We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
We connect
amazing moms
with future parents
for an incredible journey.
This isn't just any
Surrogacy Journey...
…and we’re not a typical surrogacy agency. That’s why surrogates choose us first.
And it’s why we have one of the best surrogate support platforms in the industry.
For the last 3 years, Surrogacy Is has been inspiring the most amazing moms to become surrogates, helping them find their perfect agency, and supporting them along their surrogacy journey, at no cost to them.
That’s how we’ve helped over 1500 candidates start their surrogacy journeys since 2020.
And in our search to find the “perfect agency” for the incredible moms who choose to become surrogates, we’ve learned so much. We’ve learned how some of the most solid and supportive agencies thrive, and we’ve learned where many break down, even the best ones.
And in this search, we’ve realized something… to find our ideal agency, we needed to create it ourselves… and we did just that.
Surrogacy stories from
Real-Life Supermoms
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Here's what to know about how we advocate for surrogates...
We’ve designed our agency with YOU in mind…
We will be honest about whether or not we have parents who are looking for candidates just like you. If we don’t have the right match for you, we can share your profile with our partner agencies that we’ve vetted and trust, so you don’t waste hours filling out long-form applications only to be turned away or ignored or worse — land with an agency you regret!
We insist on stellar communication…
From your first contact with your Surrogate Advocate, through Intake, Matching, and Journey Coordination, you will always be up to date and have clarity on what’s coming next. If you have questions, you can count on us to pick up the phone or reply to your text or email the same day.
We help you find fair surrogacy compensation
We help you to set your base surrogacy compensation to make sure it’s fair and you are getting what you deserve for the generous gift you’re giving! Aside from your base, our benefit package is thoughtful and among the best (if not THE BEST) in the industry, because it was designed by surrogates who know the sacrifice it takes to help someone bring their baby into the world.
We’re with you every step of the journey
We provide free coaching to navigate the complex journey, through webinars, our online groups, and one-on-one calls whenever you need it! Each of our Surrogate Advocates are experienced surrogates themselves. Our Journey Coordinators have years of experience under their belts, and bring unique skills to the table such as a background in Social Work, Midwifery, and Mental Health. Our team is cohesive and committed to providing wrap around support for parents and surrogates on this once in a lifetime journey.
And the best part is...
advocating for surrogates benefits everyone.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Morgan & La’Phadra
Surrogate Advocate & Experienced Surrogate
We are true
surrogate advocates
A surrogate advocate is a person or group who truly advocates for the brave, amazing moms who decide to become surrogates.
We take being surrogate advocates very seriously. Being a surrogate advocate isn’t a marketing gimmick. It’s not a side-hustle. It’s everything.
Surrogates, in our eyes, are the most important piece of this equation. And being surrogate advocates doesn’t mean we don’t advocate for intended parents.
Quite the opposite.
We believe that advocating for surrogates is the key to the smoothest and most successful surrogacy journeys possible.
While most agencies say they “advocate” for the surrogate, do they really?
If you think about it, the perspective many agencies have comes down to human nature. Most agencies are intended parent focused, because that’s the ultimate client they’re designed to serve. And that’s okay! We serve intended parents, too!
After all, the purpose of a surrogacy agency is to help intended parents achieve their dream of having a baby, and we think that’s an absolutely noble purpose. It’s our purpose, too!
But far too often, the surrogate’s interests can be dismissed, so a true surrogate advocate helps balance that equation.
We’re not looking to tip the scales, just balance them.
No, we don’t think so. If someone truly advocates for surrogates, the interests and experience of the surrogate should be the mission of the company. Their organization should be surrogate focused first & foremost.
That doesn’t mean that intended parents aren’t a focus, as well. But it’s our philosophy that, a well-prepared, well-informed, well-supported surrogate is the cornerstone of the most successful surrogacy journeys.
How we serve intended parents is by taking great care of the surrogates who make the surrogacy journey possible.
And we’re not talking about creating surrogacy divas here. We’re talking about ensuring equal support, and mutual respect. We believe that, if the end goal is for the intended parent(s) to bring home their sweet baby, and for the surrogate (and her family) to have their lives changed in the most positive way, this is how it’s done.
Here’s what’s important to know about us. We’re surrogate advocates first. That’s how we started, and that’s what we’ll always be.
Every surrogate that goes through our process gets the following things that most (all?) agencies don’t offer:
- A surrogate advocate who supports you through your journey 100% free
- Access to a library of video and other resources to help you feel confident and prepared each step of the way
- Ongoing mental health support throughout the journey and up to 6 months postpartum
- One-on-one IVF Education and Injection Support
Most surrogacy agencies have long lists of intended parents waiting to be matched with their perfect surrogate. If an advocacy group is owned by such an agency, it might be difficult for them to truly encourage any surrogate who enters their process to consider all of her options when they really want her to work with their agency—regardless of whether that’s the best fit for her.
Because we spent our formative years building a platform and relationship with our partner agencies, it’s easy for us to know what each of their IP clientele is looking for and when a surrogate might be happier and have a better match through another program than our own. We only want to manage journeys that we can do an excellent job, so if we cannot offer that to a surrogate candidate, we have no motivation not to be honest about that!
And here’s what’s important for you to know about working w/ Surrogacy Is… we’ve spent the past 3+ years getting to know the ins and outs of over 100 agencies, and in that process we’ve narrowed it down to a small handful that truly meet the bar we set for our partners — if my sister wanted to be a surrogate, would I feel confident referring her to this agency? If the answer is not a resounding yes, then we don’t refer to them. It’s that simple.
But all this knowledge has also empowered us to create a program so special and unique, that takes the lessons from the best of the best and pitfalls we’ve seen so many agencies run into throughout our careers in this industry, that Surrogacy Is as an agency, is truly a gold standard in Journey Coordination and Support for Surrogates and Intended Parents. We’re so excited to be able offer this option to Surrogates and IP’s and make the journey feel seamless from beginning to end. We live for this work and to hear those words at the end of every journey “I could not have done this without you.”
We’ve got you.
Not just an agency, but yes.
We started off as surrogate advocates, and we’ll always be surrogate advocates first and foremost.
We’re not an agency that starts a “surrogate advocate group” as a marketing gimmick. If you’re already an agency, why not just advocate for surrogates as an agency, if you truly care about advocating for surrogates?
And there are agencies that truly do this for surrogates, don’t get us wrong. For example, the agencies we provided in the past as options for you are agencies who truly advocate for surrogates.
So, if anything, we’re surrogate advocates that started an “agency” to better serve our surrogates. If we can be the best option and fit for what you need in your journey, then we should be your agency.
Can you see the difference?
So, if you haven’t yet, take our 8-minute quiz, then schedule a 1-on-1 call with a surrogate advocate (they’re experienced surrogates, too!) and they can walk you through what surrogacy could look like for you and your family!
(The content above has been updated to better fit our definition of what a surrogate advocate is. To see our original copy, click here.)
We understand
every surrogate is unique.
The journey of surrogacy is an amazing, life-changing experience.
Moms get to help another family get started while bringing herself the opportunity to do the things she’s always dreamed of for her own family.
Every single woman who volunteers to take on this journey to help another family become whole, does so with lots of different ideas, expectations, and motivations.
Whether you’ve seen first-hand the struggles of infertility for someone you love and care about, or you are simply exploring the idea out of curiousity, it’s important that you are informed about the process, the risks, and the rewards of helping someone else in such a tremendous way.
As much as intended parents have ideas about who they want their surrogate to be, and how they imagine her lifestyle and values while caring for their unborn child, surrogates also have expectations and hopes for the type of family they want to share this journey with. It’s our goal to connect amazing moms with the right surrogacy agencies to bring their dream to life, too.
We believe with all our hearts that surrogacy is family, sisterhood, strength. Surrogacy is… Love.
Kristina
Experienced Surrogate
There is nothing more beautiful than someone who goes out of their way to make life beautiful for others.
A smooth journey requires
the right professionals.
A good surrogacy agency matches surrogates with hopeful people who want to have a baby. They thoroughly screen potential surrogates and parents and guide them through the entire process, including timely disbursement of funds to the surrogate, and providing support until a short while after delivery.
BUT, NOT ALL SURROGACY AGENCIES ARE CREATED EQUAL.
There are so many parties involved in the delicate emotional, legal and financial process and agency oversight is a must.
The right agency will make sure all medical bills are taken care of by the trust and escrow so that nothing remains on the surrogate’s shoulders after delivery.
We empower you to
design your journey.
Unlike going directly to any other agency, we have your best interest in mind from the jump. If we can’t meet what you’re looking for, we’re not afraid to tell you — but not just that, we’re equipped to help you find it through one of our trusted partner agencies!
Whether you find yourself fitting in perfectly with our program, or you choose one of our trusted partners, the agency will be responsible for communicating between attorneys, doctors, psychologists and others to make sure everyone is in the loop at all times so you don’t have to balance all the details.
Many fly-by-night agencies (and even some long-established “dinosaur” agencies!) are more focused on collecting their fees than they are on helping people. They are competing for the same pool of potential surrogates and intended parents and they are great making a sale, but not so great at delivering service.
Surrogates and Intended Parents who fall for their alluring ads and false promises can end up having to fend for themselves after matching.
And that's where
we come in...
Our founders have been surrogates 2 and 3 times each, and have worked closely with dozens of agencies throughout their careers.
Our Surrogate Advocates, who are also experienced surrogates, know what it’s like to be in your position both as novice first time surrogates and with more experience.
We know what it’s like to pick an agency and wonder, “was that the right choice? Did I choose the right agency?”
Sometimes you don’t know what you don’t know, so we’re here to help you decide, whether it’s our program, or one of the vetted agencies we partner with. You will land in a safe place with real people who will consider what you want out of your surrogacy journey, and help you get there.
We’ve been called “Surrogacy Doulas”… we think that fits us well!
A referral from us SAVES you dozens of HOURS and potential heartache.
Our short quiz will make sure you meet the deal-breaker requirements for any reputable agency, and it will also tell us which agencies you will qualify for and which ones you won’t.
While the basic guidelines are the same across the board, every agency is looking for certain types of candidates to match with their intended parents, and some have stricter BMI or Lifestyle requirements than others.
Your time is valuable and so are YOU!
See if you qualify to be a surrogate!
Kelsey
Experienced Surrogate
So... what's it like
to be a surrogate?
We’re looking for unicorns like you
You may not realize it, but your body’s ability to create a healthy baby AND bring it into the world isn’t just amazing — it’s rare.
You may not have felt special as you struggled to see your feet and you stopped fitting into your bras, but we promise: you really are so, so freaking special.
And we need moms just like you to bring joy to a family in the making and to your family as well.
Take our short 8-minute quiz!
Are we the real deal?
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Meet Our Founders...❤️
Sunshine Hanson
Founder, President, 3x Surrogate
Sunshine is fiercely independent, pragmatic and resourceful. As a teen mom, she earned her Bachelor’s degree in English Education from CSULB and went on to teach High School English, empowering students who needed to feel seen and heard by teaching them the art of written expression.
It was the example of a friend that inspired Sunshine to go out on a limb and try something as “crazy” as surrogacy and it absolutely changed her life for the better.
Sunshine has helped to bring four babies into the world, completing two families, across two continents, not including her own!
Now she is using her passion and experience to advocate for and support women in realizing their dreams of creating the most beautiful life they can for their families.
Casey Bojorquez
Founder, Vice President, 2x Surrogate
Everyone needs a mama, and at Surrogacy Is… that mama is Casey.
Casey Bojorquez is a big-hearted wife, mama, two-time surrogate, Co-Owner and Vice President of Surrogacy Is,. . . which really means she’s the go-to lady for anything and everything related to surrogate connection and community.
Casey joined forces with Sunshine and Kyle at the end of 2020 with the goal of providing a more comprehensive surrogate outreach and community focus to the company. Since the start of the partnership, she’s helped steer the direction of Surrogacy Is… to create a space where surrogates are truly advocated for and supported—every step of the way.
When Casey’s not making waves for surrogates, she can be found spending time with her family, at the beach or on another adventure finding a great hiking trail!
Kyle Hanson
Founder, CEO, CMO, Husband to 3x Surrogate
(that counts, right?)
Kyle is our OG surrogate-skeptic-turned-unashamed-cheerleader at Surrogacy Is…
He’s a dedicated father, husband, and ‘wizard behind-the-curtain’ of everything you see at Surrogacy Is. Motivated, logical, and hardworking, Kyle loves knowing how his team is making a difference every day.
As he’ll often share, he initially thought his wife, Sunshine, was crazy when she first said she wanted to be a surrogate. . . but after seeing the impact of surrogacy and the lives that were truly being changed, he was on board. And since then, has tirelessly helped build a company at advocates for the most integral part of surrogacy—the surrogates.
Kyle recently moved from San Diego to just outside of Savannah, Georgia with his incredible wife, Sunshine, their daughter, Jasmine, and their dogs, Dee Dee and Adora. When he’s not putting out fires, answering emails, or jumping on Zoom calls, he can be found trying to plan a “little party” or cruising the saltwater rivers of the Low Country. Despite now living in The South, he’s only said “y’all” once.
They say it takes a village to raise a child. Sometimes, it takes a village to have a child.
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Would you still be a surrogate...
without Surrogacy Is?
Frequently
asked questions
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Surrogacy is a process where a woman carries and delivers another person or couple’s child. This pregnancy happens through in vitro fertilization (IVF), which means this woman does not have any biological connection to the baby.
The surrogate is the ‘gestational carrier;’ this means she is providing the womb to carry the embryo for the Intended Parents (IP’s).
In surrogacy, there are Intended Parents, agencies, and surrogates.
The Intended Parents (IP’s) are the individuals looking to build their family or bring a baby into the world. The agencies work directly with the IP’s, helping them find the right surrogate candidates, coordinating with attorneys, helping with logistics (insurance, psychologists, contracts, etc.) and supporting them in the decision-making process. This way the IP’s can focus on developing a relationship with the surrogate! And the surrogates are the incredible mamas who help make it all happen!
Yes, but more. 😉 First & foremost, we’re Surrogate Advocates who support amazing moms in their surrogacy journeys. That’s how we started our first 3 years… solely working with surrogates. We’ve been helping amazing moms choose from vetted, ethical surrogacy agencies who are motivated to do their best work for our candidates.
We’ve taken all that experience and created what we like to think is the ideal agency for the amazing moms who choose to be surrogates, and the hopeful parents-to-be that are waiting for their bundle of joy.
We’re like your experienced surrogate best friend, who can guide you through this process… w/ no pressure ever.
Throughout our first 3 years solely working w/ surrogates as advocates, we’ve realized something:
There aren’t as many agencies who truly advocate for surrogates as we’d like… trust us… we’ve searched. And searched. And searched.
So we decided to start an agency of our own.
There’s no one perfect agency, but we’re dedicated to becoming yours.
We offer a quick (free!) quiz to help you see if you’d be a good candidate for surrogacy. Click here to take it now! |
There are several requirements for surrogates (in order to protect the health of both the surrogate and the baby). You can find them on our requirements page. Here are a few: – having at least one successful, full-term pregnancy – being within a recommended age range – having a ‘healthy’ BMI – free of tobacco and recreational drugs – having a strong support system To be honest, some of these requirements can be confusing (or, frankly, feel a bit limiting). So, once you take the quiz, if you have questions, feel free to reach out to us! We’d be happy to explain, provide clarity on your qualifications, or work with you on the next steps in your journey. |
We put ‘healthy’ in quotes for a reason—because what’s considered ‘healthy’ is so different for each person! And, depending on a myriad of other factors, you may not need to fall exactly within this range.
However, a BMI between 18-32 is recommended because this is what is considered medically healthy for a surrogate undergoing IVF and other treatments along the journey.
A BMI that falls under the range may be too low for a safe pregnancy and delivery. It may also point to underlying health conditions for the surrogate. A higher BMI can impact the effectiveness of the IVF treatment, how your body responds to the medication, and ovarian function in general. A higher BMI can also lead to pregnancy and birth complications, too, which is why this requirement is set–not only for surrogates but at all fertility clinics.
In short, the BMI range is all about ensuring the healthiest pregnancy possible.
First of all congratulations! Only 4 out of 10 women who take the quiz meet all of the requirements, so it’s super rare to have both the heart and the health history to qualify as a surrogate!
The next step after passing our 8-minute quiz is to schedule a Q&A with one of our awesome surrogate advocates. They’re experienced surrogates, too! They’ll walk you through the whole process, help to build your profile, determine your ideal compensation, and match you with the best agency out there specifically to match your unique wants, needs, and personality.
Yes! You can become a surrogate if you’ve had tubal ligation.
Tubal ligation is a surgery that involves cutting and tying the fallopian tubes (which prevents an egg from entering the uterus or sperm from passing from the tube to the egg).
In surrogacy, pregnancy happens through IVF—where the fertilized egg/embryo is transferred directly to the uterus—which doesn’t involve the tubes at all! So, in short, you can still bring your IP’s baby into the world even after tubal ligation.
- Typical compensation packages for surrogacy consist of a base compensation ranging from $45,000 – $75,000, based on several factors plus additional payments for milestones leading up to and throughout the pregnancy, such as medication start, embryo transfer, maternity clothing at second trimester, and more.
- All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parents’ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
- Compensation and Benefit Packages typically start once legal contracts are signed and a trust account is fully funded with the entire surrogate compensation and expenses.
- Surrogates receive their base compensation in monthly installments throughout the pregnancy.
Read more about surrogacy compensation: https://surrogacy.is/compensation/
No, your eggs won’t be used in the surrogacy process.
There are two types of surrogacy—traditional and gestational—and with gestational surrogacy (the type of surrogacy we focus on!), the IP’s eggs and sperm will be used.
So, in short, the surrogate will not be biologically related to the baby at all.
Although it might seem strange that your significant other needs a background check, this is a requirement in place to protect all aspects and all individuals in the surrogacy journey.
A background check (both for the surrogate and her spouse) helps to ensure the safety of the environment for surrogate and baby during pregnancy and birth.
(Don’t worry, the Intended parents undergo a background check too!)
Yes, you can’t have more than 2 C-sections (or 3 with a clearance letter from your OB) or more than 6 live births.
There are a few required vaccinations for surrogacy: TDAP, Varicella (chickenpox immunity), MMR (measles, mumps, rubella). Others, for example flu and COVID are flexible.
Some IP’s may have specific requirements for their surrogate to ensure safety during pregnancy and delivery, or to match their lifestyle and values.
It’s best to first take our short quiz to see if you qualify as a surrogate candidate. When you take the quiz, you’ll be able to see and understand the basic requirements.
From there, we will connect with you to learn your goals, perspectives, and values—and connect you with an agency that honors your choices.
Typically, 21-40. We’ve had cases up to 45 get approved by an IVF clinic, but it’s rare.
Every prospective surrogate must be at least 21 years old before she can be approved for surrogacy. This minimum age requirement is set by the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, based on what experts have identified as the best indicators of success for a gestational carrier.
But most importantly age restrictions exist only to protect the surrogate and the baby’s health and give the best chance for successful outcomes!
For us to help you become a surrogate, you need to be a U.S. citizen or U.S. permanent resident.
Yes! You absolutely can be a single mom and a surrogate. You just need to make sure you have a good support system. You might need emotional support or potentially someone to be with your kids while you are attending appointments or delivering your intended parents’ magical, miracle baby.
No. All medical expenses are covered by insurance or the intended parents/agency. All expenses are paid for the surrogate to meet with the parents’ IVF doctor for an in-person medical evaluation. If travel is required, those expenses are paid for as well as a per diem for meals and expenses.
Also, before surrogate pregnancy, typical benefits & compensation can include:
- Monthly non-accountable allowance starting at $250+ per month throughout the journey
- Mock Cycle Fee starting at $500+
- Medication Start Fee starting at $500+
- Signing and other bonuses starting at $1000+
- Embryo Transfer Fee starting at $1000+
- Health Insurance Monthly Premium (actual cost)
- Legal Counsel (actual cost)
Parents that have decided to choose surrogacy have already been through a lot! The couples that I carried for had already fallen in love with the EMBRYOS before they transferred them to my uterus. They knew the sex of the future baby, and that they had all the normal chromosomes they should have. They knew for a decade before trying surrogacy that they would find a way to bring those embryos to life. And that’s the story of a lot of those couples. They have invested so much time, hope, tears, and resources to make it possible for their children to be born. They will never change their mind about it! But if they did (which they won’t!) there are fully enforceable legal contracts in place, as well as a fully funded trust account that has your entire compensation and medical expenses in it before you even begin IVF medications. The legal contract even has provisions in place for a next of kin, should anything happen to the parents before the baby is born, so there is someone ready and able to take them home and love them when they are born. When you get to the matching stage and hear the parent’s stories, you will see. Intended parents love their children just as much as we love our own.
A gestational surrogate becomes pregnant via IVF. The embryo is created in a lab, where the intended mother or donor egg is fertilized with the intended father or donor’s sperm. The embryo is then implanted into the surrogate’s uterus. With this method, the surrogate is not related to the baby. The majority of surrogacy arrangements are gestational these days.
At first glance, it would seem obvious that a surrogate would get attached to the child, right?!
But as a surrogate, you go into the process with eyes wide open to the fact that the child you are caring for is not your own.There is not that sense of yearning you have when you’re carrying your own child, wondering if it will have your eyes or your husband’s nose. You are not choosing the baby’s name. You’re not imagining all of the big moments the way you do with your own sweet babies!
You go into the pregnancy in a very non-romantic, science-based way, and you know that this kid’s parents loved her before she was ever conceived, and fought so hard to make her life a reality.
In fact, you probably will feel more attached to the intended parents, and not the baby.
Nope! We partner with agencies all over the US, who work with surrogates, intended parents, and hospitals all over the US.
If you prefer a local match or less travel, we will help you find agency options that meet your needs, but geography won’t hurt your ability to become a surrogate.
Once we review your agency options with you and you choose your ideal agency, you’ll complete their intake process until you’re cleared to match. There are a lot more intended parents than surrogates, so matching is usually fairly quick for surrogates. From the time you complete the intake process to match, it takes about 30 days on average.
💯 you do! We work hard to find you the right agency who has the type of intended parents you want to help. We have a great relationship with our agencies, and they know how important it is to us that they find you the intended parents you’re hoping for!
While there are very few companies who call themselves surrogate advocates, we’re definitely not all the same. For example, Surrogacy Is…❤️ is founded and privately owned by experienced surrogates whose singular focus is to advocate for other women entering this process, in the way we wish we’d had when we were starting out.
At Surrogacy is… being a surrogate advocate is not a “gimmick” or a sales pitch. It is in the DNA of each member of our organization, and our sole purpose for existing.
While there are others out there who call themselves “surrogate advocates” most are owned or funded by agencies whose interest is to recruit surrogates into their program, whether or not it’s the right and best fit for each surrogate.
But wait, didn’t I hear you say that you’re an agency, too?
We’re a surrogate advocate group who created an agency to provide more choice to our surrogates. That’s very different than an agency who creates a “surrogate advocate” group to refer people to their agency.
Take our short 8-minute quiz now.
Who else channels their inner David Rose at these IVF injections and monitoring appointments like 🙄😒 Because we all know it’s worth it but would like to Can fast forward to the part where we’re pregnant 🤰🏽 instead!
#surrogatesupport #surrogatemothers #surrogacy #surrogacyislove #surrogateadvocate #surrogacyisamazing #surrogacyis
Let’s hear it for the supportive surrogacy partners! 👏🎉🤗🙌
It takes a special woman to be a surrogate, but it takes a special partner to go along this ride with her. They are the ones who help with shots, make all the grocery runs for pregnancy cravings, and lovingly say, “Look at the amazing thing YOU did. I am SO PROUD of you!” in the delivery room.
Surrogacy truly is a team effort in so many ways. Spread this message to all the supportive surrogacy partners you know and together let’s celebrate and thank them for everything they do, too!
#SurrogacyPartners #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Some mamas have to dream and work a little harder for their babies. And doesn`t that show the tremendous love and dedication they already have for their children? 💞
Often times these mamas have to go through heartache and lots of medical procedures. They also have to put a lot of trust into science and the help of strangers. When you factor in all the pieces that need to align to bring a baby earthside through surrogacy, you realize how much it truly is one of the most precious miracles on earth.
Mamas, if this sounds like your road to motherhood, we see you and we celebrate you. We know the journey is not easy, but the love within your heart is like no other. Your little one is so lucky to have a mom who has wanted and loved them so, so much.
#IntendedMom #MomThroughSurrogacy #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Why don’t the parents just adopt? Who else has heard this before during their surrogacy journey? 🫣🫢😵💫
Adoption is a beautiful process and it is absolutely the right way to go for some hopeful parents—and other times surrogacy is the right option for others. There is no wrong or right path to parenthood, but every parent should be able to choose what feels like the best option for them.
A lot of parents choose surrogacy because…
✨They want to have a biological connection with their children
✨They want to be involved in every step of the way…from the transfer to the birth!
✨There’s a legal contract from the beginning stating who the parents are (in adoption a legal contract doesn’t happen until after the birth and the birth parents are able to change their mind)
✨They already created embryos during their own attempt to become pregnant
(Just to name a few)
No parent should be shamed for how they choose to build their family. If a parent wishes to add a child to their life, then no matter if they choose the path of surrogacy or adoption, supporting them as they work towards that dream is the only thing that matters! 💜💜💜
#SurrogacyVsAdoption #PathtoParenthood #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Moms know they can reach out and often appreciate the balance between support and autonomy.
We’re all about advocacy over control, listening over intervening. That’s the true essence of support and advocacy. 💖
We’re here to be the friend to vent to, offer guidance, advocate when needed, & empower to help find own space for conflict resolution where you can feel empowered to do so on your own!
Mark your calendars for our next podcast episode coming up! We sat down and chatted with Jacqueline Baird, who you might recognize from her top-trailer podcast, “Motherhood Intended.” Jacqueline offers a refreshingly real perspective of her complicated journey to motherhood.
Make sure to check your favorite podcast platform on April 23rd to listen to this can’t-miss episode.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyIsPodcast #SurrogacyPodcast #IntendedMothers #IM #IPS #IntendedParents #Surrogacy #SurrogacyJourney
We know researching surrogacy agencies can take a lot of time and energy. Frankly, two things most mamas are running very low on. That`s why we`ve researched and vetted numerous agencies to create a list of only the best options to recommend to our surrogates.
We`ve worked hard to make the process of finding an agency as easy as possible for you.
✔️ To start, you`ll take our quick 8-minute quiz to see if you qualify as a surrogate.
✔️ Next, you’ll meet and get to know one of our advocates.
✔️ After you`ve been in touch with an advocate, you`ll work on your profile.
✔️Once completed, your advocate will send your profile to our agency and partner agencies.
✔️ Then, an agency advisor will be in touch within 24 hours with the list of agencies you qualify with and to go over compensation package details so you can make an informed choice on which agency you want to move forward with.
✔️ You’ll then transition to working with your preferred agency, and our tribe will continue to cheer you on with monthly check-ins throughout the process!
The most important thing to us is helping as many surrogates have the best journey possible. If you want to start the process of finding the right agency for you, start by taking our 8-minute quiz at surrogacy.is/life-changing-quiz !
“What will my family think of me being a surrogate?”
This is a question that goes through a lot of women’s minds when they first start considering surrogacy. Most families won’t have known anyone else who has been a surrogate before, so like Daisja’s family, they might be super curious about the overall process and will excitedly cheer you on through every step of the process.
Some families won’t get and they never will. And that’s okay. If surrogacy is important to you, what others think won’t affect your decision. Instead, you’ll be able to recognize the supportive people around you and bring them along with you on your beautiful journey!
How did your family react when you told them you wanted to be a surrogate? Let us know in the comments below ⤵️
#SurrogacyFamily #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
When you’re on a surrogacy journey, it can be easy to get into your head. Sometimes the “what ifs” can make you feel anxious and doubtful.
We know this process is unique and it can definitely feel overwhelming at times, but when your mind starts to race with negativity remember to take a deep breath, clear your mind, and try to focus on the positives. If you always try to anticipate the next bad thing that could happen, you end up putting yourself through unnecessary stress. If it’s out of your hands, it deserves freedom from your mind and that means not letting it control all your thoughts.
I know this can be easier said than done, but we’re always here to be that friend that’ll remind you to be kind to your mind and choose to find excitement and joy in the RIGHT now.
#SurrogacyFamily #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Like Megan’s husband, a lot of partners are confused when their wife says she’s thinking about becoming a surrogate.
Most of the time they don’t understand why she would want to put her body through the discomfort of pregnancy and the pain of childbirth for someone else. But if it’s important to their wife and something she really wants to do, more often than not the partners are excited to get on board with the idea too (Not going to lie, the compensation always helps too 😂)
You’d be surprised how many partners end up saying the surrogacy journey touched their hearts and ended up being super meaningful to them as well. Supportive surrogacy partners are true superheroes too! 🦸♂️💪
#SurrogacyFamily #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Seriously, between fertility rollercoasters, IVF madness, and now surrogacy, it feels like karma’s playing a cruel game. But remember, it’s not your fault.. just a crappy hand 🃏 you’ve been dealt.
It’s okay to feel the weight of it all. The anger, frustration, and impatience. And amidst it all, don’t forget you’re allowed to feel all that alongside gratitude for your surrogate.
Here’s to embracing the rollercoaster with all its ups and downs.
#embracethejourney #surrogatesupport #surrogacy #surrogacyislove #surrogacyisamazing #surrogacyis #intendedfathers #intendedmothers #intendedparents
Welcome to the surrogacy life: Once you’ve nailed the first journey, there’s no turning back! It’s like planning a vacation except you’re the destination and the journey’s a wild ride.
Buckle up, baby, we’re in for round two... and maybe even a trilogy! 🎤👶✨
#SurrogateLife #babyonboard
🚨 Arizona’s Supreme Court takes us on a time-travel trip to 1864 with their recent abortion ban reinstatement which was a civil war-era law written BEFORE Arizona was even a state and before women could vote. Seems like the someone forgot that we’re in the 21st century. 😒 While they’re busy flipping through history books, we’re fighting for rights in the present. ✊
We are not ovary-acting! This leap back to the 19th century isn’t just regressive.. it’s dangerous. Medically necessary terminations save lives and are healthcare, not criminal acts. Let’s not forget the impact on surrogacy too. It’s time to reject archaic laws and prioritize health and autonomy not only for us but for our daughters and granddaughters. 👩👧👦
Say it with us! 📣 BANS OFF OUR BODIES! RESPECT FEMALE EXISTENCE OR EXPECT OUR RESISTANCE! Because the hardest decision a woman and intended parent can make is not anyone but ours to make.
#mybodymyrights #backtothefuture #progressnotregression #healthcare #surrogacyrights
IP Intake/Matching Manager wanted!
We are looking for an individual who truly loves people, is an empathetic communicator, and operates with integrity, not only toward clients, but in all areas.
The Matching Manager will take a collaborative approach with the Journey Coordination and Intake Managers to improve efficiency and the overall experience for our clients moving through the surrogacy process.
This person is a leader who can manage their team and their time effectively, fostering an environment of mutual respect and collaboration. The right candidate has a heart and an intellect that are much larger than their ego!
The right person for this role has a track record of motivational leadership, designing procedures and SOPs, and training others to grow and succeed within the organization.
If you’re looking to join a compassionate team with steady growth on the horizon, we’d love to hear from you!
Salary from $65K-$85K DOE.
https://jobs.gusto.com/postings/surrogacy-is-matching-manager-ca0f7178-6bda-40c7-ade5-698acb2cb838?fbclid=IwAR1VEcCPVCqQGnoBDzRhCnBE4e8qjLCrjTThaq0L42UO2gwF0rZfr_895_w_aem_AWQY7TswZJWNgTCGlWfEobvrVjF4HJoLFQSbEy1vHFRTND158dKKy6UOUNNgjWPCl6SHyK5qQnoFKQLK5zCUSI8F
Starting the surrogacy process as an intended parent can sometimes feel overwhelming and daunting. A lot of times you don’t know where to start or how long you should expect everything to take. This can feel especially hard to grapple with these unknowns if your road before surrogacy was already fueled with so many emotions and hopeful wishes. We get that. As an agency, we try to make the whole process feel as stress-free, manageable… and dare we even say, ENJOYABLE as possible for you!
With us, you have a friend in all of this. So not only will we provide you with clear timelines and processes of what to expect (like shown here) but we’ll also give your case dedicated time and care. Most importantly, we promise to find you a surrogate match that has been screened and cleared within 90 days or less. And one thing you should know about us, we don’t make promises we can’t keep!
If you’re a new intended parent starting the surrogacy journey, we would love to chat about how we can help you throughout the whole process… from step 1 all the way to the excitement of step 9!
Find out more about our agency or connect with our intended parent coordinators here today!
surrogacy.is/for-intended-parents
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Surrogacy changes lives in the most beautiful ways. Many women say they feel like a better person on the other side of their journey and they forever feel a part of a special community that becomes very dear to their hearts.
If you’re interested in starting the life-changing experience of surrogacy, visit the link in our bio to take our short 8-minute quiz today!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Here’s to all the surrogate baddies out there who’ve rocked their journeys! Cheers 🥂 to you for not just making dreams come true, but for being the dream yourself. Keep slaying, because the world needs more heroes like you. 💪
And shoutout to all the intended parents too! You believed in the impossible, defied the odds, and made miracles happen.
Together, you’ve rewritten the narrative of possibility. Props to your unwavering belief and resilience.
#surrogacy #mominspo #surrogacyis #surrogacyislove #surrogacyagency #powerofbelief
Don’t miss our latest podcast episode with Alexandra French from Gift of Surrogacy Foundation. In it, we discuss the need for more resources for intended parents facing financial constraints during a surrogacy journey and how the Gift of Surrogacy Foundation aims to help make it easier for families.
Listen to it now on your favorite podcast platforms ➡️ click the link in our bio 🔗
#SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyPodcast #Surrogacy #IntendedParents #IP #GiftofSurrogacy
There are so many opinions and discussions around surrogacy compensation. On one end of the spectrum, you hear people saying “That is WAY too much money!” and on the other end, you hear “That’s only $2 an hour when you break it down… that’s NOT nearly enough!”
But truthfully, if money was the main motivator to become a surrogate, there would be no price tag big enough to make it worth it. If it was ALL about the money, there would never be a sense of fulfillment. If you don’t feel that tug at your heart or can imagine what it feels like to yearn for a child of your own, then the compensation alone will never be enough to convince you to do it. There has to be some kind of altruism.
That’s why women don’t rely on the compensation they receive from surrogacy as a necessity. It’s more of a means to build extra cushion, not something they need to live off of. It’s a very kind thank-you from their intended parents for the discomfort she goes through and the time she’s put in to make their biggest dream come true.
Because that moment when a family is born… THAT’S the main motivator for surrogates—and the compensation really is just the sweet bow on top.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogacyCompensation
Hey, friend. We know it’s easy to put everyone else before yourself but this #WorldHealthDay we’re reminding you to prioritize healthier habits for your mind, body, and soul.
If you need some ideas, you can try adding one of our favorite habits into your day:
🩵 Taking a walk outside
🩵 Enjoying 30 minutes of alone time (taking a relaxing bath, reading a book or binging that new show everyone is talking about… whatever your heart desires!)
🩵 Finding & fixing a new delicious and healthy recipe from TikTok
🩵 Listening to a guided meditation
🩵Getting your heart pumping at a fun workout class
Remember you can’t pour from an empty cup, so make sure you’re making time for YOU, hun! There are so many things that can contribute to an overall happier and healthier version of you.
What are your favorite ways to feel good? Comment below to help spread some motivation!
#WorldHealthDay #PrioritizeSelfCare #LiveLifetotheFullest #HealthyHabits #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Some days are long and hard, but don’t forget… YOU✨ GOT✨ THIS!
We’ve probably caught you while you’re sneaking a quick moment for yourself but this post didn’t find you by accident. It’s here to remind you that your vibe is infectious and beautiful. We see you trying to tackle everything on your to-do lists, making the effort to create unforgettable memories with your kiddos, and squeezing in small moments of self-care. Others might try and drain your energy and spread chaos… but don’t forget the best way to protect your peace is to focus on what matters most.
So, remember to smile because your magnificent energy and good heart are worth sharing with the world.
#PositiveEnergy #MotivationalPosts #VibeCheck #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Having a good agency by your side makes all the difference, especially since most women are juggling full-time jobs and families of their own outside of their surrogacy journey. For an agency to be on our partner list, we have to feel confident that if we sent our sister there she would be in good hands. That’s why to be on our agency partner list we look for a couple things:
💜 Good Communication
💜 Manageable Caseloads
💜 Ways to Support Surrogates
💜 Ethical Agency Practices
💜Fair Compensation
Just to name a few. We have high standards (sorry, not sorry). 😬 Too often surrogates and intended parents don’t get the attention and care they deserve from a journey and we are determined not to allow that to become the norm of the industry.
What’s important to you in an agency? Let us know by commenting below!
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #SurrogactSupportGroup #SurrogacyTribe
Surrogacy is such an exciting process, so exciting that once you qualify you might be ready to go, go, go.
Wellllllll, 😬 if you ask any surrogate they’ll break it to you that the whole process is a lot of moments of hurry up and wait. But, that’s okay! You don’t want to rush anything. (Trust us on this).
During your journey, you DO want to:
💜 Take time to collect all your medical records and give the experts plenty of time to review them
💜 Get into doctor appointments and get labwork done as soon as you can when they are requested
💜 Talk to different agencies and parents to make sure you find the match that feels like the absolute right fit for you
💜 Review all the details of your legal contract with a professional to make sure everyone’s on the same page
💜 Take time to savor every second of your journey after that because it can go by so fast. Before you know it you’re at the finish line, and the waiting in the beginning feels like such a distant memory.
No matter where you are in your journey, remember we’re here to chat and cheer you on for every step. 🫶
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #TeamSurrogate #SurrogactSupportGroup #SurrogacyTimeline #SurrogacyWaitingGame #HurryUpAndWait
Did you know that surrogacy can be contagious?!
In a good way. 🤒🙅♀️ The feel-good sentiments that come with a surrogacy journey really do tend to spread.
That’s why you hear many surrogates doing multiple journeys or that women felt inspired to become a surrogate themselves after watching an acquaintance or friend be a surrogate for someone else.
Most surrogates can’t help but recommend surrogacy to anyone willing to listen to their story. That’s why it was so important to us to create a surrogacy support group (over 1,800 mamas and counting!) to help every surrogate have a community to cheer her on throughout her journey. We also wanted to create a space for anyone interested in becoming a surrogate to learn more about her options.
When you reach out to Surrogacy Is, our tribe of advocates will help you navigate every step of surrogacy and find the perfect agency match for you—whether that’s our agency or one of our agency partners we’ve thoroughly vetted. No matter what, we’re #TeamSurrogate!
To find out more about working with our tribe, click here to take our quiz, then ask your surrogate advocate for a group invite: surrogacy.is/life-changing
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #TeamSurrogate #SurrogactSupportGroup #SurrogacyTribe #SurrogacySisters
Today we’re proudly donning blue to honor Autism Awareness Day. 💙 While today is a special day, we believe every day should be autism awareness day.
At Surrogacy Is, we’re big on applauding the unique superpowers of individuals. We believe autism isn’t a disability, but an ability to see things differently. That’s a special superpower, that not everyone has.
To all the diverse, beautiful minds and personalities out there, we are so glad what you bring to the world.
#AutismAwareness #InclusionMatters #DifferentNotLess #Acceptance #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
You don’t want to miss this touching podcast with Alexandra French from the Gift of Surrogacy Foundation. Alexandra shares her personal experience of choosing to pursue surrogacy after her cancer diagnosis and all the joys and challenges that came with her journey.
She also shares how the Gift of Surrogacy Foundation aims to help intended parents achieve their dreams through grants to cover surrogacy expenses and supports them through the emotional and financial aspects of a surrogacy journey.
It is worth the listen! Make sure to find us on your favorite podcast platform and hit that 🔔 so you can be notified when it’s ready to enjoy.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #thegiftofsurrogacy #surrogacygrants #surrogacyisapodcast #surrogactpodcast #surrogatepodcast #intendedparentpodcast
Ah, it’s April Fool’s Day! 🎉 If we’re being honest, we have a love/hate relationship with this holiday. It’s a day that causes everyone to be on high alert and to question everything 😂
Your feed might be filled with jokes and pranks today, but we’re interrupting the mischief to say we hope your day is filled with laughter and playfulness. Today is the start of April which can mean that new beginnings and warmer weather are near... and that alone is a reason to smile! 😁
What are some of the funny pranks you like to play today? Or have you seen any clever stunts from companies today? Share the fun with us in the comments below 👇
#AprilFoolsDay #LaughterIsTheBestMedicine #PlayfulSpirit #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
When we hear about anyone trying to take advantage of surrogates or intended parents, consider us officially ticked off. 🤬
Being an ethical surrogacy agency & advocacy group is all about spreading love 💕, support 🫂, and empowerment ✊ to incredible surrogates and intended parents.
We’re here to fiercely protect and advocate for our surrogacy community, no ifs, ands, or buts about it.
🐰🌷🐣 Hoppy Easter, everyone!
Whether you’re into the spiritual significance of Easter, the thrill of egg hunts and chocolate treats, or simply enjoying the arrival of spring, we hope you’re having an egg-cellent time!
No matter your beliefs or customs, let’s embrace this day as a symbol of hope, fresh beginnings, and the magnificent tapestry of our world.
Wishing you an egg-ceptional day filled with love, laughter, and a sprinkle of that enchanting Easter magic. 🌈💐
#HoppyEaster #SpringCelebration #SpringVibes #SpringBlooms #ChocolateEggs #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Here`s your reminder to give yourself a little extra self-love today 💜 & tag a friend who needs a self-love boost today!
Mantras are a beautiful way to do this and you can repeat them in your head, out loud, read them, or have them on display.
Repeat to yourself:
🌟 I am worthy of love and respect.
🌟 I am enough just as I am.
🌟 I deserve happiness and fulfillment.
🌟 I am capable of achieving my goals.
🌟 I am strong and resilient.
🌟 I choose to focus on the positive and let go of negativity.
🌟 I trust in my abilities and believe in my potential.
🌟 I am deserving of self-care and self-compassion.
🌟 I am a beautiful and unique individual.
🌟 I am grateful for all that I have and all that is yet to come.
Embrace these affirmations and let them guide you towards a place of self-love and empowerment. You are deserving of all the love and happiness in the world.
#SelfLove #SelfLoveAffirmations #Affirmations #Mantras #SelfLoveQuotes #motherhoodtips #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy
It really be like that though 😆
Being a surrogate & intended parent is like riding a rollercoaster 🎢 . First, you’re on top of the world 🌍 🙌.. You’re done with intake, officially matched, medically cleared feeling like you could conquer anything.
Then, the legal paperwork 📑 hits you like a ton of bricks, and suddenly you’re drowning in a sea of contracts. And just when you think you’ve caught your breath, IVF injections 💉 come along to remind you that surrogacy is not easy… BUT ITS ALWAYS WORTH IT!
Hang in there yall, we’re in this together 😅
#intendedparents #surrogate #surrogacy
#surrogacyislove #surrogacyjourney #surrogacyrocks #surrogacyagency #surrogacyis #surrogacyadvocate
Overcoming Surrogacy Fears: Family, Support, and Growth! 🌈❤️
What was Jamilia’s biggest fear when delving into surrogacy?
What would her family think?!
Despite her confidence in her desire to be a surrogate, their support still mattered. Sometimes we must accept as surrogates that people won’t fully understand, and it won’t always feel great. But you can choose to feel empowered to educate loved ones over focusing on frustration, just like Jamilia did. 💪📚
So focus on transforming frustration into understanding, one step at a time. 💖
#SurrogacyJourney #FamilySupport #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Ready for your first call 🤙 with an agency?
It’s normal to feel a little nervous, but rest assured they are here to support you--and we`re here to offer some tips on how to best prepare for this!
⌚ Make sure to keep your appointment and show up on time. This is a huge evaluation of your level of commitment to surrogacy.
📲 Be responsive to communication by replying to email/text/call within 24 hours.
💓 Be honest, open, and kind!
🗣️ Be upfront and clear about your expectations--including intended parent/surrogate relationship preferences, stance on termination, work and travel priorities, and communication desires.
🌟 Most importantly, be yourself, and let your personality shine!
Remember, it`s a two-way street: You`re interviewing them just as much as they are interviewing you. So, trust your instincts and lead with your heart!
#SurrogacyIntake #SurrogacyExpectations #SurrogacyFAQS #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Sometimes the greatest thing you could ask for in a surrogacy journey is a trusted friend and advocate––and that’s exactly what you’ll find with us. 🌟❤️
From the start, Alyssa has felt Surrogacy Is by her side, advocating for her with genuine care. 🤝 She’s felt this as a beacon of support, checking in every step, answering every question, and radiating positivity. 🌈
“Having Surrogacy Is with me through every twist and turn makes this journey truly special.”
#SurrogacySupport #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy
Embryos 🪺 hold the potential for life, yet they lack the ability to consent. Their journey is delicate, and their fate is uncertain.
We interviewed Alease, who as an embryologist, sees the intricacies of life’s beginnings.
She shared with us how crucial it is for legislation to acknowledge this complexity and consider the impact on individuals undergoing IVF and facing infertility.
Share your experiences with loved 🥰 ones. Let them understand the weight of these decisions so we can shift the focus into safer solutions.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency #embryologist #embryo #reproductiverights
In this episode we embark on learning about the unique journey of Surrogacy in the UK, where love and altruism meet to create families.
Chief Executive at SurrogacyUK explains how deep connections between surrogates and intended parents are fostered through a special "get to know" period of 3-6 month, setting the stage for a meaningful partnership. Meanwhile, the US offers a compensated model, providing surrogates with financial support during their pregnancy journey and more of a fast tracked matching process.
Tune in to here this global conversation on surrogacy as Sarah from the UK shares insights and experiences, highlighting the diverse approaches within our different communities. By embracing these differences and learning from each other, we can create a more inclusive and supportive environment for all involved in the surrogacy process and potentially learn from one another!
Podcast Link 🔗 in bio!
surrogacyisapodcast.buzzsprout.com
#SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #GlobalSurrogacy #InclusiveSurrogacy #SurrogacyUK
When you do something as magical 🌟 as surrogacy, it’s hard not to want to share it with the world!
Have you ever found yourself biting your tongue trying to talk about anything else as an experienced surrogate, intended parent, or fertility specialist!?
It’s like trying to hide a unicorn 🦄 in a petting zoo 🐴.. eventually the magic just has to be talked about!
#trending #surrogacyis #surrogacyislove #surrogacyisagency #surrogacyagency #surrogacyrocks #surrogacyisawesome
Surrogacy is a beautiful team effort 🤝 , where a surrogate, intended parent(s), an agency, fertility specialists, and prenatal doctors come together with autonomy and shared desires.
We work hand in hand, navigating the journey with grace and understanding that some things are within our control, while others are not.
It’s a partnership built on trust, communication, and unwavering support, as we all work towards the common goal of bringing a precious life into the world. 💜 💙 💛 💚
Together, we embrace the challenges and celebrate the victories, knowing that the end result is worth every moment of the journey. Surrogacy truly exemplifies the power of teamwork and the beauty of creating families.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy
Surrogacy is a journey of surrender and strength. Embrace the beauty of releasing the uncontrollable and channel your energy into what you can influence.
🩷 Set achievable goals and realistic expectations.
🩷 Celebrate every small victory on your journey.
🩷 Don`t be afraid to ask for help and build a strong support network.
🩷 Share responsibilities with your partner, family, or friends.
🩷 Practice mindfulness to stay present in the moment.
There are many parts of a surrogacy journey that intended parents and surrogates have no control over. It can often feel frustrating, disappointing, and hard to be patient. But magic takes time. So, do your best to release expectations and lean into each milestone as a success.
#motherhoodtips #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy
Waiting five days for the HCG pregnancy test feels like waiting for Santa Claus on Christmas Eve—except Santa’s late, and you’re not sure if he’ll show up at all!
So what’s a surrogate to do?
Take matters into her own hands with at-home pregnancy tests, because who has time for patience when you’re incubating a future rockstar? 🕒🤰
#surrogacy #surrogacyislove #surrogateadvocate #surrogacyisamazing #surrogacyis #surrogacyagency #surrogacyisagency
Immediately after the Alabama ruling, we interviewed Dr. Gad Lavy, Founder and Medical Director of @nefertility. He shared with us the concern over potential restrictions on contraceptive freedoms emphasizing the need to defend our hard-earned rights.
“It’s about basically, liberty, freedom, living in a free society,” as Lavy explains it. The interplay of private beliefs and governmental policies highlights the fine line between honoring varied perspectives and protecting shared freedoms. We all have our opinions but it’s not right to push those within the government.
“The fact that these rules are passed in these states means that there is support”. This is crucial to understanding it’s not one case but as a whole something we must plan and stand up for.
#SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
Delivery day for a surrogate comes with a rush of emotions that hits you with the realization that you are about to give your intended parents their beautiful baby... fulfilling a dream that isn’t yours, but you’re lucky enough to witness coming true. 🌟 💜
The joy and fulfillment of knowing you helped create a family is overwhelming. It all happens so fast, but in that moment, it’s all worth it.
The bond you share with the intended parents is unbreakable, and the gratitude they express is immeasurable.
#DeliveryDay #IntendedParents #DreamsComeTrue #SurrogacyIs #SurrogacyIsLove #SurrogacyJourney #SurrogacyAgency #Surrogacy #SurrogacyIsAgency
This goes out to those who’ve held so much strength & hope amidst the echoes of loss.
Pregnancy After Loss Awareness Month reminds us of the courage it takes to embark on the journey to parenthood for those of us who have struggled with infertility and/or suffered loss.
May this month be a beacon of support and solidarity for all on the path to welcoming new life after grief. 🌈💛 #PALAwareness #NewBeginnings #RainbowBaby
In a recent conversations with Angela Mook-Richardson, @alcea_surrogacy Agency Owner, we got to the heart 💜 of many concerns that the Alabama ruling has brought up.
Angela urges advocacy for reproductive rights & against limiting choice and a collective effort to uphold our reproductive health rights. 🪺💪
“We don’t have the safety nets beforehand to say you can do all you can to prevent a pregnancy. Those don’t feel like pro-life concepts to me. We’re trying to position people in a way that they’re forced into parenthood. It villainizes the poor. It villainizes women. It villainizes anyone and everyone that can’t uphold that patriarchy.”
When you’re faced with a choice that is difficult, we have to speak up 🗣️, we have to be loud 🪧, and we have to continue to have our voices heard 📣because that’s the only thing that will continue to remind people that these choices have actual impact on us all.
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📋 The Ideal Process for Surrogates and Intended Parents to Meet: Through an agency that conducts thorough screenings and creates detailed profiles, matching both parties based on shared values and preferences.
But your surrogacy agency should go beyond being just a matchmaker; they should be your trusted companion on this heartfelt journey, whether you are an aspiring parent or considering surrogacy.
💕 For Intended Parents: A reputable agency understands the intricacies of your journey and gently guides you in finding the perfect surrogate who shares your family`s dreams and aspirations.
💜 For Surrogates: A supportive agency ensures that you are valued and respected, creating a safe and honorable environment for your incredible journey. They will guide you to find the ideal parent(s) who can provide the support you need!
🤝 Surrogacy is a joint endeavor for hopeful parents and extraordinary surrogates. A responsible agency treats both paths with equal importance, ensuring a harmonious and compassionate process.
🌈 That`s why you want to choose an agency that is dedicated to making your surrogacy experience as enriching and seamless as possible, every step of the way. Without the expectation of vague match times or upfront costs from intended parents.
We strive to be that perfect agency for both surrogates and intended parents.
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Big news in Michigan! Surrogacy just got a major win! 🙌 Less hoops to jump through for parents navigating the surrogacy process.
The new law means intended parents can now claim their biological children without the extra hassle. It’s a significant step forward, recognizing the importance of surrogacy in family building.💗
This change paves the way for smoother journeys to parenthood, celebrating the love of families from the very beginning. Here’s to progress and easier paths ahead! 🎉
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Have you ever wondered if you could still qualify as a surrogate even if you’ve experienced miscarriages and/or abortions in your past? 🤔
The answer is: Yes, it’s still possible to qualify, but there are a few important details to keep in mind.
The American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) has a three-loss maximum for any combined past losses. The reason behind this is due to the potential impact on our uterine lining that both miscarriages and these procedures can cause. So although the limit is 3 in total, many clinics will review the details surrounding the losses to ensure safety is heavily considered.
It’s also important to acknowledge that navigating the emotional and physical journey of surrogacy after experiencing a pregnancy loss can be daunting, so this will be taken into consideration as well. 💕
✨ If your most recent pregnancy was a healthy full-term delivery and you’ve had no more than three prior combined miscarriages and/or abortions, then you’re likely qualified under this umbrella.
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😊 Happy International Day of Happiness! 😊
Let`s celebrate by embracing a positive outlook on life, which can often brighten the world around us. Today, take a moment to cherish the little things that add joy to your life.. like your child`s laughter 😃, finding spare change in your pocket 💵, or the beautiful wonders of nature (that we often take for granted) 🌈.
Remember, happiness isn`t just a destination--it`s a lifelong journey that we should embrace wholeheartedly.
We have the power to make happiness 😍 go viral! When we freely share our smiles, kindness, and laughter, our energy is magnetic 🧲 and can result in uplifting one another.
What lights you up inside?! 🌟💫✨
Let us know in the comments and join the wave of happiness by tagging a friend or sharing this to your stories!
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Dive into the world of surrogacy as we explore contrasting approaches in the UK 🇬🇧 and US 🇺🇸!
Join us when this Episode drops next Tuesday, March 26th on an insightful journey where love, altruism, and diverse perspectives converge to shape families.
Discover how deep connections are forged in the UK’s altruistic model, while the US offers a compensated path with rapid matching. Hear Sarah’s experiences and insights as we celebrate the beauty of inclusive surrogacy.
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The scenario where intended parents change their minds and the surrogate gets “stuck” with the baby is a common fear, and a common misconception.
In our experience and those of surrogates we’ve connected with, it’s unheard of. 🙉 Intended parents embark on surrogacy as their last hope to grow their family—investing time, resources, and finances.
Is it impossible? No. But in addition to the unlikelihood, a good agency should always ensure there are legal protections in place to make sure that doesn’t happen.
The trust placed in a surrogate is huge, and there’s no doubt that the intended parents are committed to bringing their precious baby home. 💕🏡
It’s important to ask these questions and that’s why we’re doing our best to debunk the myths and celebrate the unwavering bonds in surrogacy!
Comment here or message us if you have more questions, and we’ll connect you with an experienced surrogate who’s walked a mile in your shoes. (Those are super cute shoes, by the way... where’d you get them?)
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