We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
This isn't just any
Surrogacy Journey...
…and we’re not a typical surrogacy agency. That’s why surrogates choose us first.
And it’s why we have one of the best surrogate support platforms in the industry.
For the last 3 years, Surrogacy Is has been inspiring the most amazing moms to become surrogates, helping them find their perfect agency, and supporting them along the way, at no cost to them.
Thatโs how weโve helped over 1500 candidates start their surrogacy journeys since 2020.
In our search to find the โperfect agencyโ for the incredible moms who choose to become surrogates, weโve learned so much. Weโve learned how some of the most solid and supportive agencies thrive, and weโve learned where many break down, even the best ones.
And in this search, weโve realized somethingโฆ to find our ideal agency, we needed to create it ourselvesโฆ and now we’ve done just that.
Surrogacy stories from
Real-Life Supermoms
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Here's what to know about how we advocate for surrogates...
We’ve designed our agency with YOU in mind…
We will be honest about whether or not we have parents who are looking for candidates just like you. If we don’t have the right match for you, we can share your profile with our partner agencies that we’ve vetted and trust, so you don’t waste hours filling out long-form applications only to be turned away or ignored or worse โ land with an agency you regret!
We insist on stellar communication…
From your first contact with us, all the way through Intake, Matching, and Journey Coordination, you will always be up to date and have clarity on what’s coming next. If you have questions, you can count on us to pick up the phone or reply to your text or email the same day.
We help you findย fairย surrogacy compensation
We help you to set your base surrogacy compensationย to make sure it’s fair and you are getting what you deserve for the generous gift you’re giving! Aside from your base, our benefit package is thoughtful and among the best (if not THE BEST) in the industry, because it was designed by surrogates who know the sacrifice it takes to help someone bring their baby into the world.
We’re with you every step of the journey
We provide free coaching to navigate the complex journey, through webinars, our online groups, and one-on-one calls whenever you need it! Each of our Surrogate Advocates are experienced surrogates themselves. Our Journey Coordinators have years of experience under their belts, and bring unique skills to the table such as a background in Social Work, Midwifery, and Mental Health. Our team is committed to providing wrap around support for parents and surrogates on this once in a lifetime journey.
And the best part is...
advocating for surrogates benefits everyone.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Morgan & La’Phadra
Surrogate Advocate & Experienced Surrogate
We are true
surrogate advocates
A surrogate advocate is a person or group who truly advocates for the brave, amazing moms who decide to become surrogates.
We take being surrogate advocates very seriously. Being a surrogate advocate isnโt a marketing gimmick. Itโs not a side-hustle. Itโs everything.
Surrogates, in our eyes, are the most important piece of this equation. And being surrogate advocates doesn’t mean we don’t advocate for intended parents.
Quite the opposite.
We believe that advocating for surrogates is the key to the smoothest and most successful surrogacy journeys possible.
While most agencies say they โadvocateโ for the surrogate, do they really?
If you think about it, the perspective many agencies have comes down to human nature. Most agencies are intended parent focused, because thatโs the ultimate client theyโre designed to serve. And thatโs okay! We serve intended parents, too!
After all, the purpose of a surrogacy agency is to help intended parents achieve their dream of having a baby, and we think thatโs an absolutely noble purpose. Itโs our purpose, too!
But far too often, the surrogateโs interests can be dismissed, so a true surrogate advocate helps balance that equation.
Weโre not looking to tip the scales, just balance them.
No, we donโt think so. If someone truly advocates for surrogates, the interests and experience of the surrogate should be the mission of the company. Their organization should be surrogate focused first & foremost.
That doesnโt mean that intended parents arenโt a focus, as well. But itโs our philosophy that, a well-prepared, well-informed, well-supported surrogate is the cornerstone of the most successful surrogacy journeys.
How we serve intended parents is by taking great care of the surrogates who make the surrogacy journey possible.
And we’re not talking about creating surrogacy divas here. Weโre talking about ensuring equal support, and mutual respect. We believe that, if the end goal is for the intended parent(s) to bring home their sweet baby, and for the surrogate (and her family) to have their lives changed in the most positive way, this is how itโs done.
Hereโs whatโs important to know about us. Weโre surrogate advocates first. That’s how we started, and that’s what we’ll always be.
Every surrogate that goes through our process gets the following things that most (all?) agencies donโt offer:
- A surrogate advocate who supports you through your journey 100% free
- Access to a library of video and other resources to help you feel confident and prepared each step of the way
- Ongoing mental health support throughout the journey and up to 6 months postpartum
- One-on-one IVF Education and Injection Support
Most surrogacy agencies have long lists of intended parents waiting to be matched with their perfect surrogate. If an advocacy group is owned by such an agency, it might be difficult for them to truly encourage any surrogate who enters their process to consider all of her options when they really want her to work with their agencyโregardless of whether thatโs the best fitย for her.
Because we spent our formative years building a platform and relationship with our partner agencies, it’s easy for us to know what each of their IP clientele is looking for and when a surrogate might be happier and have a better match through another program than our own. We only want to manage journeys that we can do an excellent job, so if we cannot offer that to a surrogate candidate, we have no motivation not to be honest about that!ย
And hereโs whatโs important for you to know about working w/ Surrogacy Isโฆ we’ve spent the past 3+ years getting to know the ins and outs of over 100 agencies, and in that process we’ve narrowed it down to a small handful that truly meet the bar we set for our partners โ if my sister wanted to be a surrogate, would I feel confident referring her to this agency? If the answer is not a resounding yes, then we don’t refer to them. It’s that simple.ย
But all this knowledge has also empowered us to create a program so special and unique, that takes the lessons from the best of the best and pitfalls we’ve seen so many agencies run into throughout our careers in this industry, that Surrogacy Is as an agency, is truly a gold standard in Journey Coordination and Support for Surrogates and Intended Parents. We’re so excited to be able offer this option to Surrogates and IP’s and make the journey feel seamlessย from beginning to end. We live for this work and to hear those words at the end of every journey “I could not have done this without you.”
We’ve got you.
Not just an agency, but yes.
We started off as surrogate advocates, and we’ll always be surrogate advocates first and foremost.ย
We’re not an agency that starts a “surrogate advocate group” as a marketing gimmick. If you’re already an agency, why not just advocate for surrogates as an agency, if you truly care about advocating for surrogates?
And there are agencies that truly do this for surrogates, don’t get us wrong. For example, the agencies we provided in the past as options for you are agencies who truly advocate for surrogates.
So, if anything, we’re surrogate advocates that started an “agency” to better serve our surrogates. If we can be the best option and fit for what you need in your journey, then we should be your agency.
Can you see the difference?
So, if you haven’t yet, take our 8-minute quiz, then schedule a 1-on-1 call with a surrogate advocate (theyโre experienced surrogates, too!) and they can walk you through what surrogacy could look like for you and your family!
(The content above has been updated to better fit our definition of what a surrogate advocate is. To see our original copy, click here.)
We understand
every surrogate is unique.
The journey of surrogacy is an amazing, life-changing experience.
Moms get to help another family get started while bringing herself the opportunity to do the things sheโs always dreamed of for her own family.
Every single woman who volunteers to take on this journey to help another family become whole, does so with lots of different ideas, expectations, and motivations.
Whether you’ve seen first-hand the struggles of infertility for someone you love and care about, or you are simply exploring the idea out of curiousity, it’s important that you are informed about the process, the risks, and the rewards of helping someone else in such a tremendous way.
As much as intended parents have ideas about who they want their surrogate to be, and how they imagine her lifestyle and values while caring for their unborn child, surrogates also have expectations and hopes for the type of family they want to share this journey with. Itโs our goal to connect amazing moms with the right surrogacy agencies to bring their dream to life, too.
We believe with all our hearts that surrogacy is family, sisterhood, strength. Surrogacy isโฆ Love.
Kristina
Experienced Surrogate
There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.
A smooth journey requires
the right professionals.
A good surrogacy agency matches surrogates with hopeful people who want to have a baby. They thoroughly screen potential surrogates and parents and guide them through the entire process, including timely disbursement of funds to the surrogate, and providing support until a short while after delivery.
BUT, NOT ALL SURROGACY AGENCIES ARE CREATED EQUAL.
There are so many parties involved in the delicate emotional, legal and financial process and agency oversight is a must.
The right agency will make sure all medical bills are taken care of by the trust and escrow so that nothing remains on the surrogateโs shoulders after delivery.
We empower you to
design your journey.
Unlike going directly to any other agency, we have your best interest in mind from the jump. If we can’t meet what you’re looking for, we’re not afraid to tell you โ but not just that, we’re equipped to help you find it through one of our trusted partner agencies!ย
Whether you find yourself fitting in perfectly with our program, or you choose one of our trusted partners, the agency will be responsible for communicating between attorneys, doctors, psychologists and others to make sure everyone is in the loop at all times so you donโt have to balance all the details.
What sets us apart
from others...
Our founders have been surrogates 2 and 3 times each, and have worked closely with dozens of agencies throughout their careers.
Our Surrogate Advocates, who are also experienced surrogates, know what itโs like to be in your position both as novice first time surrogates and with more experience.
We know what it’s like to pick an agency and wonder, “was that the right choice? Did I choose the right agency?”
Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know, so we’re here to help you decide, whether it’s our program, or one of the vetted agencies we partner with. You will land in a safe place with real people who will consider what you want out of your surrogacy journey, and help you get there.
We’ve been called “Surrogacy Doulas”… we think that fits us well!
Kelsey
Experienced Surrogate
So... what's it like
to be a surrogate?
We’re looking for unicorns like you
You may not realize it, but your bodyโs ability to create a healthy baby AND bring it into the world isnโt just amazing โ itโs rare.
You may not have felt special as you struggled to see your feet and you stopped fitting into your bras, but we promise: you really are so, so freaking special.
And we need moms just like you to bring joy to a family in the making and to your family as well.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Are we the real deal?
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Meet Our Founders...โค๏ธ
Sunshine Hanson
Founder, President, 3x Surrogate
If you ever get the pleasure of meeting our co-founder, Sunshine Hanson, youโll quickly realize sheโs as warm as her name suggests and as fun as her ever-changing hair color.
Another thing thatโs hard to miss about Sunshine is her passion for surrogacy.
In 2017, Sunshine transitioned from teaching high school English to working in the surrogacy industry. With her experience as a 3x gestational surrogate, she wanted nothing more than to be a part of helping surrogates have beautiful journeys.
But as she dove into the industry, Sunshine couldnโt shake the feeling that there just wasnโt enough advocacy, transparency, and support in the community. That feeling grew so strong that Sunshine knew she had to do something bigger to improve the surrogacy industry.
Together with her husband, Kyle, she used that feeling to build Surrogacy Is. Shortly after launch, they recognized the need was larger than they anticipated, and they needed help to fulfill their mission, and her former colleague, Casey, was the missing piece of the foundation. Together, they formed a dedicated team and created an advisory program where surrogates could learn about the process and feel confident in their choices. Then, after 3 years, the dream evolved even further when the team found that intended parents werenโt getting the same considerations. Determined to do what feels right for everyone involved, the Surrogacy Is agency was born.
When Sunshine isnโt sharing her tips and surrogacy stories online or spreading her infectious passion about surrogacy, you might find her relaxing in the pool with her daughter and three dogs, or testing out a new brunch spot in Savannah.
Casey Bojorquez
Founder, Vice President, 2x Surrogate
She won’t rest until everyone is taken care of.
Have you ever met someone who instantly made you feel so good inside? Someone who just radiates love and makes you feel safe like you can trust theyโll always be on your side? Thatโs Caseyโour co-founder, Vice President, and collective mama of Surrogacy Is.
On a deeper level, Casey Bojorquez is a two-time surrogate with over a decade of experience working in the surrogacy industry. Throughout her work, she couldnโt help but feel similar sentiments as Sunshine about the industryโ so she was thrilled when Sunshine and Kyle approached her about joining forces to create something better for the surrogacy world.
Casey started out by developing a more comprehensive surrogate outreach and community program, but she as time went on, she dreamt of doing more. Instead of trying to find the best agencies to recommend to new surrogates, she believed Surrogacy Is could become the perfect agency for both surrogates and intended parents.
So, thatโs exactly what the team set out to do, and the direction of Surrogacy Is shifted to create a space where surrogates and intended parents are advocated for and supportedโevery step of the way.
When our lovely Casey isnโt making waves in the surrogacy world, she can be found enjoying time with her husband and four daughters at the beach or hiking a new trail.
Kyle Hanson
Founder, CEO, CMO, Husband to 3x Surrogate
(that counts, right?)
Once a skepticโฆ now a surrogacy evangelist.
If youโre ever looking for a mediocre Dad joke, Kyle is your guy. If jokes arenโt your thing, heโs also really good at having heart-to-hearts with surrogate partners or offering the absolute best forms of encouragement.
Our co-founder, Kyle Hanson, is the type of guy who loudly roots for you, whether youโre a surrogate or an intended parent. He wants you to have the most empowering, informative, and supported surrogacy journey possible.
Why? Because he watched his wife Sunshine go through the journey of surrogacy first-hand as a surrogate, and he witnessed the boss energy it takes for a woman to be a surrogate. He also got to meet (and bond with) both sets of her intended parents. He heard their unique paths to parenthood and sympathized with everything they had gone through to have their biggest dream come true.
When Kyle & Sunshine started talking about the idea of Surrogacy Is, it didnโt take long for him to develop what is still the base framework for how Surrogacy Is reaches so many amazing moms, every single day. In fact, he immediately started working tirelessly behind the scenes to make it a realityโand he remains the โwizard behind the curtainโ for everything that helps Surrogacy Is run today.
During the day, you can usually find Kyle putting out tech fires, rallying up the marketing team, and sending a good (great?) GIF in the team chat. When he logs off, heโs usually cruising the coastal Georgia rivers with Sunshine and their daughter, Jasmine, or heโs catering to Dee Dee, Adora, and Finny, the family dogs. You might also find him performing a drum solo on any and every available surface.
They say it takes a village to raise a child. Sometimes, it takes a village to have a child.
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Frequently
asked questions
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Surrogacy is a process where a woman carries and delivers another person or couple’s child. This pregnancy happens through in vitro fertilization (IVF), which means this woman does not have any biological connection to the baby.
The surrogate is the โgestational carrier;โ this means she is providing the womb to carry the embryo for the Intended Parents (IPโs).
In surrogacy, there are Intended Parents, agencies, and surrogates.
The Intended Parents (IPโs) are the individuals looking to build their family or bring a baby into the world. The agencies work directly with the IPโs, helping them find the right surrogate candidates, coordinating with attorneys, helping with logistics (insurance, psychologists, contracts, etc.) and supporting them in the decision-making process. This way the IPโs can focus on developing a relationship with the surrogate! And the surrogates are the incredible mamas who help make it all happen!
Yes, but more. 
First & foremost, we’re Surrogate Advocates who support amazing moms in their surrogacy journeys. That’s how we started in 2020… solely working with surrogates. We’ve been helping amazing moms choose from vetted, ethical surrogacy agencies who are motivated to do their best work for our candidates.
We’ve taken all that experience and created what we like to think is the ideal agency not just for the amazing moms who choose to be surrogates, but also the hopeful parents-to-be who are putting their all into the mission to bring home their bundle of joy.
Throughout our first 3 years solely working w/ surrogates as advocates, we’ve realized something: There aren’t as many agencies who truly advocate for parents and surrogates as we’d like… believe us… we’ve searched.
So we decided to start an agency of our own.
There’s no one perfect agency, but we’re dedicated to becoming yours.
We offer a quick (free!) quiz to help you see if youโd be a good candidate for surrogacy. Click here to take it now! |
There are several requirements for surrogates (in order to protect the health of both the surrogate and the baby). You can find them on our requirements page. Here are a few: –ย ย ย ย having at least one successful, full-term pregnancy –ย ย ย ย being within a recommended age range –ย ย ย ย having a โhealthyโ BMI – ย ย free of tobacco and recreational drugs –ย ย having a strong support systemย To be honest, some of these requirements can be confusing (or, frankly, feel a bit limiting). So, once you take the quiz, if you have questions, feel free to reach out to us! Weโd be happy to explain, provide clarity on your qualifications, or work with you on the next steps in your journey. |
We put โhealthyโ in quotes for a reasonโbecause whatโs considered โhealthyโ is so different for each person! And, depending on a myriad of other factors, you may not need to fall exactly within this range.
However, a BMI between 18-32 is recommended because this is what is considered medically healthy for a surrogate undergoing IVF and other treatments along the journey.
A BMI that falls under the range may be too low for a safe pregnancy and delivery. It may also point to underlying health conditions for the surrogate. A higher BMI can impact the effectiveness of the IVF treatment, how your body responds to the medication, and ovarian function in general. A higher BMI can also lead to pregnancy and birth complications, too, which is why this requirement is setโnot only for surrogates but at all fertility clinics.ย
In short, the BMI range is all about ensuring the healthiest pregnancy possible.ย
First of all congratulations! Only 4 out of 10 women who take the quiz meet all of the requirements, so it’s super rare to have both the heart and the health history to qualify as a surrogate!ย
The next step after passing our 8-minute quiz is to schedule a Q&A with one of our awesome surrogate advocates. Theyโre experienced surrogates, too! Theyโll walk you through the whole process, help to build your profile, determine your ideal compensation, and match you with the best agency out there specifically to match your unique wants, needs, and personality.ย
Yes! You can become a surrogate if youโve had tubal ligation.
Tubal ligation is a surgery that involves cutting and tying the fallopian tubes (which prevents an egg from entering the uterus or sperm from passing from the tube to the egg).
In surrogacy, pregnancy happens through IVFโwhere the fertilized egg/embryo is transferred directly to the uterusโwhich doesnโt involve the tubes at all! So, in short, you can still bring your IPโs baby into the world even after tubal ligation.
- Typical compensation packages for surrogacy consist of a base compensation ranging from $45,000 โ $75,000, based on several factors plus additional payments for milestones leading up to and throughout the pregnancy, such as medication start, embryo transfer, maternity clothing at second trimester, and more.
- All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parentsโ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
- Compensation and Benefit Packages typically start once legal contracts are signed and a trust account is fully funded with the entire surrogate compensation and expenses.ย
- Surrogates receive their base compensation in monthly installments throughout the pregnancy.ย
Read more about surrogacy compensation: https://surrogacy.is/compensation/
No, your eggs wonโt be used in the surrogacy process.
There are two types of surrogacyโtraditional and gestationalโand with gestational surrogacy (the type of surrogacy we focus on!), the IPโs eggs and sperm will be used.
So, in short, the surrogate will not be biologically related to the baby at all.
Although it might seem strange that your significant other needs a background check, this is a requirement in place to protect all aspects and all individuals in the surrogacy journey.
A background check (both for the surrogate and her spouse) helps to ensure the safety of the environment for surrogate and baby during pregnancy and birth.
(Donโt worry, the Intended parents undergo a background check too!)
Yes, you canโt have more than 2 C-sections (or 3 with a clearance letter from your OB) or more than 6 live births.
There are a few required vaccinations for surrogacy: TDAP, Varicella (chickenpox immunity), MMR (measles, mumps, rubella). Others, for example flu and COVID are flexible.
Some IPโs may have specific requirements for their surrogate to ensure safety during pregnancy and delivery, or to match their lifestyle and values.
Itโs best to first take our short quiz to see if you qualify as a surrogate candidate. When you take the quiz, youโll be able to see and understand the basic requirements.
From there, we will connect with you to learn your goals, perspectives, and valuesโand connect you with an agencyย that honors your choices.
Typically, 21-40. We’ve had cases up to 45 get approved by an IVF clinic, but it’s rare.ย
Every prospective surrogate must be at least 21 years old before she can be approved for surrogacy. This minimum age requirement is set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, based on what experts have identified as the best indicators of success for a gestational carrier.
But most importantly age restrictions exist only to protect the surrogate and the baby’s health and give the best chance for successful outcomes!ย
For us to help you become a surrogate, you need to be a U.S. citizen or U.S. permanent resident.
Yes! You absolutely can be a single mom and a surrogate. You just need to make sure you have a good support system. You might need emotional support or potentially someone to be with your kids while you are attending appointments or delivering your intended parentsโ magical, miracle baby.
No. All medical expenses are covered by insurance or the intended parents/agency. All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parentsโ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
Also, before surrogate pregnancy, typical benefits & compensation can include:
- Monthly non-accountable allowance starting at $250+ per month throughout the journey
- Mock Cycle Fee starting at $500+
- Medication Start Fee starting at $500+
- Signing and other bonuses starting at $1000+
- Embryo Transfer Fee starting at $1000+
- Health Insurance Monthly Premium (actual cost)
- Legal Counsel (actual cost)
Parents that have decided to choose surrogacy have already been through a lot! The couples that I carried for had already fallen in love with the EMBRYOS before they transferred them to my uterus. They knew the sex of the future baby, and that they had all the normal chromosomes they should have.ย They knew for a decade before trying surrogacy that they would find a way to bring those embryos to life. And thatโs the story of a lot of those couples. They have invested so much time, hope, tears, and resources to make it possible for their children to be born. They will never change their mind about it!ย But if they did (which they wonโt!) there are fully enforceable legal contracts in place, as well as a fully funded trust account that has your entire compensation and medical expenses in it before you even begin IVF medications. The legal contract even has provisions in place for a next of kin, should anything happen to the parents before the baby is born, so there is someone ready and able to take them home and love them when they are born. When you get to the matching stage and hear the parentโs stories, you will see. Intended parents love their children just as much as we love our own.
A gestational surrogate becomes pregnant via IVF. The embryo is created in a lab, where the intended mother or donor egg is fertilized with the intended father or donorโs sperm. The embryo is then implanted into the surrogateโs uterus. With this method, the surrogate is not related to the baby. The majority of surrogacy arrangements are gestational these days.ย
At first glance, it would seem obvious that a surrogate would get attached to the child, right?!
But as a surrogate, you go into the process with eyes wide open to the fact that the child you are caring for is not your own.There is not that sense of yearning you have when youโre carrying your own child, wondering if it will have your eyes or your husbandโs nose. You are not choosing the babyโs name. Youโre not imagining all of the big moments the way you do with your own sweet babies!
You go into the pregnancy in a very non-romantic, science-based way, and you know that this kidโs parents loved her before she was ever conceived, and fought so hard to make her life a reality.
In fact, you probably will feel more attached to the intended parents, and not the baby.
Nope! We partner with agencies all over the US, who work with surrogates, intended parents, and hospitals all over the US.
If you prefer a local match or less travel, we will help you find agency options that meet your needs, but geography won’t hurt your ability to become a surrogate.
Once we review your agency options with you and you choose your ideal agency, you’ll complete their intake process until you’re cleared to match. There are a lot more intended parents than surrogates, so matching is usually fairly quick for surrogates. From the time you complete the intake process to match, it takes about 30 days on average.ย
๐ฏ you do! We work hard to find you the right agency who has the type of intended parents you want to help. We have a great relationship with our agencies, and they know how important it is to us that they find you the intended parents you’re hoping for!
While there are very few companies who call themselves surrogate advocates, we’re definitely not all the same. For example, Surrogacy Is…โค๏ธ is founded and privately owned by experienced surrogates whose singular focus is to advocate for other women entering this process, in the way we wish we’d had when we were starting out.
At Surrogacy is… being a surrogate advocate is not a “gimmick” or a sales pitch. It is in the DNA of each member of our organization, and our sole purpose for existing.
While there are others out there who call themselves “surrogate advocates” most are owned or funded by agencies whose interest is to recruit surrogates into their program, whether or not it’s the right and best fit for each surrogate.
But wait, didn’t I hear you say that you’re an agency, too?
We’re a surrogate advocate group who created an agency to provide more choice to our surrogates. That’s very different than an agency who creates a “surrogate advocate” group to refer people to their agency.
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
๐ MAY RECAP ๐
May was busy doing what she does best โ growing dreams and building families. ๐ฅนโจ And wow, did our community DELIVER.
Hereโs what went down with our Surrogacy Is fam last month:
๐ถ 6 beautiful babies born (welcome to the world little ones!)
๐คฐ 44 surrogates rocked those lovely lady bumps
๐ 8 perfect matches made โ the beginning of something magical!
๐ฑ 7 embryo transfers (sticky vibes activated!)
๐ซ 13 intended parents moved to matching (dreams, meet destiny)
๐ฆ 15 incredible surrogates also moved to matching (letโs go, unicorns!)
These numbers? They represent real moments. Real people. Real love. ๐ Every milestone is a reminder of what #SurrogacyIs: hope, connection, and unstoppable heart.
Keep shining, keep dreaming, and keep proving that this journey changes everything. ๐ฅ๐
#SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyStrong #IntendedParents #SurrogatesSupportSurrogates #MayRecap #SurrogacyAgency #StickyThoughtsOnly #MatchingMagic
๐ฌ๐พ Meet the real MVPs of remote work: our furry (and hairless!) coworkers! Whether theyโre keeping our laps warm, barking during Zoom calls, or demanding attention mid-emailโฆ we wouldnโt trade โem for the world. ๐ปโค๏ธ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ท๐ด๐ฎ๐ฅ
This months team meeting we spent way too much time swooning over each otherโs petsโฆ and honestly, we regret nothing.
Hereโs to the unsung heroes of our remote work life โ the pets who make every day pawsitively better! ๐พโจ
๐ Drop your work-from-home buddy in the comments using an emoji or gif!
#RemoteWorkLife #PetCoworkers #WFHPerks #TeamPets #FurBabiesOfTheOffice
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June 5, 12:00
For a lot of people, there can be some sticker shock ๐ฑ when first hearing the overall cost of surrogacy.
One of the first important steps in starting your surrogacy journey is understanding all the costs associated with a journey and determining what a realistic budget is for you and your family. To do this, youโll want to decide what things are most important to you and whether or not you want to explore other options for funding (loans, grants, etc). Another huge factor will be the agency you decide to work with for your journey, and whether their support matches the price they are quoting you. โก๏ธ Scroll through this post for the tips on what to keep an eye out for ๐
If you want help, our team is here. We have a blog all about ways to fund your surrogacy journey (you can find it on surrogacy.is/blog). You can also connect with us directly (you can do that here: surro.is/parents), and weโd be more than happy to talk things through with you!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyCosts #SurrogacyBudgeting #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney #IPs #IntendedParents #IPSupport #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
Surrogacy isโฆabsolutely priceless.
Itโs hard to put into words the weight of just how much of an impact a surrogacy journey can have on youโwhether youโre the surrogate or the intended parentโbut these surrogates and intended parents do a beautiful job of doing so in this video.
If you want to learn more about starting your own journey, letโs talk!
For Surrogates: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
For Intended Parents: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyJourneys #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyStories
Why canโt a surrogate be on government assistance to qualify? ๐ค
This is a question we hear a lotโand honestly, we know it can be very frustrating if this is your situation.
But the truth is, surrogacy compensation is not guaranteed. Meaning, if you were unable to achieve a successful pregnancy or if, for some unfortunate reason, you werenโt able to carry the surrogate baby to term, compensation payments would stop. This could be devastating on its own, but it would be even more heartbreaking if losing those payments caused your family to question how they could afford their next meal or where to sleep.
Thatโs why itโs best to make sure your family is financially set up in the best way to pursue a surrogacy journey. You can always revisit the idea once things are more stable.
If you have more questions about qualifications or about your specific situation, feel free to reach out to our team. Weโre happy to help!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyQualifications #SurrogacySupport #Surrogates #SurrogacyJourneys
โจ New Episode Drop! โจ
After losing her son Luke at 22 weeks, Jessie Jaklusky couldโve given up on becoming a momโbut instead, she turned her pain into purpose ๐
Now a proud mother to two daughters via surrogacy and Founder of @surrogacysimplified, Jessie is helping other Intended Parents navigate their own paths with empathy and ease.
๐ง In this episode:
๐ Jessieโs powerful story of grief and resilience
๐ก The why behind Surrogacy Simplified
๐ค Real talk about stigma, healing, and building your family your way
๐ ๏ธ Practical guidance every Intended Parent should hear
Sheโs walked this roadโand now she walks it with others.
๐ฒ Learn more: linktr.ee/surrogacysimplified
Follow: @surrogacysimplified for support & insight ๐
#SurrogacyIsLove #IntendedParents #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacySimplified #InfertilityAwareness
๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐ Happy Pride Month! ๐ณ๏ธโ๐๐ณ๏ธโ๐
Here at Surrogacy Is, we believe love is loveโand family is family. We will always celebrate and honor families built around love. ๐
If youโre part of the LGBTQIA+ community, we`re so proud of you for living authentically. We know itโs not always easy, but being your true self is brave, beautiful, and so inspiring.
If you live in a space or have relatives that do not support your lifestyle or the way you choose to build your family, we would love to be your honorary sisters, unclesโwhoever you may need. Youโll always be wrapped in a big, supportive hug here with us. ๐ซ
To all our LGBTQIA+ allies, thank you for being here to help uplift this community. Together we can help create a world where everyone knows they are just as deserving of love, acceptance, and kindness as anyone else, no matter how they identify.
โค๏ธ๐งก๐๐๐๐
#Pride #PrideMonth #LGBTQIA+ #Queer #ChooseLove #StandUp4HumanRights #LoveIsLove #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsInclusive #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents #SurrogacyIsForSurrogacy
To kids, it doesnโt take a lot to be a good parent, but it means everything to HAVE a good parent. โจ
Your role in your childโs life will shape them. It doesnโt matter how you became their parent; it matters how you show up for them, day after day.
So, this Global Parents` Day, weโre celebrating the GOOD parents everywhere. The parents who question if theyโre good because theyโve lost hours of sleep โฐare constantly redirecting their kiddos ๐
โโ๏ธ๐คฆโโ๏ธ or losing their minds trying to keep a million things straight. ๐
(If youโre wondering if youโre one of the good ones, you are. Thatโs the sign. ๐)
So today, wrap your little one in a hug and let them squeeze you extra tight and extra long, because the fact you keep showing up for your kid deserves to be applauded today (and every day, really). ๐ซ
You may not feel like itโs making much of a difference todayโฆbut one day youโll look back and realize just how much parenting shaped both of you. ๐ซถ
#GlobalDayOfParents #ParentsDay #Parents #Parenting #ParentingJourney #Family #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney
When you long for a child, your love for them is already so deep within your heart. ๐ Itโs a part of youโitโs a part of your story already. The universe is just moving the pieces needed to help it all unfold. Have hope and hold on to that love tightly. This magical story is still being written. โจ
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Do you ever get attached to the baby? Donโt you feel empty arms after?โ ๐ญ
Itโs a fair questionโhormones are wild. But hereโs the truth: intentionality changes everything.
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When you step into surrogacy, youโre not dreaming up names, decorating a nursery, or imagining preschool drop-offs. Youโre picturing the look on the parentsโ faces the first time they hold their baby.
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Thatโs the moment youโre carrying toward.
Thatโs the heartbeat behind it all. ๐
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Yes, emotions run deepโbut this journey is never about replacing your own story. Itโs about helping someone else write theirs. ๐ซ
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#SurrogacyJourney #EmptyArmsSyndrome #SurrogateSupport #FamilyBuilding #LondonsLegacy #FertilityAwareness #SurrogacyTruths #InfertilitySupport #IntentionalParenting #LoveMakesAFamily
You rarely hear someone say to their friends who had children, โnaturally, โWhy didnโt you just adopt?โ
Why do people think itโs okay to (basically) shame intended parents with the same question? ๐คฆโโ๏ธ
Everyone deserves to choose the family-building option that feels the best to them. Whether thatโs birthing your own children, pursuing surrogacy, or adoption. As long as the decision is rooted in love, there is no wrong or right route.
If youโve ever felt called to help someone else build their family through surrogacy, start by taking our quick quiz here: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
Itโs an anthem yall. One second youโre thinking โdo I wana become a surrogate?!โ The next your helping anotherโs dream come true!
Hit the quiz button in our bio to see if you qualify mama! โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
๐ญ POV: You thought surrogacy was just โsign a paper and boomโbaby.โ
Me, entering stage left with props, contracts, medical jargon, and emotional whiplash:
โจ Welcome to the real show, babes.
From matching vibes to med protocols and legal dramaโthis ainโt your average fertility fairytale.
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Add in a dash of hormone chaos, sprinkle some IVF magic, cue the hospital room lightsโฆ itโs giving main character energy with a plot twist in every act.
#SurrogacyJourney #TheatricalFertility #ModernFamilyBuilding #POVReel #InfertilityHumor #ReproRealness #SurrogacyWithStyle #FertilityWithFlair
Surrogacy compensation is totally something you should feel empowered about! You are putting in a lot of work in this journey ๐๐
Our team will help talk through compensation with you so you can decide on a range that feels right to you while also being respectful to the intended parents youโll be working with.
To see how we work to empower surrogates to set their compensation โโโก๏ธ swipe through todayโs posts.
If you have any questions about compensation, let us know in the comments!
If youโre looking to start your surrogacy journey and are curious about compensation, fill out our short quiz here: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz and our team will be in touch!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyCompensation #Surrogacy #Surrogates #EmpoweredJourneys #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
Some days weโre surviving, some days weโre thriving. Either way, weโre doing our best ๐ชโค๏ธ
#MomLife #RealTalk #ModernMotherhood #NoMoreMomGuilt
Surrogacy is not a surface-level experience. Itโs so much more. It has a profound impact on your lifeโand itโs hard to really understand it until youโve been on a beautiful journey yourself. ๐ซ
๐ If youโd like to learn more about the surrogacy experience, fill out our qualifying quiz at: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacySupport #Surrogates #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
What are you waiting for!? ๐ณ ๐ณ ๐ณ Our quiz (๐ in bio) is literally just 8 minutes long. No pressure, no pushy calls, just support when/if you want to learn more!
You get to find out if you qualify and then you can schedule a call ๐ฑ with a super chill and supportive experienced surrogate whoโll answer all your questions- talk compensation ๐ต, process โค๏ธ๐คฐ, and all the deets.
Not ready yet? Thatโs cool. Weโre here when you need us and you get access to our free guide so you can study ๐ up while you think on it!
#momlife #surrogacyis #surrogacyislove #surrogacy #surrogacyagency #surrogacyjourney #surrogacyisagency #surrogacysupport #surrogacycommunity #instagood #reelstrending #trendingnow #reelchallenge #instachallenge #viralcontent
"No one has a right to tell you how you are going to start or complete your family"/ When people say using a surrogate is selfish, you hold your babies and know they are wrong. ๐
Jessie Jakluskyโs story isnโt just about surrogacyโitโs about grief, love, and the power of rewriting your path. From losing her son Luke to becoming a mom of two and founding Surrogacy Simplified, Jessie now supports Intended Parents with compassion and clarity.
๐ง Full episode streaming next Tuesday!
๐ฒ linktr.ee/surrogacysimplified
Follow @surrogacysimplified for real support & IP guidance ๐
#SurrogacyIsStrength #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #PodcastSneakPeek
Today and every day, we are thankful to the incredible men and women who gave so much for the freedoms we cherish now. ๐บ๐ธ
If you have the day off today, let us know in the comments below how youโre showing your appreciation and celebrating Memorial Day today. โฌ๏ธ
#MemorialDay #HonoringOurHeroes #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #Surrogacy
Heading to the snack pantry before any now sees you stuff handful of Oreos, Pringles, any candy bar, youโve hidden inside the frozen green peas in the freezerโฆ. Hang in there mamas we deserve 3 to 5 minutes of freedom to eat our snacks without having to share.
#momlife #unfilteredmotherhood #reallifemom
โ๐ผ๐ ๐๐ถ๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ป ๐๐ฝ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐๐พ๐๐ ๐ป๐๐๐๐พ๐๐๐, ๐ผโ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐ถ๐น ๐พ๐ ๐๐ ๐๐พ๐ป๐.โ
๐ฃHow would you describe your favorite moment in surrogacy? Let us know in the comments!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
Thank you for your sweet words, Lael! And for being such a special member of our surrogacy community! It has been an absolute joy to have watched you go through two incredible journeys. You are absolutely amazing! ๐ซถ๐ซถ
If youโd like to start your own surrogacy journey and are looking for the type of support Lael describes, letโs connect!
Take our qualifying quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
After you finish, someone from our team will be in touch with you soon to set up a time to chat!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #BestSurrogacyAgency #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyReviews #SurrogacyCommunity #Surrogates
To be fair this questions comes up a lot. And we get it- you are carrying a baby for nine months, so how do you not get attached to it?
The reality is you do, but in a unique way.
You get attached to the love, the faith, and perseverance that you witness the parents hold for their child.
Surrogacy is not for everyone & thatโs why surrogates go through psychological screenings at the beginning to make sure this very special journey is truly the right fit for you.
Learn more by taking the quiz and scheduling a call with an experienced surrogate!
#surrogacyis #surrogacyislove #surrogacy #surrogacyagency #surrogacyjourney #surrogacyisagency #surrogacysupport #surrogacycommunity #surrogacystories #moms #momssupportingmoms #sidehustlesformoms #momsarethebest
Are you even a good parent โฆ
๐คIf you lost your cool?
๐ฅฑIf you were so worn out your kiddo ended up watching his tablet for most of the day?
๐ฉIf your babe refuses to sleep throughout the night?
๐ซฃIf you find yourself hiding in the pantry or bathroom just because you crave some moments of free time?
โจโจYes. Yes. GOD YES! โจโจ
Parenting has good moments and bad momentsโevery day. The important thing is you donโt focus only on the bad because, pretty soon, thatโs all you will notice. And when it gets to that point, itโs easy to feel like youโre failing. But you arenโt.
If your kid is loved, cared for, and thrivingโฆ youโre an A+ parent! ๐
So, grab those Oreos, set up a relaxing spot alone in the pantry, and treat yourself. You deserve it! ๐ช๐
#Parenting #MomMotivation #ParentingWins #ParentingSupport #ParentingInspiration #ParentingCommunity #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency
Bonding hits different when itโs your kids laughing hysterically at multiple box shot attempts at their mothers head.
Consent was had
Core memories were made
Ice packs were necessary
#trendreels #trending #momlife #momsofig #familybuilding #surrogacyis
This is just as much your journey, too ๐ As an intended parent, you deserve special consideration and journey milestones, too!
Our agency believes in providing support to both sides of surrogacy and tailoring resources for each. โก๏ธ Swipe through todayโs post to see how our agency goes above and beyond for intended parents.
In addition, weโre also proud to offer a 90-day match guarantee and no money upfront for all our intended parents. ๐
If youโd like to learn more about our agency and what we can offer you during your journey, fill out our interest form here: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
Afterward, someone from our team will be in touch to chat! ๐ฑ
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyCommunity #IntendedParents #IPs #IPSupport #BestSurrogacyAgency #90DayMatching #FastMatching #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
Warming up to answer every mean and misinformed surrogacy comment like a boss EVERYDAY. (Some of these comments are HARSH). And prepping to drop some serious surrogacy knowledge for yโall pillow baby bump vibes ๐คฐ and allโฆ because we gotta break the stigmas breathe some quality life into family-building facts, am I right?
#SurrogacyIs #FamilyBuilding101 #surro #surrogacyislove #surrogacy #surrogacyagency #surrogacyjourney #surrogacyisagency #surrogacysupport #surrogacycommunity #surrogacyisforsurrogates #surrogacystories #momlife
Itโs dinner time! Cool, let me just break dance for 20 minutes and NOT sit down for dinner.
Going out to eat, waiting in line, sitting in a waiting room, the MOMENT I sit down for a minute to relax.
Itโs like the energy of โrelaxโ is a recipe for โmom watch thisโ ๐ ๐ ๐
#momlife #momsofinstagram #toddlermomlife
We asked surrogates if they would recommend surrogacyโฆand their answersโฆ ๐ฅน You just have to hear them for yourself! ๐ญ๐ฅน๐
If youโve ever thought about becoming a surrogate, weโd love to help you out on your journey!
Take our qualifying quiz today here: surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyCommunity #SurrogacySupport #SurrogateStories
Showing up and speaking up makes a difference. Swipe back to our earlier post to see what weโre fighting ๐ช for!
Listen as Sunshine shares what it means to advocate for access to family building in Georgia ๐
This isnโt just policy talkโฆ itโs about protecting IVF, lifting up family building practices, supporting our military families, and making sure everyone has the chance to grow their family with dignity and support.
๐ฃ๏ธ Letโs keep the momentum going:
๐ Donate to RESOLVE
๐ฃ Share this video
Every conversation helps move us forward. And every voice matters.
#SurrogacyIsAdvocacy #FertilityAccessMatters #AdvocacyInAction #RESOLVEAdvocacyDay #FamilyBuildingForAll #SurrogacyIsLove #GeorgiaAdvocacyDay #allin #allinfertility
๐ฃ Surrogacy Is on the Hill (well, the Peach State version!)
Our Co-Founder, Sunshine Hanson, is showing up big today for Advocacy Day in Georgia ๐บ๐ธ๐ โ representing both RESOLVE and ASRM to speak out on behalf of ALL who need access to family building options ๐
In a key swing state like GA, these conversations matter a little extra. Sunshine is attending meetings with several Georgia legislators to advocate for:
โจ Access to fertility care
โจ IVF protections
โจ Support for veterans and federal employees
โจ Fair family building policies that include ALL families ๐
๐ฃ๏ธ Swipe to see moments from her meetings with:
๐ธ Anish Nalla, Legislative Assistant to Rep. Hank Johnson [D-GA04]
๐ธ Madison P., legislative correspondent for Sen. Raphael Warnock [D-GA]
๐ธ Kenneth Cutts, Legislative Assistant to Rep. Sanford Bishop [D-GA02]
๐ Want to support this advocacy work? Help @resolveorg continue this mission by donating today! Every dollar helps protect IVF and expand access to the care we all deserve.
๐ฏ Donate today to support the mission! (๐ in our linktr.ee)
๐ฃ Share it, donate if you can, and help us keep the momentum going!
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The most humbling yet empowering experience as a surrogate is being a part of something much greater than yourself yet you were an absolutely integral part of making it happen.
My kids still talk about how crazy it is that their mom grew another human being for someone else. They see love in action in so many shades through surrogacyโฆ
the love of the parents holding their baby they dreamt of for SO LONG.
the love of their mama who was committed to the ivf cycles, transfers, pregnancy and labor to bring their baby into their world.
the love of their mama who also did it to save and build a bigger future for our family.
so much love. so much purpose. so much of so much GOOD happened because of surrogacy.
Our hearts are heavy as we process the recent attack on the American Reproductive Centers in Palm Springs. This act of violence targeted a clinic that holds so many dreams of future familiesโa space meant for hope, love, and new beginnings.
We are deeply grateful that no patients, staff or embryos were harmed, thanks to the bravery of first responders who acted swiftly. Weโre sending love to those who were injured and hope they are recovering well, both physically and emotionally.
To all surrogates, intended parents, and fertility professionals: your courage and commitment to creating life and love in the face of adversity inspire us every day. ๐ Let`s continue to stand united, supporting one another and advocating for safe, compassionate reproductive care for all. ๐ค
Visit @resolveorg for more information, updates, and ways to support those affected. We will also share new information on our stories.
#SurrogacyStrong #FertilityCare #CommunitySupport #HopeInAction
Think youโve got main character uterus energy? ๐
Hereโs what it actually takes to qualify as a surrogate โ because itโs not just about having a quote โgood wombโ. ๐ถโจ
Spoiler: Itโs giving responsible, reliable, healthy pregnancies, financially stable, and already-a-mom energy. ๐โโ๏ธ
#SurrogacyExplained #SurrogateQualifications #MainCharacterWomb #ModernMotherhood #FertilityFacts #TikTokEdutainment #SurrogacyJourney #EmpoweredWomen #InfertilityAwareness #WombWithAView #PregnancyWithPurpose
How can a surrogate just give up the baby sheโs been carrying?! Easy.๐คทโโ๏ธ
It was never hers to begin with it. ๐
These amazing surrogates share their views on the whole โHow could you give up your surrogate baby?โ and โDonโt you feel attached?โ remarks so many surrogates hear during the journey.
๐ฃHow did you explain this during your journey? Let us know in the comments!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #Surrogates #SurrogateCommunity #SurroSisters #SurrogacyIsForSurrogates
When your baby is placed in your arms for the first time, that moment can feel like the official start of life as you know it as a parent. But actually you earned that title way beforehand. ๐
Your parenting journey started the moment you decided in your heart that you were meant to be a parentโฆand it grew with every step you took to make that a reality. Throughout the whole process, through all the hurdles, heartache, and longing, your heart was already in parenting modeโeven if you didnโt realize it at the time.
๐๐ Your heart was sending so much love to your future child long before they ever took their first breaths. ๐๐
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyAgency #IntendedParents #IPs #IntendedFathers #IntendedMothers #IPSupport #IPCommunity #SurrogacyIsForIntendedParents
Letโs retire the Handmaidโs Tale takes ๐
Surrogacy isnโt exploitation. Itโs consent, care, compensation, and compassion.
Big difference.
Earning up to $75k as a first time surrogate is something to feel empowered by. Youโre helping grow someoneโs future family when intern youโre helping your families future with this compensation.
#ReproJustice #SurrogateStrong #InfertilityAwareness #LetWomenChoose #EmpoweredMotherhood #FeminismInAction
Some surrogates and intended parents hope for a business/transactional relationship in their match, while others donโt.
Your wishes for your journey are completely your ownโthe important part is finding someone who wants the exact same thing as you so there is no disappointment later about how the relationship unfolds. ๐ค
๐ฃIf you could describe your surrogacy relationship in one wordโฆwhat would it be? Tell us in the comments!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyRelationships #SurrogacyMatches #SurrogacyStories #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyJourneys
We know what youโre thinking. ๐ค As a newer agency, why should you trust us?
There are so many reasons. โก๏ธ (Swipe through todayโs post to see just a few of them)
If youโd like to talk with our team more about how we can help support you throughout your journey, fill out an interest form here: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyAgency #IntendedParents #IPs #IPSupport #BestSurrogacyAgency #FastMatching #NoMoneyUpfront #SurrogacyScreening #90DayMatching #SurrogacyJourneys
5 years before becoming a surrogate I suffered through a silent abortion that sat heavy on my heart for several complicated reasonsโฆ
I was okay.
I moved forward.
But there was this aching feeling of wanting to restore a feeling of taking a life.
And I want to preface I believe in the right of โmy body, my choiceโ. I believe in the life saving measures abortion offers. I believe in choosing what is right for you beyond medically necessary.
This is simply a part of my story and my experience with that choice.
I suffered silently in confusion.
Conflicting feelings of regret and validation.
I was shut down by family and could not feel openly.
Then I found surrogacy.
I found an opportunity to give a life, selflessly.
To bring more light and creation into my body and my soul.
And through surrogacy I healed, deeply.
I witnessed myself committing to needles, transfers, and growing someoneโs child that was wanted so greatly.
I witnessed myself being a part of something extraordinary.
I helped build a forever family. A forever kind of love.
Delivery day one of the intended fathers looked at me with tears of joy running down his face and said โwe will forever be grateful for the gift you gave usโ.
And that was the hug I desperately needed and received.
You have to have had a baby to be a surrogate โ not to exclude, but to protect.
This is often a familyโs last chance.
Theyโve probably been through loss, treatment, and heartbreak.
They need someone whose body has already done pregnancy safely.
To feel confident that their precious embryo has the best chance at success.
And to protect you in ensuring pregnancy is indeed safe for you.
#SurrogacyTruths #SurrogacySupport #SurrogateQualifications #FertilityAwareness #SurrogateCommunity #InfertilityWarriors #RealTalk #FamilyBuilding #YouMatterToo
๐ฃSurro-Sisters, we have a fun poll for you!
For everyone who has completed a journey or currently is on a journey, did you work with a domestic family ๐ก (someone within the United States) or did you work with an international family ๐?
Drop the emoji for your journey in the comments so we can see! ๐ก๐
#ThisorThat #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyCommunity #SurroSisters #SurrogacyAgency #SurrogacyIsForSurrogacy
Independent journeys vs agency-led journeys ๐ค This is one of the biggest dilemmas in surrogacy, and in our latest podcast โจ we talk about our real, candid thoughts on both! ๐ง
In this episode for our misconceptions series, Casey and Sunshine answer the most common question, โWhat does an agency even do?โ as well as discuss the tools you truly need if you decide to do an independent journey.
โ ๏ธSpoiler alert: itโs a lot! โ ๏ธ
๐๏ธThis episode is a canโt-miss for both surrogates and intended parents considering their ideal type of journey. Use the podcast link in our bio, ask Alexa to play the latest episode of "Surrogacy Is a Podcast" or tune into your favorite platform to watch and listen! ๐
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April was an exciting month for us at the Surrogacy Is agency. ๐ฅณ We had 6 babies born, and amongst those babies were our first set of twins! ๐ถ+๐ถ+๐ถ+๐ถ+๐ถ๐ถ
We want to send a heartfelt congratulations to all our surrogates and intended parents who celebrated a birth this month. (If you were one of them and feel comfortable dropping a comment here, our community would love to shower you with love!). ๐
Amongst the babies bornโฆ
โThe average time from start to finish for our surrogates was 1 year, 3 months, and 2 weeks.
โ The average time from start to finish for our intended parents was 1 year, 4 months, 3 weeks.
How incredible. Imagine how much different your life could look like in little over a year if you started your journey today?! ๐ฅน
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Partner: โYou want to have a baby for someone else?โ ๐คฏ
Surrogate: โYeah, why not?!โ ๐คทโโ๏ธ
A lot of husbands/partners are shocked when their wife/partner first expresses interest in wanting to become a surrogateโbut after they research it and go through it, they understand how truly special the whole surrogacy experience is.
๐ฃ How did your partner react when you told them you wanted to be a surrogate? Let us know in the comments!
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Today, we honor momsโand we celebrate every and all paths to motherhood. ๐
Hereโs to the moms who gave birth, the moms who never gave up, the moms who stepped in, and the moms who live on in our hearts. โMomโ is so much more than a title; itโs a love that shapes and molds so much of our livesโin ways words canโt truly really even express. ๐ซ๐ฅฐ
Happy Motherโs Day to all the incredible moms in our community. You are so loved and so appreciated for everything you do! ๐๐๐ฉต๐๐ฉท
As a new surrogate, you will experience so many things that probably feel like brand-new territory for you. Like creating a profile about yourself, doing tests with a fertility doctor, and even negotiating legal contracts. ๐ซฃ
The legal stage especially can feel a little scary for new surrogates, but it shouldnโt be something that makes you nervous. In fact, it should help reinforce your confidence in your journey, and that everything is laid out to make sure you are taken care of. ๐
To help everything feel better about the legal process, weโve packed so many good tips and information in our โLegal Clearanceโ lesson in โThe Ultimate Surrogacy Guideยฉโ that our team created to give to all our surrogates for free. (ICYM: There are over 130 lessons for every part of your journey!) ๐
If youโd like to see this lesson and many more, reach out to our team.
If youโre a new surrogate interested in learning more about the process, take our qualifying quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz to access our free guide. Someone from our team will contact you to answer any of your questions!
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You know what motto I repeat to myself multiple times a day?
๐ฃ๏ธ๐ฃ๏ธโYou Can Do Anything, But You Canโt Do Everything.โ
As moms, itโs easy for us to take so much on, and then when the pile of tasks is burying us alive, weโre the first to get on ourselves and question why everything feels so impossible. It can even make us want to throw in the towel or give up on certain things.
But what if, instead, you reminded yourself that you donโt have to do everything alone? In fact, you shouldnโt. No one can sustain that way.
So, yes. You can absolutely do anything. ๐ช But you canโt do everything, especially all at once.
When you feel like giving up, or youโre about to explode, remember you CAN reassign some things to other people. You CAN speak up when things feel like they are weighing you down. And you CAN ask for help.
You got this, beautiful. ๐
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Just unboxed the Cards Against My Uterus game from Surrogacy Is and I am OBSESSED. ๐คฉ๐๐
This game is absolutely freaking fabulous. Think of all the wild ๐คช, awkward ๐ฌ, and oh-so-real moments we go through in the surrogacy worldโฆ now in card ๐ form. Itโs equal parts validating and โdid they really just say that?!โ ๐
Every single card feels like an inside joke I didnโt know I needed but 1000% deserved. This isnโt just a game, itโs a total moment.
If youโve ever been in the surrogacy trenches, had your uterus in the spotlight, & just love wildly inappropriate humor that hits close to the wombโฆ you need this in your life.
Game night just got a surro-gasmic upgrade. Peep ๐ the waitlist in the bio links ๐
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Rylea, one of the fantastic surrogates in our community, shares her answer to a question she gets asked all the time.
โ๐๐๐ง๐๐ฃโ๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐จ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐ ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐จ?โ
Hear what she has to say, then let us know how you felt in the comments!
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How important are escrow accounts in surrogacy? Ummmโฆ.so, so, SO IMPORTANT! ๐จ๐จ
โก๏ธ Swipe through our post here to learn why escrow accounts are important, what things you should look for when choosing an escrow company, and how they help you throughout your journey.
If you want to learn more about escrow accounts and how our team at Surrogacy Is can help you throughout your journey, letโs connect: surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
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