyMisconceptions
"No one has a right to tell you how you are going to start or complete your family"/ When people say using a surrogate is selfish, you hold your babies and know they are wrong. ๐
Jessie Jakluskyโs story isnโt just about surrogacyโitโs about grief, love, and the power of rewriting your path. From losing her son Luke to becoming a mom of two and founding Surrogacy Simplified, Jessie now supports Intended Parents with compassion and clarity.
๐ง Full episode streaming next Tuesday!
๐ฒ linktr.ee/surrogacysimplified
Follow @surrogacysimplified for real support & IP guidance ๐
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In celebration of Pride Month, ๐ณ๏ธโ๐we fondly remember the โSurrogacy Is A Podcastโ episode where Casey and Sunshine got to sit down with the excited new dads-to-be, Brian Patrick Flynn (you might recognize him as the HGTV Dream Home Designer) and his husband, Hollis Smith. ๐ค
Before their sweet babe was born (she is now 1 and on the move!), these incredible dads shared just how appreciative they are of surrogacy and the amazing surrogate who helped them expand their family.
Sunshine also talks about her experience carrying for two dads and why it was so important to her to show her support for same-sex families so her son could see. ๐ซถ
This heartfelt episode is worth a listen, even a year later! ๐ฅนTo find it, check out the podcast link in our Linktree or search for โSurrogacy Is A Podcastโ on your preferred podcast platform.
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Deep breathe fellow warriors. Weโre in those together and weโre not giving up. Weโll continue to do what we all do best and thatโs help make dreams come true, support, love, and educate one another. ๐๐๐ #dontquit #inthistogether #risesisterrise
Every parent does it. They set huge expectations on themselves (sometimes unrealistic expectations ๐ซ ) and then feel like they arenโt measuring up. When we see other families having an easier time, we immediately think we are doing something wrong.
๐คซ But hereโs one of the biggest secrets in parentingโฆ no one knows exactly what theyโre doing! Weโre all just winging it. ๐คทโโ๏ธ๐คทโโ๏ธ
So, if youโre having an especially hard parenting day, here are some of our favorite affirmations to repeat to yourself while taking a deep breath.
Don`t forgetโฆ
You got this ๐ช
You are doing great! ๐
You only feel this way because you love your child so much.๐
And guess what? You are one of your child`s favorite people in the world. ๐ Even if sometimes you run out of patience with them.
Share this post with a parent-friend of yours and let them know theyโre doing great. Together, we can agree that parenting can be both beautiful and hard at times!
#ParentingAffirmations #Parenting #ParentingCommunity #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #ParentsThroughSurrogacy #IntendedParents #IPs #Surrogates #Moms #MomMotivation #Dads
Every child deserves the chance to live healthyโwhether thatโs from the food they eat, the words of encouragement they hear, the education they are taught, or the medical care they receive. Every day there are superheroes who are doing all they can to positively impact our childrenโs physical and mental well-being. ๐๐๐๐
On this National Child Health Day, we want to spread a well-deserved thank-you to all the teachers, doctors, mentors, supportive organizations, and loved ones who do everything they can to keep our children healthy (and happy)!
Please share this post with the superheroes in your life to show them how much they are appreciated ๐ซถ
#ChildHealthDay #HealthyChildren #community #ItTakesAVillage #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency
The surrogate is not the babyโs mom ๐ฃ๐ฎ
If we could, we would scream this from the top of a mountain, but for now, this will do. ๐คฃ
A surrogate just acts as the oven that โbakesโ or grows the baby. Thatโs where the term gestational carrier comes from because she truly is just โcarryingโ someone elseโs baby. The baby has always belonged to his or her parents, from the very beginning. ๐
As moms themselves, surrogates can sympathize with that longing for wanting kids of your own. This is usually one of the many reasons they decide to help another family achieve this dream.
If youโve ever considered becoming a surrogate and helping someone else have a child of their very ownโฆtake our super simple quiz to see if you qualify at: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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In this episode, we honor Infant Loss Awareness Month by welcoming Kristin McQuaid, a mother through surrogacy and adoption, who has turned her heartache into a powerful legacy for her baby, London.
Kristinโs journey to motherhood is a testament to resilience. She shares her struggles with infertility and severe endometriosis, leading her and her husband to pursue surrogacy. The hopeful preparations gave way to the devastating loss of their baby, Londonโa moment that forever changed her life.
Yet, Kristinโs story doesnโt end in sorrow. Through her pain, she found strength, creating "London is the Reason," a nonprofit dedicated to supporting families facing similar tragedies. By placing London at the center of her mission, Kristin ensures that her babyโs short life carries on, creating meaning and hope from loss.
Join us for a heartfelt conversation about how grief can inspire action and the transformative power of community. Kristin also shares the importance of compassionate support and open dialogue about the complexities of parenthood and loss.
Discover how Londonโs story lives on through Kristinโs advocacy and learn more about her mission at LondonistheReason.com.
Watch the video interview here: youtube.com/@Surrogacyis
Listen here: surrogacyisapodcast.buzzsprout.com
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Whatโs one piece of advice some of our experienced surrogates give potential surrogates? ๐ค
โจDonโt try to put your surrogacy journey in a specific timeline. โจ
Instead focus on the goal at the end: giving sweet IPs their baby. This will help you stay a bit more grounded and remind you not to try and rush every part of the process. Things come up and some things take longer than you might expect. But the timing of every surrogacy journey works out exactly how it was destined to. So enjoy it while youโre in it!
One day youโll wake up and your journey will be over and youโll look back and reminisce about it all. If you arenโt so focused on the timelines then itโll be those precious moments youโll remember the most.
What other piece of advice would you give potential surrogates about timing? Let us know in the comments below โฌ๏ธ
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Today and every day, we are thankful to the incredible men and women who gave so much for the freedoms we cherish now. ๐บ๐ธ
If you have the day off today, let us know in the comments below how youโre showing your appreciation and celebrating Memorial Day today. โฌ๏ธ
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One thing you can count on from us is that weโll always keep it real-real. Especially when it comes to surrogacy and parenting, weโll tell you as it is.
Is parenting one of the greatest, most magical gifts imaginable? Absolutely. ๐ค
Does that mean every moment is sparkles and rainbows? Hell no. ๐
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Will there be days when you want to pull your hair out while on the verge of a mental breakdown? Yep. ๐ฉ
Will there be days when your heart will swell because you never thought it was possible to love someone this much? Also, yep. ๐ฅน
Having one thing be true doesnโt mean the flip side canโt be true, too. Feelings around parenting donโt fit in just one box at a time.
Itโs real. Itโs hard. Itโs beautiful. And itโs so worth it. All at the same time. โ
If youโre feeling the wealth of emotions that come with parenting. Youโre human. And youโre doing amazing. ๐ซถ
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Ohhhh man is the news sweet sweet ๐ช SWEEEET! Whatโs that mean for the newbies!? It means a positive pregnancy! ๐คฐ๐
Call us modern storks. Carrying babies that are in no way genetically oursโฆ holding an incredible amount of โspecial type of loveโ for the parents and baby. Weโre badass mamas. Weโre givers. Weโre strong women. We choose those out of pure autonomy to do with our body what helps make dreams come true. We carry and birth someone baby who has fought so hard to become parents.
Who would be more deserving of becoming a parent!? Itโs freaking magical.
If you were or are a surrogate drop a comment sharing why you became a surrogate. #breakthestigma #badassmama #surrogacyis #surrogacyislove #surrogacyjourney #momlife #momssupportingmoms #momsarethebest
Ladies, itโs Sunday and itโs โNo Bra Dayโ, so donโt you even think about putting on a bra today.
While today might be a fun excuse to let loose (literally ๐คฃ), it should also serve as a reminder of all the breast cancer survivors who may be unable to go without bras because they need them to hold their prostheses after surgery. Itโs also your check to make sure youโre giving yourself monthly self-exams and have your next screening scheduled. Itโs important to remember that most types of breast cancer can be treated if caught early.
This October make sure you keep those boo-bies safe! ๐ป
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Compensation may not be the main reason why women decide to become surrogatesโฆ but it doesnโt mean itโs not an important factor in her choice!
Yes, many surrogates do surrogacy because itโs an amazing thing to do for someone else. But itโs also a way for her to accomplish goals that may have felt too far out of reach otherwise.
Many surrogates use their compensation toโฆ
๐กBuy a house
๐ธPay off debt
๐ผStart a new business
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Take time off
๐Go back to school
โAnd so much more
If youโve completed a journey, and you feel comfortable sharing, let potential surrogates know what things youโre proud to have used your compensation on in the comments below โฌ๏ธ
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Today we remember the babies we carried but didnโt get to meet. The babies born sleeping. The babies we held but never got to take home. And all the babies we had to say goodbye to way too soon.
Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Dayโฆitโs more than just a day. A loss is something that you carry every day, every month, every year of your life. Itโs a heartache that never goes away.
But spreading awareness around loss, sharing stories, and building a community can help that pain feel a little less unbearable to carry every day.
Today (and always) we hold space for those who have experienced loss and we send our immense love and support to everyone who has dealt with this unimaginable heartache. If you feel comfortable, please share your baby`s name in the comments so we can honor them.
๐ฃ Community, please send love to each of these babies and their families by giving each comment a heart emoji. Letโs give them the outpouring of love they deserve today. ๐ซถ
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Tonight, weโre honoring all the babies gone too soon. ๐ฏ๏ธ
Join us in the global event, Wave of Light, by lighting a candle at 7 p.m. in your time zone. This is a special way to send love and light into the world on behalf of all the precious little ones who will always live on in our hearts. ๐
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Heading to the snack pantry before any now sees you stuff handful of Oreos, Pringles, any candy bar, youโve hidden inside the frozen green peas in the freezerโฆ. Hang in there mamas we deserve 3 to 5 minutes of freedom to eat our snacks without having to share.
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You know it... we had to jump on this adorable AI action figure trend, too! ๐ค
We couldn`t think of anyone more deserving of their own action figures than our Surrogacy Is surrogates and intended parents. The strength, the love, and the commitment to working together to create something so beautiful is commendable.
You guys feel like real-life superheroes, and our team is so honored to help create (and celebrate) your incredible stories every day. ๐ซถ
We had way too much fun creating the different figure combinations here (sorry, we`re a little late-ish to the game ๐คฃ but like everything we do, everything had to be perfect and created with extra Surrogacy Is editing flair!!!) Also we added some fun accessory packs to showcase our milestone cards and something we`ve cooked up that we`re so excited to announce soon.
PLUS some Limited Edition accessories in collaboration with the one and only @surrogatesisterdesign #obsessed with their shop!
Which one of our action figures and accessories do you like the best?
Do any of them remind you of your own journey?
Let us know in the comments, then share our posts!
And if you made your own surrogacy-themed action figure, we want to see it! Please tag us @surrogacyis ๐
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Are surrogates related to the baby they carry? ๐ค
โ NOPE! โ
Surrogates go into their journey knowing they are just the โhost wombโ (this is why surrogates sometimes refer to them as womb-mates!). They canโt wait to hand over the sweet baby to their parents. ๐
If you want to know more about this mindset, connect with our team through our qualifying quiz and get access to our free Ultimate Surrogacy Guideยฉ!
surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
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Weโre joining in and setting off our own metaphorical fireworks to celebrate our amazing agency recap for June ๐
These wow-worthy numbers speak for themselves, and we love to see them. ๐ Here is just a snapshot of the incredible things that made June so special for our hardworking team members:
๐ถ 5 sweet, new SI agency babies were born!
๐โโ๏ธ37 new and educated surrogates moved through the intake process
๐ซถ11 perfect matches were able to start on their exciting journeys together
๐ฑ8 embryo transfers (cross all your fingers for these hopeful surrogates and IPs)
We leave for these numbers and the celebrations that mean happy progress towards dreams coming true. ๐
Please join us in applauding the surrogates, intended parents, and our tireless Surrogacy Is team who get to play such a HUGE part in these inspiring milestones. Give this post a โ๐ โ and show everyone love for another note-worthy month!
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